| Kourtney N. Stevenson (Courtesy: McCracken County Jail) |
Let us talk honestly about food delivery and what it now represents in our society.
Recently, a disturbing incident involving a DoorDash delivery driver came to light. A couple ordered food and left what many would consider a modest tip. After the food was delivered to their porch, their security camera captured the driver spraying a substance onto the food package. Shortly after, the wife began eating the meal and started choking violently, coughing to the point of nearly losing consciousness. Only then did her husband review the camera footage and see the delivery driver, identifiable by her purple hair, spraying the food with what was later believed to be pepper spray.
The driver who was caught on camera tampering with a customer’s meal has officially been caught. Kourtney Stevenson, 29, was arrested in Kentucky and is facing multiple felony charges, including Consumer Product Tampering and Battery Resulting in Moderate Injury.
Despite her claiming she was just "spraying a spider," investigators didn't buy it—especially since it was 35°F outside! The couple she targeted ended up in agony, suffering from burning in their throats and stomachs.
This is exactly why we have to be careful. You can watch the shocking footage that led to her arrest right here:
This is not just a story meant to shock. It is a warning.
Food is not just a product. Food enters your body. It affects your health, your safety, and sometimes your survival. When you eat, you are placing immense trust in whoever prepared, handled, transported, and delivered that meal. In the past, food was prepared by family, trusted neighbors, or professionals working under strict oversight. Today, we are expected to trust complete strangers because an app tells us to.
That is a major shift, and we should not ignore its consequences.
Technology Is a Tool, Not a Guarantee of SafetyTechnology can be useful. Phones, apps, and delivery services were created to make life easier. But convenience does not automatically mean safety. There is a dangerous belief today that because something is popular, widely advertised, and used by millions, it must be safe. That is not always true.
Food delivery apps rely heavily on volume. Their main goal is to get as many drivers on the road as possible and as many orders delivered as possible. While companies often claim they conduct background checks, those checks are limited. A clean police record does not mean a person has good character. It only means they have not been caught.
Most delivery drivers are decent people trying to earn a living. That must be said clearly. But the system does not filter for emotional stability, moral judgment, or impulse control. And when food is involved, even one bad actor is one too many.
The Illusion of Safety and the Reality of RiskFood delivery creates a long chain of handling: the restaurant, the packaging, the pickup, the transport, the drop-off, and finally you. Each step introduces risk. Once the food is left unattended on a porch or hallway, anything can happen. Cameras catch some incidents, but many homes do not have them.
Think about people with allergies. Think about elderly individuals. Think about children. How many people may have gotten sick, choked, or worse without ever knowing why?
This is not paranoia. This is awareness.
Tipping Culture and EntitlementAnother uncomfortable truth must be addressed: entitlement.
No one has the right to tamper with food because they are unhappy with a tip. If someone accepts a job knowing the pay structure, they are responsible for doing that job with integrity. Doctors, nurses, pilots, security guards, cleaners, retail workers, and many others do not receive tips, yet they perform their duties professionally every day.
Tipping is optional, not a moral obligation enforced by threat. When entitlement turns into retaliation, it becomes dangerous. And when that retaliation involves food, it becomes potentially deadly.
Low pay is a real issue, but poisoning or tampering with someone’s meal is never justified. If a job is unbearable, the responsible choice is to leave it, not to harm others.
Weak Oversight and Corporate DetachmentThe harsh reality is that large corporations are insulated from the consequences of these incidents. Executives are not ordering food through these apps daily. They have private chefs, trusted staff, and controlled environments. When something goes wrong, the burden falls on the customer, not the company.
Reports are filed. Apologies are issued. Life goes on.
But for families affected, the damage is real.
A Return to Personal ResponsibilityThere was a time when food was prepared at home, shared at the table, and treated with respect. Vulnerable people were assisted by trusted caregivers, not anonymous gig workers rushing against a timer.
Cooking is not always easy. Life is busy. But learning to prepare simple meals, buying groceries, and eating in places where you can see your food being made restores control. It reduces risk. It strengthens self-reliance.
You do not need to embrace every new technology simply because it exists. Wisdom lies in knowing what to accept and what to refuse.
Teaching the Next GenerationChildren must be taught early that they are not entitled to everything they want. Entitlement breeds resentment, and resentment leads to harmful behavior. Love is not giving without limits. Love is teaching truth, discipline, and responsibility.
