
When I started reading Chris Guillebeau's book on time anxiety, a powerful realization hit me: I was completely guilty of it. With each page, it felt as though the writer was speaking directly to my soul.
For years, I avoided celebrating my birthday. I'd ask myself, "What have I even achieved?" Is it truly worth celebrating?" I'd go silent, and if someone wished me a happy birthday, I'd feel nervous and anxious all day. Most of my friends didn't even know when my birthday was, and while those who did always wished me well, they never understood the deep questions it triggered within me.
I come from a family where everything I needed was provided. My dad was one of the best graduating students of his time, with many awards. Whenever I looked at him, I exuded such confidence ; he knew his field inside out, understood himself, and could speak eloquently about his journey. He has a loving family, of which I am a part. My dad always encouraged us but never pushed us beyond our limits. Yet, time anxiety never lets me truly enjoy the process of life.
I started working really early, driven by my own desire. My dad initially didn't approve, but he quietly watched me teach students math and English. Right after secondary school, I began teaching at a primary school. There was one girl who struggled with speaking, and her aunt wanted me to tutor her so she could attend school, as English was the language of instruction. I felt confident I could teach her, and you know what? She learned English and today she speaks it well. But I noticed that with every achievement, I immediately asked myself, "What next?" This constant focus on the future prevented me from enjoying the present process.
I graduated with a degree in General Medicine, but while I was studying, I also worked as a model and blogger, sold shoes, and collaborated with agencies to help international students travel. I wasn't lacking anything; my dad made sure I had all I needed. But I never rested. Some might say I was just hardworking, not letting my comfortable family background make me complacent. But knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have done it without truly enjoying the process. I was so fixed on the result that I missed out on the journey. I always had something to do, always a goal; there was no time to relax. I can't recall a single time in Ukraine when I went out to simply chill without feeling guilty that I could be doing something more "productive" than resting. It took me a long time to understand that resting is a crucial part of the process. So I kept racing.

Alright, my lovely readers, gather 'round. Today, we're diving deep into a topic that, honestly, I don't think gets half the attention it deserves: hydration. Seriously, it’s the unsung hero of our well-being, the quiet powerhouse working behind the scenes that most of us are totally missing out on. And guess what? I've been incredibly lucky because the fantastic folks at Holland & Barrett sent over a treasure trove of hydration goodies, and I couldn't be more excited to share my thoughts with you.
Now, before we jump into these brilliant products, let's have a frank chat about why hydration isn't just about quenching your thirst. It’s about everything. Imagine your body as a magnificent, intricate city. Water is the lifeblood, the infrastructure, the very air that keeps everything functioning.
Think about it:
- Your Brain: Needs water to produce hormones and neurotransmitters.
Dehydration can lead to headaches, fatigue, poor concentration, and mood swings. Ever felt foggy-brained? Hydration could be your answer. - Your Heart and Blood: Water helps your heart pump blood more easily through your vessels to your muscles, reducing the strain on your cardiovascular system. It literally keeps your blood flowing smoothly.
- Your Kidneys: These incredible filters need water to remove waste products from your blood and excrete them in your urine.
Not enough water? Your kidneys struggle, and toxins can build up. - Your Digestive System: Water helps break down food, absorb nutrients, and keeps things moving along, preventing constipation.
A happy gut often starts with proper hydration. - Your Skin: Our largest organ. Hydration keeps your skin elastic, plump, and healthy, giving you that natural glow.
Dehydration can lead to dryness, dullness, and more prominent fine lines. - Your Muscles and Joints: Water lubricates your joints, helping them move smoothly, and it plays a vital role in muscle function, preventing cramps and fatigue during exercise.
It's astounding, isn't it? When we’re properly hydrated, our energy levels are better, our moods are more stable, our immune system is stronger, and our body’s natural detox processes work more efficiently. It's the ultimate balancing act for our entire health, and yet, so many of us walk around chronically under-hydrated, sipping on coffee or sugary drinks, completely missing the simple, powerful solution that water and electrolytes offer.
This is where these brilliant products from Holland & Barrett step in. They’re not just about chugging water; they’re about optimising that hydration, replenishing vital electrolytes, and giving your body exactly what it needs to thrive.

