If there are words for him I don't have them but what I do have is good news. He sent his son Jesus Christ as the word living proof, an image of the invisible God. The 1st born of all creation, but by him, all things were created, he is before all this and overall things he reigns. The humble son of God becoming the perfect sacrifice, he willing stood in our place, he is everything that was promised. Praise the living king.



Friday, September 13, 2019

Stylish ways to wear a black cold shoulder blazer and white pleated skirt suit.


Suits are statement makers. How you style them really matters. In recent times designers have been able to redesign suits in different diverse ways. Now we can wear suits to casual functions and formal events. Pairing black and white can be very diverse, they are not everyone's best color but you can style them to suit your unique style. There are certain additives that brings out a black and white attire to look more in a high fashion way.

1. Ruby woo Red lips:
Adding red lipstick is always a good pop for a black and white outfit. It stands out and a ruby red is perfect for this. I use the Ewabyaraphat lipstick. You can purchase from below.

A very stylish and trendy sunshade is a statement marker. This blue sunglasses is from Gitange vintage. This online store has great eye pairs for everyone. The wide style range with  the Adequate Uv protection. To shop directly click on the links below.

Statement blazers are so stylish and you can hardly look odd wearing them. This Jelyn cold-shoulder double layers dress from Jessicabuurman is a well fitted stylish set. This outfit comes in a set. The pleated skirt comes with the cold shoulder blazers. You can shop more styles below.

White pleated skirt set from Jessicabuurman. Pleated skirts are so feminine and have a very decent look.
Shop more styles below.

This happens to be one of my favorites bags. The Brown Muses lock embellished suede tote bag can be purchase from Jessicabuurman. Styling options available here and here.


Wednesday, September 11, 2019



If there are words for Him then I don't have them. My brain has not yet reached the point to form a thought that could adequately describe the greatness of my God. My lungs have not yet developed the ability to release a breath to breathe out the greatness of his love. My voice is so inhabited restrained by human limits that it's hard to even sing the praise that he deserves. if there are words for Him then I don't have them. My God is grace is remarkable, merciful are innumerable, strength is impenetrable, he is honorable, accountable, faithful, he is unsearchable yet knowable, indefinable yet approachable, indescribable yet personal, beyond comprehension, further than imagination, King if every nation. If there are words for Him then I don't have them. Trying to capture the one true God using my vocabulary will never do. This is an expression of worship to a savior who is both worthy and deserving of my praise. My heart will bless his name forever. He has defeated me in my rebellion, conquered me in my sin and welcomed me into his presence. Followed me with mercies in the morning and journeyed me grace in the night.


Saturday, September 7, 2019

You don't have to be naked to make a statement during your pregnancy photoshoot: 25 Amazing decent pregnancy style photo inspiration


Pregnancy photoshoots have taken different levels.  Let me just drop this here, you don't have to be naked during your pregnancy photoshoot to obtain amazing photos.
 Secondly, pls if you want to open your body feel free don't use pregnancy as a back up saying you are being proud of your pregnancy, you are not the 1st woman to conceive and you will not be the last. As I write and you read a new life is being made and born.

Just in case you are looking for decent, hot, fun, romantic and classy photoshoot inspiration to replicate for your pregnancy photo memory. Here some beautiful amazing pregnancy photo inspirations.

 More photo inspiration here.







Thursday, September 5, 2019

South Africa Xenophobic Attack on foreigners : Africa is cracking


Let's talk about the current issue going on in South Africa. Honestly, it bothers me being that I am a Nigerian and the citizens of Nigeria are also involved tho this is broad and involves the citizens of other countries which also adds up to my pain. 

Xenophobia is totally unacceptable and at this time I expect that we should have moved forward. One thing everyone should know is that we are all one but located in different countries and continents. I am deeply sad and it breaks my heart seeing people die for reasons that don't add up, burnt alive and businesses brought down. How do we explain this type of hatred for one another? how do we move on when we still hate one another, south Africa is fighting the wrong people. This is complete misinformation and it's sad that in situations like this it is still most of the poor/average people living in a society that pays for it. Allow people to shine, how can you be African and hate your fellow African?.
 The question that keeps coming to my mind is, does it mean that Nelson Mandela shouldn't have even gone to jail or fought for their freedom because even after all his suffering and support from different countries in Africa, they are still locked up mentally and that is even deeper than physical freedom. 

Violence is never the way out. Killing your fellow humans is never acceptable for any reason.  After seeing this and how people stood on the streets and south Africa and cheered while a Nigerian man was being burnt humanity is lost.
The blacks in South Africa giving different reasons why these killings are happening right now saying most foreigners come to : 
*Steal their women away from them with their wealth. 
* Foreigners are taking their jobs. 
* Foreigners are being involved with drug lords in the country and so instead of taking down the source, you take down the messenger forgetting that the source is the stronghold. Drugs is a crime and should never be allowed. 
*Foreigners are polluting their country, I wonder what South Africa want Americans to do because the number of foreigners in America is multiple times more than in South Africa. 
*Most of them say they feel inferior because they do better than them in business. 
At the end of the day, it is all vanity. Let's promote peace, nothing is worth taking another man's life. Stop the killing, greed grows and envy blows out. Whosoever has fueled this isn't human, this is not an ordinary situation of citizens of South Africa especially the blacks killing fellow blacks and the main target are Nigerians. Let's pray for foreigners in South Africa and hope for the best.

Photos are from Google.