A society that avoids correction creates adults who cannot handle disappointment. And when disappointment meets access to someone else’s food, the results can be tragic.
This world is not as gentle as it once was. That does not mean we should live in fear, but it does mean we must live with awareness. Your life is not a gamble. Your health is not a convenience fee.
If there is one habit worth reconsidering as we move forward, it is cooked food delivery from strangers. Prepare your meals when you can. Eat where accountability exists. Teach your children caution, patience, and responsibility.
Technology should serve humanity, not endanger it.
Sometimes, the old ways were not outdated. They were wise.
Hi Melody! First of all, congratulations on being featured on Nicole's FFO. You make some really good points here. I don't order food delivery very often, because my wife enjoys cooking, so we only eat out occasionally. However, my daughters do, so that's scary. Happy Holidays!
ReplyDeleteQue pena o acontecido! Aqui confio nos nossos entregadores e tomara não me engane! Lindo fim de semana! beijos, FELIZ NATAL! chica
ReplyDeleteI sincerely hope your trust stays well-placed. Most drivers are just good people trying to do their jobs, but stories like this are such a wake-up call. It’s definitely one of those situations where you just have to stay vigilant and hope for the best.
DeleteBoa tarde Melody. Nunca comi comida por APP. Aqui no Brasil tem muitos falsos entregadores. Grande abraço carioca do Brasil.
ReplyDeleteIt’s interesting (and scary) to hear that Brazil deals with "fake" drivers on top of everything else, it just goes to show that these safety issues are happening everywhere. I’ll definitely stick to my own kitchen.
DeleteIo non ordino mai cibo da consegna e, dopo aver letto questo post, sono molto contenta di non farlo !!! Ne approfitto per lasciarti i miei auguri di buone feste !! Saluti.
ReplyDeleteI don't blame you one bit. Seeing stories like this definitely validates the choice to skip the delivery apps altogether. It's just not worth the gamble.
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ReplyDeleteWhat a terrible story! If I were in their shoes, I wouldn't forgive them and I would report this to the appropriate authorities.
Melody, I send you greetings and wish you a good weekend!
I’m with you, forgiveness is a tall order when someone’s health is intentionally put at risk like that. Thankfully, the authorities did step in and she’s facing several felonies. It’s just a heavy reminder that we really have to be our own best advocates when it comes to safety these days.
DeleteWe can't order food, bing rural. I am sure awful things can happen.
ReplyDeleteIn this case, being rural is actually a blessing in disguise. It’s scary to think about what can happen when you lose that line of sight on your food. Sometimes the inconvenience of living far out is exactly what keeps us safe and intentional about what we're eating.
DeleteI don't even know how to comment on such a story..... :(
ReplyDeleteI know, it’s honestly hard to find the right words when something is this senseless.
DeleteOh Melody. This story is upsetting and I can't quite believe someone can be so evil. Ohhh wait, I forgot the time we are living in, so yes, I can. Again you have written about a subject that must be addressed on so many levels. Especially the part about the children. As you know, with Mr. M's. kidney issues we don't eat out or have food delivered. Having a meal with family is almost lost but is so important in family life. Also the corporate detachment. They would never think to have food dropped at the door. Or to pay employers a decent wage. It would cut into their pockets. It's a wicked circle that has engulfed our world. On a better note, wishing you a very happy holiday season and the best for 2026.
ReplyDeleteIt’s so good to hear from you, and you’re exactly right. It’s heartbreaking that we’ve reached a point where evil is just another headline we have to navigate. I’m so glad you and Mr. M have stuck to home-cooked meals; it’s honestly the only way to be 100% sure of what’s going into your body, especially with his kidney health.
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ReplyDeleteIt really is. It’s hard to wrap your head around someone being that cruel over something as simple as a food delivery. Just a sad situation all around.
DeleteThis was such a horrible act for her to commit. You just cant be too careful.
ReplyDeleteYou’re so right, it’s just a sad reality of the world we're living in now. You think you're just ordering a quick dinner, but you end up having to worry about your basic safety. Being careful isn't even a choice anymore; it's a necessity.
DeleteThese door dash drivers are getting completely out of hand. I only ordered DoorDash twice and both times they never delivered it to my address. So I never ordered it again. I'm sure they stole my food. Not worth the hassle.
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