Our quality of life can raise dramatically if we all start practicing emotional hygiene. Imagine how lovely it this world would be if everyone was psychologically healthy, if there were less lonely people, less depression, if people knew how to overcome failure, if they felt better about themselves and more empowered, if they were happier and more fulfilled.



Saturday, February 23, 2019

Trending affordable Bamboo bags under $100 on Pinterest


When I received my 1st bamboo bag, basket bags or straw bag I guess everyone knew because it was on repeat. Tho, at that time straw bags weren't so trendy and a year later it was all over the internet as a major trend. I use my bamboo bags both in winter and summer. I don't mind using this summer staple during the winter because I just love how it compliments my look in a modern-vintage way.

Friday, February 22, 2019

Dropship Dresses: Mustard Tiered Sleeve Cold Shoulder Bodycon Dress


Mustard yellow is currently trending and what better way to get into the mood and make more of all the street style inspiration and luxurious runway showcase by wearing dropship dresses
This dress is very cheap and affordable and the fabric is also very OK for the price. The shipping time took a little longer than expected, I guess that was because it was sent during the holiday period.


How to identify toxic and negative people in your life


Toxic people are simply negative people. In the year 2019, I want to reach out to people who needs to build trust in themselves and Love themselves more. The mind is a very important part of our daily living and what we feed it with is what it takes in. Never leave it void, feed it with positive thoughts and one way to do that is by being around the right set people, having the right relationship and marrying the right partner.

Do you know that toxic people are the worst people to be around? They are goal killers, destiny stoppers, unhappy people who think they are happy, proud and the list goes on and on. There are simple ways to spot toxic people in your life. Some of you might be very familiar with these type of people but have over looked it thinking its normal either because we are use to them or have been in long term friendship, situationship or relationship with them. It can also be because you are afraid of being lonely but in actual sense you do not need all this toxic people with bad energy because it is not just about the physical but it goes deeper and can affect you spiritually.

Here are the three groups of toxic people you need to watch out for and get ride of.

Never in agreement with your life goals.
 They never say anything good or accept any suggestions/plans you bring up. This set of people are ever ready to discourage and make you feel your plans are impossible and can never work. They never give an alternative all they do is bring down and condemn every step you try to take forward. I call them goal killers watch out for them and get ride of them.

Non action takers support system.
 In my years of blogging I have never met anyone who is as passionate as I am towards my blog. I have done it all on my own and I have fallen and gotten up all on my own and I am still moving on. You will say of course its your business you have to be more passionate about it than any other person, that is totally right but if you do not have people in your life who are at least (5% energy) giving a positive passion and support towards your business or career then you have the wrong people around you.
Note: If the support is one sided then you should not be that persons life. 

I have lots of friends who talks about my blog but never try to share or promote it. Now this is optional and can be seen from different angels. For me I don't mind still keeping this people in my life because I have already zeroed them all but the truth is you don't need this type of people in your life. Your friends, family and partners should always stand as a strong support system to any positive thing you are doing.

The problem/issue procrastinators.
These are one of the most ignorant set people I have come across in my life. One thing you should understand about this set of people is that they use every opportunity they get to promote bad memories and bad energy. This mostly happens in friendship and relationships. When you have minor issues with your friend or partner which is supposed to be talked about and sorted out but they prefer to keep silent about it for more than 3 days, then believe me that person doesn't want you to be happy. Here is what a happy and positive person does, they try to fix the situation because they are not use to being in a toxic environment. They always want to be at peace with everyone and promote good energy.
Note: They leave that problem open and leave you in a toxic atmosphere. They go about their normal life because they feel stronger in this atmosphere.

Take, take but they never give
People who keeps collecting from you and never give back or return are obstacles in your life. These are people who helps demolish and destabilized your plans. You might want to keep this people in your life but if you have to do that then you need to learn how to say no to such people. 
Truth: You don't need those kind of people in your life. cut them off.

They never compliment you
Now this is a very easy way to spot jealous people in your life. No matter what you do or how gorgeous you look they will never say a complimenting word. They just stare and process pain and evil. This is common around young adults and youths. Get ride of them before the envy and jealousy becomes uncontrollable and they harm you.

Do not think you can handle any of this situations or ever managing it. When you try to manage bad situations your mind see's them as a practice (remember habits are formed by constantly doing the same thing). You psychologically unknowingly to yourself accept this bad energy and give space toxic behaviors which start seeming normal to you.

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Thursday, February 21, 2019

Cheap affordable shoes and bags under $100 on sales now


Fashion come in different forms and styles. The expensive luxury fashion straight out from the runway to the cheap bags and shoes affordable and ready for purchase. Getting good cheap bags shoes can help you safe money. There are online shops like Jessica buurman and  which retails good bags and shoes with great sales.

Below is the Brown Muses lock embellished suede tote bag in size large. This bag is very classy and looks prettier than in the picture.
You can purchase this red classy pointy heels from This shoes are so comfortable, affordable and perfect for different occasions. It has stones around the heels the night look is wow.


