Thursday, September 17, 2020

The paramedic movie review


If you have seen the movie The paramedic on Netflix you will understand why you should not give room for anyone to subdue you in any form. I am not trying to do the spoiler alert thing but I just want every lady to take time out to see this movie because this is our everyday life.

We boost the illness of mentally sick people when we stay around them and give an excuse for why they treat us bad. In this Movie, Vane is the girlfriend of Angel a Sociopath. Just to make you understand better here is the difference between a sociopath and a psychopath.

A sociopath typically has a conscience, but it’s weak. He may know that taking your money is wrong, and he might feel some guilt or remorse, but that won’t stop his behavior.

A psychopath doesn’t have a conscience. If he lies to you so he can steal your money, he won’t feel any moral qualms, though he may pretend to. He may observe others and then act the way they do so he’s not “found out,” Tompkins says. Source.

Angel in that movie is a sociopath whose girlfriend Vena fed his illness by allowing him to subdue her in many ways. Vena knew she deserved better but she let herself give excuses for her man Angel's behaviors. When she decided to leave he felt she didn't have any reason to leave because that has become a norm for him and he became violent after tricking her back into the house.


Wednesday, September 16, 2020

5 Ways To dress up Fullprint sweatshirt in fall

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Sweatshirts are great fashion clothing that is not only stylish, comfy, and cool but also versatile pieces that can be styled in so many ways. The fall season is here and if you are wondering how to dress up your sweatshirt, then look no more. I have put together 5 stylish ways to dress up a sweatshirt to your office, formal events, etc.

Here are 5 stylish ways to dress up a sweatshirt.

 3d sweater print


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Monday, September 14, 2020

My Favorite Way To Wear Overalls in Autumn


Who else feels like a one-minute celebrity when you are well dressed and you are crossing the zebra crossing. When the cars stop and you use your side eyes to notice they are all looking at how beautiful look. That feeling always gets me. I know it's so vain, but I am sure I am not the only one who feels this way sometimes. I am slowly missing summer already. It is getting colder and a pullover is now essential.

Here are my outfit details.
Overall: Zaful
Tee shirt: Cropp
Sunglasses: Giant Vintage
Shoes: Jessica Buurman.
Fanny pack


Thursday, September 10, 2020

3 Ways To Wear A Red Cut Out Cable Knit Sweater



This trend has been seen on so many runways and is perfect for those who loves layers. You will agree with me that it has a 90's touch. This skirt over pants totally attached to the Denim pant.

 Skirts over pants trend

Knit sweater by Zaful.
 Chunky faux suede.

Tuesday, September 8, 2020

Wear a mask, don't be a super spreader.


When the COVID-19 outbreak began most people were very conscious of the effect of the virus on human health and protecting themselves was the utmost priority. People have gotten so comfortable and they no longer care about wearing masks, some say it is a scam while some believe it is just a phase. Whichever one it falls on let's not be taken unaware. Always wear a mask. It won't hurt to wear a mask but will hurt to get infected and face the pain of it all.

Wearing a mask is not comfortable for everyone but see your health as an asset and do the needful. If you are one of those people who stopped wearing mask please start today. The cold season is coming we all have to be careful.

Why did you stop wearing a mask?


Saturday, September 5, 2020

Product Review: Green Mesh Floral Long Sleeve Bodycon Mini Dress By


I have been stressed both emotionally and physically. My mum acted up but I Ignored and decided to face my work instead of letting that bother me. Yesterday, I took time out to hang out with friends and  I must say that after going out yesterday I feel much better.

As usual, when I go out during the weekend I focus on having fun because all work and no play make Melody unhappy. Yesterday was fun-filled but something happened while I was sipping my chilled coco-cola and by the bar. The Disk junkie (DJ) was a beautiful vibrant young lady. When I first walked to the bar to get a drink she immediately spotted me and winked at me. Cool lady with a good choice of music.

There were several other people sitting at the bar. I noticed a lot of excited people but there was a young man that caught my attention. He sat with a lady who he came with I guess because they both sat so close and discussed while exchanging smiles a lot. The lady he sat with was focused on him but he could not take his eyes off the disk junkie it was so obvious that my friend also pointed it out to me.

Do you think his actions are very disrespectful to the lady he sat with?

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Friday, September 4, 2020

A friend wants my apartment, I refused, he went to my house owner to ask for it, what should I do?


There are situations that occur in life that shapes you to a different kind of person. Honestly, at this point, if I decide not to trust people I am not in any way to be blamed. 

Here's the story:
A friend has asked me several times for my apartment in exchange for his, but I said no. Today, I got a message from my house owner saying: your friend wants your apartment but I told him you are not leaving yet. What should I do?

What are the early signs that a relationship is starting to become toxic?


One of the difficult aspects of leaving a toxic relationship is for the individuals involved to come to the realization that they are in a toxic relationship. This can be excused for many other behaviors and also seen as love. As humans, we have a bit of toxicity in us. We do things that might not be acceptable at some point in life but when it is a constant habit the alarm should start ringing so loudly. When you can identify early signs of a toxic relationship you can be able to figure out ways to break out of it.

I asked a question on Quora which I am also asking everyone reading this article. 
How do you identify toxicity at the early stage of a relationship? 

Thursday, September 3, 2020

At what point should you leave a toxic relationship?


A lot of people find it really difficult to leave a toxic relationship, this is very common because as humans we worry about what people say, how long we have been with that person and some even think they can not stop loving that person, might be true but no one should be comfortable in a toxic relationship.

This is not an easy process. Honestly, let me not make it sound like an easy process because it is not in any way an easy process. It will take time, patience, understanding, observation, self-awareness, and self-realization. It is important to know that being in a toxic relationship can ruin you and put people who care about your well being in constant worry and fear. The process may be so difficult, shameful but you have to come to the self-realization that your mental health should be protected at all times because this can drive you crazy and make you do things you never thought of doing. 

There are persons who need to draw strength from other people. It can be pretty annoying if you have a close friend or a loved one who is going through this phase. It can be so tiring advising them and watch them go back to that same toxic environment or relationship. Do not give up on them because one day, they will slowly but surely come to the realization and gather the strength to detach themselves from such circumstances.

Do not be ashamed and afraid to seek help from the right authority if need be.
If it's toxic, leave it silently or loudly. What matters is that you left.

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