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When I was a teenager, there was a boy who liked me. He invited me to go swimming in a popular river in the community we lived in. Now, that river was a place my parents warned us never to go near. My mum was especially strict about it. She used to say the river didn’t like non-indigenes, and there had been quite a few deaths connected to it. I remember she even warned my brother seriously when he once mentioned going there. I think they even announced in church for parents to tell their children to stay away.
Interestingly, that same river was where I got baptized—though in a different area, the sand dredging site that’s more controlled. But still, this boy kept asking, and one day when my parents were out, I followed him—and a few others—to the river.
Now that I think of it, neither of us knew how to swim. We were young and just wanted to have fun, but looking back now, it was such a dangerous thing to do. The part of the river we went to was near an abandoned school. We just got in the water and stayed there for a while. I even went near a narrow part at one point, not knowing how risky it was. Thank God nothing happened.
Afterward, I rushed home, took my bath, applied some cream, and acted like nothing had happened—because my mum could always tell when someone had been in the water. She’s from Rivers State, so she just had that sensitivity. She used to look at my brother and say, “You went to that river,” and she’d be really upset.
As for me, I never dipped my head, so my face stayed dry, no red eye, and looked normal. I didn’t even have proper swimwear—just regular clothes and a change of clothes. But what’s interesting is that even though I didn’t dip my head, whenever my mum came back, she would still look at me like she sensed something was off. She was that perceptive.
We did that three times—completely unsupervised. Looking back now, I know I didn’t act wisely at all. It was careless and dangerous.
But just recently, God reminded me of that and told me, “I protected you.” That really touched me. Now that I understand better, I realize that could have easily been a trap. But God stepped in, even when I wasn’t thinking straight.
So I just want to thank Him for His mercy and protection. Even when I was unaware, He was watching over me.
So I just want to thank Him for His mercy and protection. Even when I was unaware, He was watching over me.
Neither of you knew how to swim?? How can parents and schools allow their children to grow up without being at least an adequate swimmer. Children don't have to be Olympic champions, but they have to be capable of saving themselves in water.
ReplyDeleteWell, I understand you but not everyone takes that as a priorityand this depends on background and parental preferences. I agree that knowing how to swim is important, and i wihs i knew but somehow deep inside i never really wanted to learn. I just don't want to really play with water, to be honest. Maybe I can still consider learning.
DeleteTer Deus na vida é ter alegria no coração. Uma boa lembrança embora tenha sido perigosa.
ReplyDeleteCumprimentos poéticos
A good memory indeed. Thank you.
DeleteIt seems the ideal age for children to start learning to swim is around 4 to 6 years old. I agree on this, as swimming can significantly boost a child's self-confidence.
ReplyDeleteKnowing how to swim is an advantage, but I am trying to prioritize it, and perhaps one day I will succeed in doing so.
DeleteDe niños todos hemos realizado alguna travesura, como el ir a bañarnos al río. Por suerte el que tenía cercano no era por lo general peligroso.
ReplyDeleteSaludos.
You are right, but glad I won't take such a crazy move right now. Hahahaha
DeleteWhen we are younger, we sometimes do things that can be risky and dangerous, fortunately God always protects and guides us.
ReplyDeleteYou are right, God protects us.
DeleteCholdren/young people often act carelessly. Fortunately, nothing bad happened.
ReplyDeleteI thank God for his protection.
DeleteΠραγματικά μεγάλη εμπειρία, Μέλοντι. Είναι κάποιες τέτοιες στιγμές, που βιώνεις αυτήν την αόρατη μεγάλη παρουσία δίπλα σου. Ευτυχώς μένει μονάχα μια κακή ανάμνηση το περιστατικό. Την καλησπέρα μου.
ReplyDeleteYou are right, and thanking him is what we can offer.
DeleteMelody, I also didn't know how to swim for a very long time. I today swim very average. I only learned when I took swimming lessons, when an indoor swimming pool was made in my city.
ReplyDeleteMelody, I salute you!
Well, knowing how to swim is an important skill and I hope to starting looking towards that by God's grace.