But then, I had an idea. My dad was due for a new pair, and since I always have such a fantastic experience with Firmoo, I decided this was the perfect chance to snag two new pairs for him, courtesy of my latest collaboration. And spoiler alert: they're just as amazing as all my previous orders.
Unboxing My Latest Firmoo Finds: M95077 & T36984
The package arrived super fast – seriously, less than 7 days from order to my doorstep, which is brilliant. The unboxing is always satisfying. The quality of the packaging always protects the glasses perfectly.
This time around, I received two distinct styles for my dad:
- SK: M95077 (The sleek gold pair)
- SK: T36984 (The lovely black pair)
The black pair (T36984) instantly caught my eye. You know how much I love black; it literally fits with everything. It's such a classic choice, incredibly stylish, and practical for everyday use. The gold one (M95077) is also absolutely lovely and offers a great alternative for different outfits.
Let's dive into a topic that has significantly transformed my life recently. You know how life gets sometimes, right? Juggling all the things, trying to keep all the plates spinning, and sometimes… well, sometimes you just feel like you’re running on fumes, a bit wired, and definitely not as chill as you’d like to be. I’ve been there, trust me.
So, when Wild Nutrition reached out and sent over their Food-Grown® KSM-66 Ashwagandha Plus, I was genuinely intrigued. You guys know I'm all about natural ways to support my well-being, and I've heard whispers about Ashwagandha for ages and even written about it. You can read more about the health benefits of ashwagandha. But this isn't just any Ashwagandha. This is the Ashwagandha. And let me tell you, I’m so glad I gave it a go.
First things first, let's talk about Wild Nutrition as a brand. Their whole philosophy just resonates with me. Henrietta Norton, the founder, noticed this huge gap between what our bodies actually need from food and what most supplements offer – often synthetic stuff packed with fillers. Her mission? To empower women with nutrients and knowledge to thrive at every stage of life, all backed by the science of Food-Grown®. Basically, they're taking natural ingredients and fermenting them in a way that makes them easier for our bodies to recognise and absorb, just like real food. No nasties, no mega doses, just pure, effective goodness. That’s a massive tick in my book.
Now, about this specific product, the KSM-66 Ashwagandha Plus. This is actually one of their bestsellers, and honestly, I can totally see why.
From the get-go, I was impressed by the "relaxation + emotional balance" and "positive mood" claims. Who doesn't need a bit more of that in their life? But what really stood out was the fact that it contains KSM-66 Ashwagandha – apparently, the most scientifically-studied form out there. Plus, they’ve added their own scientifically-studied Magnesium, which we all know is brilliant for reducing tiredness and fatigue. Win-win, right?
I just started taking two capsules a day, sometimes in the morning to tackle a busy day head-on, and other times in the evening to help me unwind before bed. It's super flexible, with or without food, which makes it easy to fit into my routine.
So, what have I actually felt? Let me tell you, it's been a noticeable shift. That nagging feeling of being on edge? Definitely dialled down. I feel a greater sense of calm and just generally more balanced emotionally. It’s like a gentle whisper to my nervous system, saying, "Hey, it's okay, you can breathe." And honestly, that positive mood boost? It’s real. I’ve found myself feeling more resilient to the everyday demands, which is something I truly cherish.
Oh my goodness, you guys! I just had to sit down and gush about the latest book that's completely captivated me. I mean, you know me, I've got a pile of books probably taller than I am, lol just kidding, but every now and then, one just hits different. And that's exactly what "The Garden Against Time" by Olivia Laing did.
Finding My Reading Nook: A Little Bit of Barons Haugh Magic
So, before I even dive into the book, let me set the scene. I took this beauty with me to Barons Haugh Nature Reserve to do some reading in nature – honestly, there's nothing quite like it. It's such a peaceful spot, perfect for getting lost in a good book. I actually took some photos there (you might have seen a sneak peek on my Instagram), and while it's gorgeous, I won't be sharing too much about Barons Haugh just yet. We didn't get to explore it quite the way I wanted to this time, so we're definitely planning a proper return trip. For those of you familiar with the area, think of it as another lovely spot, a bit similar to the feel of Lochwinnoch but with its own unique charm. It was the absolute ideal backdrop for this particular read.