Rumination : Practicing Emotional Hygiene


Rumination is obsessively over-thinking or replaying mentally a past negative event again and again but make no real progress toward what we are thinking about. Ruminating can also be said to be simply repetitively going over a thought or a problem without completion. This is a clear symptom of depression. If anyone gets depressed rumination comes into play, it gives you a feeling of inadequacy and worthlessness. Nevertheless, this never gets issues solved and we all have one time in our lives gone through this stage of life and can testify that it feels really bad and sad.

Each time we have an issue with ourselves or other people we can't just stop thinking about it. The danger of this is that it can easily become a habit which is so unhealthy, because when so much time is focused on upsetting a negative thought you are actually putting yourself at significant risk of developing clinical depression, alcoholism, eating disorders and even cardiovascular diseases.

The urge to ruminate can be very strong but one thing is sure, you are stronger because you can be in total control of your mind. One cure to negative thoughts is having a positive mind towards what you are thinking about. There are a lot of people who are physically healthy but psychological they are sick. Studies have shown that even a two minutes distraction can break the urge to ruminate. The very best way to overcome rumination is by forcing/distracting ourselves with other positive activities and and by so doing, we are able to battle negative thinking.

Wednesday, February 20, 2019

10 premium men spring/summer streetwear 2019


Streetwear is a very good means to express yourself. Streetwear has revolutionized the area of fashion, and it has come to be a lifestyle. Streetwear is a vital part in the fashion and lifestyle industry alongside other styles. Men are getting more stylish in a more colorful way. Here are men's style inspiration which are trending in 2019.

Tuesday, February 19, 2019

How to dress in winter to look trendy, fashionable and stylish


Looking stylish in winter is not just about having the right winter cover up accessories but this also depends on your mood. Some people easily get bored during the winter period and adding colors to your outfit can give you a sense of vibrancy and help improve your mood making you even more active.  
There are different ways to look stylish during the winter period which depends on your winter wardrobe. I use to gather jackets but at this point I think very few good jackets are needed with some cute head warmers, gloves, winter shoes and scarves.

Monday, February 18, 2019

Refined coconut oil : Hillary Premium Quality Coconut Oil : %100 NATURAL


Different coconut oil brands online, your skin and hair suffers when you keep trying the wrong products. I woke up this morning feeling inspired and positive so I decided to share with you all one of my hair moisturizing  products which I have been using for months now and generally it has been the best coconut oil so far.

Obviously, I am into the natural hair style. I am growing my natural hair but paying less attention to it. I got this product from an online store which basically ships to your door step within two to three days. This is not a paid review I just want to share this so you all can enjoy this good product and purchase it.

Thursday, February 14, 2019

How to wear earth tones: 4 Essential Color Pairings for Rocking Earth Tones


Earth tones are naturally occurring colors that are same color with mother nature. Earth tones are a winter staple. Whether you are adding earthy tones to your wardrobe to upgrade your look,   accessorize or made the focus with a great coat, these earthy tones help to ground the bright pops of color and sparkle that were a cornerstone of your holiday wardrobe. Today we are going to show you 4 color pairings to really rock earth tones this winter! Let’s check it out!

 Red and Brown
Have you ever paired red and brown? If not, you must try this amazing match this winter! The earthy brown coat tones the whole look done making it perfect for every day while the fun red top adds bright pop of color. These two are the perfect complement to each other.
Many people don’t know how to wear a red leather jacket. Take some inspiration from the picture above and pair it with a brown suede skirt for an earthly southwestern look. It’s both beautiful and cool!
The easiest way to achieve this gorgeous red and brown combo is to pick some red accessories while keeping your main ensemble neutral like in the photo above.
Photo from here.
Blue and Caramel
Caramel colored clothing has really risen in popularity over the last few years. If you don’t already have some you should be planning to add some caramel colored pieces to your wardrobe ASAP. Try pairing a lake blue sweater underneath a caramel coat for a totally unexpected and gorgeous look this winter.
A sky blue hoodie paired underneath a caramel coat is another fun take on the pairing. A hoodie has the added charm of school days adding a casual and youthful vibe to your look.
Though we love the lighter blue pairings above we have to say that royal blue and caramel may be our favorite! These two rich hues paired together create a show stopping look.
photo of pink-wish.
Green and Camel
Camel is probably the most classic earth tone color, and the long camel coat is probably the most classic earth tone item of all. Try layering green and camel coats together, you will find a new world of possibilities.
When it comes to camel and green, we can never miss the most classic match of camel coat and green bag. Accessories are the perfect way to try out these color pairings.
photo of Olivia
Yellow and Malted(Warm) Brown
Everyone loves yellow and malted brown in winter because they are a warm match which makes us feel cozy and comfortable. Bonus points if you choose a deep mustard yellow pairing.

You can add a little white or black as a transition to break it up if you think yellow and malted brown all over the body is too much.
This photo belongs to Missymay.
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