Sunday, September 1, 2019

Tulip Bistro in Abuja, Nigeria. Cakes, Drinks, Tea, and Coffee.



Happy Sunday beautiful people. How is 1st of September treating you all?
Abuja has always been one of the best cities in Nigeria. This is my opinion and I will pick Abuja over Lagos anytime. I like visiting restaurants with beautiful interior. Show some effort and keep your environment neat and clean, then you totally won yourself a new customer. I got back and meeting my friends felt super nice and we decided to hang out at Tulip bistro to catch up. 

Tulip bistro design is super cute and has different sections, but the section where we sat down which has the flowery design looks bigger on Instagram but in reality, it is a small room. The design is a cute, snacks are ok taste-wise, to me nothing so special just cakes, drinks, tea and coffee. Well, I think that was the aim to get something sweet and fast.

 Generally, this place is neat and relaxing. On like some places or restaurants in Abuja. Some places in Abuja you see water traces on the wall and that irritates me so badly, Tulip bistro is super neat and the interiors are also very clean using an eye to judge.

We had cakes which were nice I also I had muffins, which I think is a little on the high side for third-class citizens but I guess the aim of this place is to reach out to the middle class and upper. One muffin cost #1000, a thousand naira in Nigerian currency which is very ok in USD  (2.78) but in my currency it looks kinda a bit high.

We actually wanted to take some photos but they declined and stated that mornings are better for photos to prevent inconveniencing other customers with flashlights. Pretty fair, lol, anyway, I enjoyed sitting out with my friends. I had a good time.

Wednesday, August 28, 2019



It is summer and we all want to look good while having fun and during travel trips. One very important part of an outfit is the hair, the hair really helps to elevate every look. Wearing nice hair can make you look really extra and nice. 

What type of hair is your favorite? Hair bundles are available for purchase Wiggins hair. There are mode varieties that you can choose from like the lace front wigs, full lace wigs, and Brazilian hair.

Lots of ladies prefer Brazilian hair because of its looks and how it feels. It comes in different quality, the texture and feel are very nice. Wearing good hair makes you look nice and organize. They are available for purchase in all colors, %100 unprocessed virgin human hair. It is said to have no shedding, no tangle, and no smell. Do you know that some hair can make you look disorganized because they keep falling apart and you just keep trying to fix them and that doesn't look nice at all?

Monday, August 26, 2019



It's been a while, sure you all are doing great? Life has been going on and lots of amazing things have been happening. Today's post is centered on how to style white dresses or how to style a white outfit. Styling is pretty tricky but with the right colors, textures, and accessories you will make any white outfit stand out. 
Photo by Rene Asmussen 

1. An all-white outfit is also cool and can be best worn to weddings, bridal showers, and beachside dates. Mixing different types of whites fabrics is a brilliant idea. There are different shades of white and matching them is another way to style the white.

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Buy the dress from Jarlo London. Check out the Petal lace dress, a perfect pick for you to a wedding. Pinkbasis red heel sandals

 2. We all know that the right accessories can uplift an outfit and so when wearing or styling white dresses, tops, pants and whatever the outfit might be let the accessories stand out in an artistic way. 

 3.  it's no doubt that white goes so well on a dark skin due to the contrast but if you want an extra pop on a white skin you can tan a little bit but whichever way the styling matters more and how you put your outfit together.

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The Nikit fold hem off-shoulder dress.
The sugar ruffles lace-up suede heels by Public desire also seen here, and my favorite woven bag also here.

4. Neutral colors best go with white outfits. They are very nice and are a good blend to any white outfit.

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Party dress from Every PrettyMirror sunnies from Szaleo, so much fun styling the large size Aztec print scarf halfway on my braids. Mike Suede Boots from public desire. Charms from Soufeel.
The wristwatch from AibiLaura Maryland Silver Gold With Germs Wristwatch. (coupon code MELODYJ using the code can enjoy $20 off for each purchase).

5. Mix match the textures to give a more stylish look to the monochromatic look. Mixing different fabric textures makes it look more daring and sophisticated. It doesn't just look like an ordinary all-white outfit combination but also looks well put together.

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Saturday, August 10, 2019 Travel Accessories: The most stylish Boxes, Waist bags, Backpacks and Duffels for travel.


Get cool stylish and modern travel bags with unique designs at Herschel. This brand was Driven to provide the everyday traveler with the perfect bags and accessories, Herschel Supply's Classic Collection has been thoughtfully designed from the ground up to include details that aid in daily journeys. Featuring timeless silhouettes inspired by the world around us, each piece evokes a bit of nostalgia yet offers modern functionality. The Herschel Supply Classic Collection continues to redefine timeless design while maintaining fine regard for detail.



More about the best bags to buy click here.

Thursday, August 8, 2019

Excessive lip injection is painful to look at : Stop torturing people


The number of people with bad botox procedure in their lips is alarming. Let's put aside self-confidence, fuller lips and feeling good about yourself. I would like to know why people have excessive botox injections?. In as much as people have the right to do what they want, how they want, everything should be done in moderation. Botox lip injections are not for everyone. Beauty procedures are getting out of hand, the number of self-taught or practiced beauty procedures is growing by the day. People are getting addicted and just can't just stop. Facial procedures are very delicate because they can uplift your look if done right and degrade your look if gone wrong. You have to be very careful because what worked for your friend might not go well with you. People want to have the same as their favorite celebrity but forgetting that a lot of money has been invested in their procedures, funds are available for proper checkup and health management.
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