"The Garden Against Time": More Than Just a Book About GardensNow, onto the main event: Olivia Laing's "The Garden Against Time." Guys, if you're expecting a cozy guide to planting petunias, you're in for a surprise. This book is so much more than that. It's truly a masterpiece of non-fiction, blending so many genres that it feels like a whole new literary experience.
Olivia Laing, the writer, is just brilliant. She has this incredible way of weaving together her own deeply personal experiences – in this case, the very physical, sometimes grueling, work of restoring an overgrown walled garden in Suffolk – with vast stretches of cultural history, literary criticism, and nature writing. It's like she pulls a thread from her own life and it unravels into centuries of human thought and emotion.
What she really digs into is this idea of gardens as a kind of paradise. We all have that image, right? A perfect, serene escape. But what Laing does, so intelligently and unflinchingly, is she peels back the layers to show the hidden costs of creating these beautiful spaces. She doesn't shy away from the darker side of history – the links to power, privilege, even exploitation. She makes you really think about how many of these idyllic visions were built on the enclosure of common lands or even colonial legacies. It's a challenging, necessary conversation to have, and it completely shifted my perspective.
But here's the thing: it's not all doom and gloom. Even amidst these profound critiques, Laing manages to find so much hope and even radical possibility within gardens. She highlights figures and places where gardens became sites of incredible creativity, resilience, and even a kind of defiance against conventional norms. She shows us how working with the land, understanding its cycles, can be a way to connect with something much bigger than ourselves – to grapple with time itself.
Reading this book felt like having the smartest, most insightful friend gisting you about the world, history, and humanity, all through the lens of something as seemingly simple as a garden. It’s beautifully written, thought-provoking, and utterly absorbing.
If you love books that make you see the world differently, that blend the personal with the profound, and that aren't afraid to ask big questions, then you absolutely must add "The Garden Against Time" to your TBR pile. It's a genuine journey, and one I highly recommend you embark on.
Go grab a copy, maybe find your own quiet spot in nature, and let me know what you think!

Hi everyone. You know me, always on the hunt for cool gadgets that actually make my life easier, not more complicated. So, when PLAUD reached out and offered to send over their PLAUD Note AI Voice Recorder for me to test out, I was intrigued. And let me tell you, after playing with it for a bit, this tiny thing is a game-changer.
First off, the unboxing. It’s sleek, it's silver, it's super slim (seriously, 0.117 inches thin – you barely notice it), and it just feels premium. It even won an IF Product Design Award, which honestly, I can see why. Plus, it came with a free magnetic case which is brilliant for attaching it to my phone (MagSafe compatible, score).
So, what exactly is the PLAUD Note and why should you care?
Think of it as your personal, highly intelligent note-taker. Here’s the magic:
- Record Anything, Anywhere: This is key. It has a dual-mode recording system. Want to record a phone call? Just attach it to your smartphone with the magnetic case, press a button, and boom – clear call recording. In a meeting or a lecture? Flip it to "on-site recording" mode, and it captures the ambient sound perfectly. I've tested both, and the clarity is fantastic.
- AI Transcription & Summarization is REAL: This is where the "AI" really shines. Once you've recorded, you connect it to the PLAUD App, and it automatically uploads the audio. Then, the app (which uses some seriously powerful AI models like GPT-4.1, Claude 3.7 Sonnet, and Gemini 2.5 Pro) gets to work. It transcribes everything into 112 languages (wild, right?!), and then – get this – it summarizes it for you.
- For meetings, it can pull out key decisions, next steps, and insights.
- For lectures, it helps create structured notes and visual summaries.
- For interviews, it delivers professionally formatted notes so you can actually make eye contact instead of furiously scribbling.
- Even for quick voice memos, it'll transcribe, summarize, and organize your thoughts into a searchable knowledge base. It even has speaker labels and auto-paragraphing.
- No More Forgetting Important Stuff: Honestly, how many times have you been on a call or in a meeting, thought "I'll remember that later," and then… poof, it's gone? This completely solves that. You can just be present in the conversation, knowing PLAUD has your back.