DeleteI think we all did things like that when we were young, not fully grasping the risks we were taking. I'm glad to read that nothing bad happened. xxx
ReplyDeleteThank you; learning is a process and God is faithful in protecting us through our mistakes.
DeleteAmazing story! Thank you :)
ReplyDeleteYou are welcome.
DeleteHey Melody. I enjoyed reading this post so much. It scares me to think about you going into that river water. Thankfully, God looked after you, and also me through many foolish things I did years ago. Thank you so much for visiting my blog. The comment you left is so very nice and sure lifted my spirits on this rainy stormy day we've had.
ReplyDeleteOh, God is always looking out for us and I am glad he protected me through this careless decision. You are welcome.
DeleteDios no cuida pero tambien debemos cuidarnos nosotros. Te mando un beso.
ReplyDeleteYou are absolutely right.
DeleteThank God nothing happened to you, Melody! Be careful next time!
ReplyDeleteI will be careful; in short, I am so careful and I won't pull such a careless move again.
DeleteAn amazing post, thank you
ReplyDeleteYou are welcome
DeleteThis is such a beautiful memory, Melody. And yes, I do believe you were protected. The photo, too, is so peaceful and lovely.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Jeanie. Angels are watching over us.
DeleteLet us praise the Lord for how he cares for us every day 🙏
ReplyDeleteThank you for reading. Let us praise the Lord for how He cares for us each and every day—His goodness never fails.
DeleteGod was watching over you for sure.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely—God’s hand was surely over it all. I’m grateful for His constant care.
DeleteHonestly, when I was a child, I almost didn't care about my parents' prohibitions. And I also did the same thing, playing in the river even though I couldn't swim yet. As a result, I was carried away by the strong river current and almost drowned. Luckily, there was an adult who helped me. Since then, I have had a phobia of strong river currents.
ReplyDeleteAnd for some reason, until now I still can't swim.
I also feel that God is always with me.
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s humbling to look back and see how God protected us, even in our youthful defiance. His presence truly never leaves us, even in the waters that once frightened us.
DeleteOj Pan Bóg miał Was w opiece Melody. Dobrze że nic się nie stało złego. Ja się raz topiłam na basenie jak szliśmy z klasą i jeszcze mnie ratownik opieprzal, że źle wykonuje polecenia, a ja naprawdę się wystraszyłam. Po prostu nie umiałam pływać i tyle. Potem się zaraziłam do pływania na zawsze. Jako dziecko lubiłam się bawić w wodzie, ale w płytkiej, na przykład w potoku. U nas też jest niebezpieczna rzeka i nie polecają kąpieli w niej. Pozdrawiam serdecznie ♥️ Niech Bóg ma Cię zawsze w opiece.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for sharing that with me. I’m so sorry you had such a frightening experience—those moments stay with us. I’m glad you were okay, and it’s beautiful that you found a love for swimming after all. May God continue to watch over you as well. Warm regards.
DeleteYour story gives me the creeps because I can imagine what the consequences of such games could have been. When I was a child, my parents didn't take care of us as much as they do now. They explained what was wrong and dangerous, but we had a lot of freedom. When I think back on my games, I'm terrified of how they could have ended, but luckily I managed.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing that. It’s true—looking back, it’s a wonder we made it through some of those moments. God’s mercy truly carried us, even when we didn’t realize it.
DeleteMemories are powerful reminders. It is wise to thank God for all things. Good post.
ReplyDeleteHugs and blessings
Thank you—that means a lot. Yes, memories truly remind us of God’s faithfulness. Grateful for His hand in all things.
DeleteGod protected you! It all depends on the type of river. Swimming in certain rivers can be very dangerous. Some rivers are quite slow and relatively safe, but for a non swimmer every river is dangerous.
ReplyDeleteYou're absolutely right—thank you for your insight. God's protection was surely with me that day. It’s true, even calm waters can be risky when you don't know how to swim.
DeleteA very touching story. It's nice to be reminded that we are always protected.
ReplyDeleteThank you kindly. Yes, it brings such peace to remember that we are never out of God's care, no matter where we are.
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