- Massive Storage & Battery: It has 64GB of local memory (that's about 480 hours of recording) and a whopping 30 hours of continuous recording on a single charge, with 60 days standby. Plus, you get unlimited cloud storage with the app, which is a HUGE bonus for keeping everything organized and accessible.
- Special Offers that are ACTUALLY Special: Mine came with the free magnetic case (which is £23.99 GBP value) and a free Advanced AI Starter Plan (valued at £45 GBP!) which gives you 300 minutes of AI transcription per month. That's a great way to get started and see how much time it saves you.

But while you're playing detective trying to figure out their entry points, you need to be prepared. That's why having a good Insecticidal Lacquer on hand is a must in my book. For me, it's non-negotiable to spray around the house corners, under the bed, and behind the sofas. I mean, the thought of anything crawling on my skin is enough to send shivers down my spine and keep me up all night. Seriously, I'd be losing sleep over it! So, I always recommend giving your place a good spray, even if you haven't spotted any invaders. It's like a preventative measure, keeping those unwanted guests at bay.
Well, today I'm excited to talk about a new product I'm trying out for the very first time: Dethlac Insecticidal Lacquer. And get this – they actually sent me three cans. I was genuinely chuffed because I had a bit of a nightmare last summer with another insecticide. I sprayed the whole house, and honestly, it felt like it attracted more insects. It was so frustrating, and I ended up having to buy another brand. It just goes to show, there are a lot of dodgy products out there. Some work, some don't, and you also need to be mindful of what's in them. You don't want to be chasing away bugs while potentially harming yourself in the process, right?
Dethlac Insecticidal Lacquer has been around since way back in 1959, apparently, and it's designed to effectively control ants, cockroaches, woodlice, and other crawling insects in your home and garden. They say it works fast, and it's available to buy now (check their stockists page to find out where you can grab some).
What makes Dethlac unique is that it's a lacquer. It's super effective at getting rid of those pesky ants, woodlice, and cockroaches, and it's meant to keep working for months. It's also HSE & PCS approved for both amateur and professional use, which is reassuring. They even claim that Dethlac Ant & Insecticidal Lacquer has been the best ant killer on the market for 65 years, with millions of loyal customers across the UK. That's a pretty bold claim.
One of the things that caught my eye is that Dethlac is said to be completely safe around children and pets once it's dried. That's a huge plus for households with little ones or furry friends. Once you spray it, it dries to a hard, clear film that keeps working for months. Apparently, it even holds up when it rains (for those garden ants) or if you wash the surface with detergents (think kitchen floors). You can use it indoors and outdoors on any firm, non-absorbent surface like door frames (not UPVC though, take note!), skirting boards, shelves, concrete, and patios. They even say you can get rid of flying ants by spraying surfaces before they take off.
Dethlac targets ants, woodlice, cockroaches, silverfish, and other crawlers with its lacquer-based formula. It's supposed to create a long-lasting barrier that both prevents and kills insects within hours of them coming into contact with a treated surface. Sounds perfect for spraying along those insect trails, entry points, and where they might be nesting for effective ant control.
It comes in a handy 250ml aerosol can, which should make it easy to apply precisely and without making a mess on floors, skirting boards, door frames, windowsills, and other places where insects like to hide.
The fact that Dethlac has been a trusted name for over 60 years is also reassuring. Being around since 1959 and being a go-to solution for generations suggests they must be doing something right, providing effective pest control and peace of mind.
Have I tested this product? Yes, I have. I used it in an area where insects were flying around and bothering us. I sprayed it on a spot on the ground, and while we were there, we didn’t notice any insects coming near that area anymore — so in that sense, it worked. I’ve also used it in my house, and the spray isn’t offensive or harsh.
Another important thing about using a good product is knowing where to buy the original version. Just knowing about it isn’t enough. So I’ve included where you can get this product. Here are three places: Amazon, Home Essentials, and Petfix.
My Honest Review of the Slim & Secure Shuffle Wallet
For ages, I've been lugging around a pretty standard wallet, you know the type – gets bulky, hard to find the right card, and let's be honest, not exactly a style statement. I was on the hunt for something different, something that streamlined my everyday carry, and that's when I stumbled upon the Shuffle Wallet.
Right off the bat, the packaging was impressive – always a good sign, right? And the wallet itself? Wow. The build quality feels seriously top-notch. I went for the Neon Black aluminum finish because, well, all my tech stuff is black, so it just fits. But they also have some other cool colors in aluminum like Polar Ice, Gunmetal, and Diesel Green, plus titanium options in Raw and Burnt Titanium if you're feeling fancy.
What really grabbed my attention is the deck-of-cards opening mechanism. Seriously, it's so satisfying! With a quick flick, all your cards are displayed neatly, making it a breeze to grab the one you need. No more frantic rummaging! And don't worry about your cards flying out – the quick-release is secure. I’ve been using it for over two weeks now, and they haven’t budged unless I want them to. It holds up to six cards snugly.

Just back from a breathtaking trip to Loch Lomond, and I had the perfect companions for exploring its tranquil beauty: the Sweaty Betty Get Set 2-in-1 Multi-Train Shorts and their empowering "Wear the Damn Shorts" Campaign Polo. Let's dive into why these pieces have become my new go-to for active adventures and beyond.
Sweaty Betty: More Than Just Activewear
For those unfamiliar, Sweaty Betty is a leading global activewear and lifestyle brand for women. They champion the power of movement and empower women through fitness and beyond. What I love about Sweaty Betty is their commitment to creating high-performance clothing that doesn't compromise on style or comfort. They cater to all your gym and swim needs, offering a fantastic range including:
- Leggings: From their iconic Power Leggings to supportive running tights.
- Sports Bras: Offering various levels of support for every activity.
- Tops: From breathable tanks to cosy hoodies.
- Swimwear: Stylish and functional bikinis and one-pieces.
- Outerwear: Jackets and layers to keep you warm during outdoor workouts.
- Accessories: Including bags, socks, and headbands.
Their ethos shines through in their "Wear the Damn Shorts" campaign polo. It's more than just a top; it's a message: "Your body is uniquely yours, and it deserves love, respect, and care at every stage. You are more than a number on a scale or a reflection in the mirror, your worth is defined by your kindness, strength, and spirit. Celebrate yourself just as you are today." This powerful message truly resonates and makes wearing this polo feel like a statement of self-acceptance.
Sweaty Betty Get Set 2-in-1 Multi-Train Shorts: My Loch Lomond Companion
My main reason for wanting the 2-in-1 Multi-Train Shorts was the crucial need for phone storage while running. If you're like me, juggling your phone can be a real pain. These shorts have solved that problem perfectly.
Here's what I thought:
- Fit & Comfort: The fit is fantastic. The sweat-wicking inner short with 4-way stretch feels snug and supportive without any restriction. The loose outer layer provides great coverage and freedom of movement. The soft and comfy waistband is a definite plus, staying put without digging in.
- Material: The material is slightly thicker than I would ideally like for peak summer running, but it feels durable and high-quality, suggesting they'll hold up well to regular workouts.
- Pockets: The side slip pockets on the inner short are exactly what I needed for my phone. It stays secure and doesn't bounce around while I'm on the move.
- Style: I'm genuinely a fan of the Black Peony Print. It's much more interesting than plain black and adds a touch of personality to my workout gear. The outer short inseam of 6.5cm and inner short inseam of 10cm offer a flattering and practical length.


The Denim Factor: Versatility is Key
What makes these cargo pants particularly versatile is the denim fabric. Denim is a timeless staple, I think I have said this like a million times on the blog, hahaha. It can be dressed up or down, making these jeans a fantastic addition to any wardrobe. The wash is classic, providing a great foundation for various styling options.
My Styling Approach: High-Low Chic
For this look, I wanted to play with the high-low trend, pairing the casual utility of the cargo pants with more elevated pieces. Here's the breakdown:
- The Jeans: The star of the show. The KnowFashionStyle denim cargo jeans with their mid-waist, flare leg, and pocket button details. The fit is comfortable yet stylish, allowing for ease of movement while still looking put-together.
- The Sweater: I opted for a cozy, slightly oversized knit sweater. This adds a touch of softness and warmth, balancing the more structured feel of the denim. You could go for a chunky knit for a more relaxed vibe or a fitted sweater for a sleeker look. Trending sweater styles right now include textured knits, pastel shades, and interesting necklines. I was not in the mood to do much; most times when I feel this way, I just go for loose clothing.
- The Heels: This is where the "high" comes in. Pairing these cargo pants with high heels instantly elevates the look, making it more chic and unexpected. Pointed-toe pumps, strappy heels, or even heeled boots would work beautifully. This juxtaposition of casual bottoms with dressy footwear is a key trend we're seeing everywhere – it's all about that effortless cool-girl aesthetic. This heel is not particularly comfortable, but since I don't wear heels for extended periods, I'm fine with it.

Why This Outfit Works (and Why It's Trending):
- Embracing the Utility Trend: Cargo pants are undeniably back in a big way. Designers are showcasing them in various fabrics and silhouettes, and street style stars are rocking them with everything from sneakers to stilettos.
- The Power of Denim: Denim remains a fashion constant, and incorporating it into a trendy silhouette like cargo pants makes it feel fresh and modern.
- High-Low Styling: The contrast between the casual cargo pants and the sophisticated heels creates a visually interesting and fashion-forward look. This high-low mix is a major trend that allows for personal expression and versatility.
- Comfort Meets Style: This outfit manages to be both comfortable and stylish. The relaxed fit of the cargo pants and the cozy sweater ensure comfort, while the heels and the overall styling add a touch of glamour.
Let's talk about a trend that's been bubbling under for a while and is now officially back with a bang: denim cargo pants. Yes, you heard that right! Those many-pocketed bottoms you might remember from the early 2000s are no longer confined to the history books. They've had a serious glow-up, and honestly?
I took these photos more than a month ago. It was a Sunday. I and my partner had just left church, and even though it was still pretty cold outside (Glasgow never really gives us a break, does it?), we were both craving some sunshine. We decided to head over to Springburn Park just to get some fresh air and take in the day.
I was wearing this deep blue cargo denim from Know Fashion Style. Underneath that, I had on a knitwear sweater for warmth, topped with a black puff jacket from Femme Luxe to block that wild Glasgow wind. I really like the fit, and I can already think of several ways I’ll be styling the pants next time.
The resurgence of Y2K fashion has been undeniable lately, but the return of denim cargos has us feeling a particular kind of nostalgic excitement. Think back – these were the go-to for a generation, offering a blend of practicality and a certain cool, laid-back vibe. But just like everything else, it cycles back into style.
Sure, the signature baggy silhouette and those oh-so-useful pockets are still key features. But the denim cargo pant has evolved beyond basic khaki and camo (though let's be real, those classic shades still hold a certain appeal!). Now, we're seeing them in all sorts of washes, from classic indigo to edgy dark hues, and even incorporating details like interesting hardware. The pockets held my keys, sanitizer, cards, and more. carrying a bag becomes a choice.
And the styling? Forget just band tees and sneakers (unless that's your vibe, in which case, go for it!). The denim cargo pant of 2024 is surprisingly versatile. We've been seeing some seriously elevated looks coming straight from Fashion Weeks and our favorite celebs. Think unexpected pairings like fitted corset tops, sleek heels peeking out from under the hems, and sophisticated outerwear like longline trench coats. It's all about creating that perfect balance between the casual utility of the cargos and more polished pieces.
The beauty of this trend is its inherent effortlessness. Want to keep it low-key? Throw on a simple tee and some trainers, and the denim cargos instantly deliver that cool, understated look. But the potential for dressing them up is truly exciting.
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Melody Jacob wearing the Comoboca Nordic Sweater |
I went to the park to let the sun soak into my skin on this beautiful day. But after remembering it’s flu season, I thought better of it and started heading home. I picked up my medication and walked back. Later, I started watching the movie The Life List, based on the novel by Lori Nelson Spielman. It was a familiar plot, reminiscent of other movies I’ve seen, but I managed to resist the urge to write and just relaxed while watching. While watching the movie, I had a sandwich with orange juice, yogurt, and some biscuits. Just before the movie ended, I started to write this post.
Now, let's talk about something that truly captured my attention today—my 100% Cashmere Women’s Mock Neck Nordic Cable Knit Sweater from Comoboca. I’ve always wanted a sweater with Nordic prints because they bring a subtle elegance that fits perfectly for Christmas, spring, and really, all year long. This one has definitely won my heart.

I styled it in 4 different ways to give you some inspiration on how to wear this beautiful piece in the spring season. Here’s how I did it:





While walking in the park, wearing our hoodie sets from Guidingcross, some people smiled at us. We smiled back, because why not? A good smile is a simple way to say hi and just keep moving.
One woman, however, stood out during the last part of our walk. She smiled at us much longer than the others and kept smiling, so I smiled back. Honestly, I thought she was smiling at me because of my beauty—and I don’t mean that in a proud way. People often walk up to me and say, “You’re beautiful,” in such a heartfelt manner. So I smiled back, happy as always and appreciative.
But a few seconds later, while we were reading a poster board in the park, she came back to us and said, “I just want to say I am so happy to see two people wearing a hoodie that promotes Christianity.” She went on to say, “Here in Scotland, people are not bold enough to talk about Christianity, and I’m so happy to see you two wearing something that speaks about it. Thank you so much.” Then she walked away.
It was at that moment my thoughts reset. I began to realize that maybe the others had also been smiling at us because of the words on our hoodie sets—because they carry messages from the Holy Bible.
Honestly, I don’t hear about Christianity much on the streets of Scotland. Mostly, I hear about it when I go to church. Outside my church community, it feels like the topic of Christianity is a silent one.
I then realized that wearing this hoodie might have spoken to someone today.
In all we do as Christians, please do not forget to preach to people in this sinful world. Tell someone about Jesus.
People have looked at me strangely when I’ve given out tracts to invite them to church—but that doesn’t discourage me, and it shouldn’t discourage you either.
All over the internet, clothing brands are promoting nakedness. So many are lost, seeking validation, posting naked photos for attention—because deep down, they’re broken and don’t know where to turn. But when they encounter Jesus, everything changes. They feel fulfilled, because the Word of God fills the emptiness. No more need for worldly validation. God’s love is enough.
In a time like this, when so many are dealing with pain linked to mental health, let us not forget:
“Cast your burdens on Him, for He cares for you.”
God has the answers. He uses man to bless and reach out to man. He blesses us in different ways. So never lose your faith to fit in or blend in. Carry your Bible—it is your watchword.
God is real. Heaven is real.
Don’t let anyone make you look back. You can still enjoy this life while living a Christian life. Jesus is Lord—He paid the debt already. No need to blend in with the world.
People may laugh at you. They may call you boring. But remember: in the end, only true believers shall be raptured.
I’ve been blogging about different things, and if I don’t tell you about Jesus, then I don’t love you enough.
So today, I want to tell you—Jesus is the Saviour of the world. He is coming again. Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand.
Don’t put anything above your salvation. Don’t let anyone make you feel “boring” for choosing eternal life.
The Bible is the living Word of God. If you read it, you’ll see—we are truly in the last days.
Please take your spiritual life seriously. If you think you’ve seen pain, read the Bible. You’ll find that there is no greater pain than missing heaven.
It is appointed unto man once to die, and after that, the judgment. How do you want to spend your eternity?
Don’t let “wokeness” take you away from the things of God. Don’t let colleagues at work lead you astray.
It is better to walk alone with God than to be in the wrong crowd.
I pray this post serves as a reminder—a fuel—to always be bold about your faith.
Matthew 10:33 – “But whoever denies Me before men, I also will deny before My Father who is in heaven.”
Don’t let your friends lead you down the wrong path. I love you. And when all is said and done, may we be able to see each other in heaven and smile, saying, “Yes, we made it.” But don’t forget—while we’re still here, we must spread the gospel of Christ.
If you want to be part of spreading the Word of God with what you wear, you can check out GuidingCross.
I’m wearing the Psalm 23 Christian Fleece Hoodie Set in light grey, and my partner is wearing the Made To Worship Christian Fleece Hoodie Set, Psalm 150:1-6. Use code Mel25 for 25% off.
I was so happy about our encounter yesterday—walking around in my Psalm 23 hoodie. Because yes, The Lord is my Shepherd; I shall not want.
Jesus is Lord.
Achieving the ideal balance between elegance and sophistication necessitates meticulous attention to detail. In this guide, I will be sharing 6 expert tips on how to upgrade a black dress to look elegant.
A black dress is a timeless fashion staple, but how you style it can elevate it from simple to effortlessly elegant. Many think that a black dress doesn't need effort; no way. You need to make an effort to avoid appearing dull and boring. Whether you're attending a formal event, a business meeting, or a special occasion, a few thoughtfully chosen accessories can elevate your black dress into an opulent focal point. Black is not a dull color; it is if you make it one. In this guide, we’ll explore 6 essential items to upgrade your black dress to make it look classier and more sophisticated.
1. Classic Heels
Shoes set the foundation for any outfit. If your dress is not covering your shoes, make sure your shoes match your outfit. Choosing the right pair of heels can instantly enhance your black dress. Simple heels are always the best options; sandal heels are also good options, but here are the best choices:
Nude Heels – A neutral choice that elongates the legs and keeps the look understated. It adds a touch of feminine elegance to your overall appearance. It blends well with skin tone. Nude heels go with almost every outfit; you will be surprised at how versatile they are.
Black Heels – A sleek and elegant option for a monochrome aesthetic. Buy a pair of heeled sandals or pumps. They fit with everything in your closet, especially for those who love to keep it simple but stay classy. They are budget-friendly too; there are lots of available options to choose from, especially if you are shopping online.
Red Heels – A bold yet classy touch, adding a regal pop of color to your outfit (My heels are from New Look).

2. Statement Jewelry: Emerald Elegance
Emerald green is such a strong and subtle color that adds sophistication to a black dress. Green emerald stones contrast beautifully against black, giving a refined, luxurious feel. Here are the must-have jewelry pieces:
Emerald Earrings – Timeless and classy, perfect for drawing attention to your face.
Emerald Stone Bangle – Adds a delicate sparkle while keeping the look polished.
Emerald Ring – A subtle but effective way to elevate your outfit.
3. Bracelet Watches
No look is complete without a stunning watch. Not all watches fit with a formal outfit; I'm not sure why people wear smartwatches with a formal dress, but I might never know. Bracelets, bangles, or even leather watches are more suitable alternatives. I am wearing The Bracelet Square Watch (18K Rose Gold Plated), which is the perfect piece to add an exquisite touch. This watch features:
A square bezel with triangle CZ stones on both ends
A rose-plated tone with a green dial, making it exceptionally exquisite
A versatile design suitable for everyday wear and formal banquets
Watch Specifications:
Length: 180mm + 50mm Chain Extension
Water Resistance: 50m
Movement Type: Quartz
Shipping: Shipped out within 24 hours.
4. A Black Dress
Choosing the right black dress is essential. I love black dresses because you can wear them so many times, and they will appear different depending on how you accessorize them. For a sophisticated and well-tailored look, consider the Black Petite Mel Dress. Your dress needs to be free-fitting, not tight. My dress is by Hobbs London, but you can also find it at Next Store. The dress is known as the Petite Mel. It is versatile, making it ideal for various occasions such as graduation, formal summer events, and church wear.
A black dress is an investment piece that works for multiple occasions, transitioning seamlessly from work meetings to evening events. You are to add a coat when it gets cold.







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Why Is Hand Care After Gardening Important?
Step 1: Cleanse with Green Lady Cold Processed Soap
Your hands are likely extremely dirty after a day of gardening. But did you know that regular soaps can take away the oils that keep the skin healthy? That's why Green Lady Cold Processed Soap is perfect to use after gardening.

What Makes It Special?
- Handmade in Scotland using traditional slow-curing methods for long-lasting quality.
- It is packed with deeply nourishing ingredients like Coconut Oil, Shea Butter, and Olive Oil .
- It contains Frankincense and French Lavender Essential Oils to soothe and calm your skin.
- It is packed in a sustainable package with no single-use plastics, making it kind to the planet.
- How to use Green Lady Soap: Remove the Green Lady Soap from its eco-friendly canvas bag.
After rinsing off the soap, your skin will be clean, refreshed, and ready to receive nourishment.