Happy new year: welcome to the year 2025

Finally, we have reached the end of 2024. Wow, I feel like the year flew by, almost as if it’s being chased by 2025, eager to make its entrance. I’m really excited about the new year, and I know I’ve said it several times, but I’m truly thankful for life! I wish you all a Happy New Year and can't wait to read all your blog posts in the year ahead, living according to God's plan.

HAPPY NEW YEAR! WELCOME TO 2025!

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The Dark Side of Tipping Culture: When Entitlement Turns Deadly

In my previous post, I mentioned it would be my last, but when I came across this news today, I felt compelled to share my thoughts.

For every country I have lived in, visiting restaurants has been one of the fun things I enjoyed doing. Never have I been obligated to give tips. Even in Ukraine, where I really enjoyed the services when I went out, I was never obligated or talked down to by a delivery person or server to give tips. I did it at will. The same applies to Hungary and here in the UK. However, I know experiences can differ from person to person.

When my friend traveled to America, she told me that waiters and servers gave her bad looks and even asked her to tip them. She was about to leave a restaurant, and a waiter asked her outright, “Where is my tip?” I was shocked when she said this happened several times in different places. I kept wondering: how are waiters allowed to harass customers like this and get away with it?

I’m not sure about the laws in America regarding tipping, but the broad understanding is that tips are given as a way for customers to appreciate good service, purely by choice. There is no obligation.

Today, while browsing through Instagram, I came across news about a case I’d heard about before, but now I got the full details. Seeing the face of the lady who stabbed another human being over a $2 tip was shocking. According to the story in the media, she made a delivery to someone staying in a motel and was tipped $2. She left but returned later with a man, forced their way into the person’s room, and stabbed the person several times.

The stabbed woman found out she was pregnant while receiving treatment in the hospital, according to NBC news. The 22-year-old woman who carried out the stabbing is facing charges of attempted murder.

This tragic incident highlights a deeper issue within society, particularly among the youth. The sense of entitlement and lack of accountability have led to behaviors that are both alarming and destructive. How do you justify harming someone over a personal choice like tipping?

People who take delivery or service jobs made that choice—no one forced them. Even if someone felt compelled by circumstances, they still chose to work because only those of working age are allowed to do such jobs. Whether it’s a well-paying job or not, everyone is navigating this tough economy. We’re all struggling, so there’s no excuse for entitlement.

Christmas with Friends: Wishing you a Merry Christmas

It’s just two days to Christmas, and guess what? I’m not working on Christmas Day!

I’ve been thinking about writing a Christmas post because I can’t end this year without thanking everyone who has been reading, commenting, and supporting my blog. Writing and connecting with all of you through my thoughts and feelings about life has truly been one of my favorite activities this year.

A few days ago, my friend Ebube called and mentioned that she’d be coming to Glasgow for a day trip with Yinka. They planned to leave the next day, and it got me thinking about how every year, since moving to the UK during the Christmas period, I’ve had the chance to meet up with Ebube. Do you remember my Christmas trip to Edinburgh with Ebube? Well, we’re doing it again this year, but this time, it’s just a quick day trip before Christmas.

Yesterday, being Sunday, Yinka arrived on time as planned. She used FlixBus, and it didn’t disappoint this time. Unlike the first time I used it to travel to Aberdeen for her graduation, the delay at the station caused me to arrive late. Ebube, on the other hand, had a bit of a hectic journey. Her flight from Cork to Glasgow circled above the city for about 20–30 minutes because of strong winds, and they eventually decided to land at Edinburgh Airport instead. From there, she took a bus to Glasgow.

Once we picked her up from Glasgow airport, she dropped off her things at the hotel, changed her outfit, and we headed to the city center. We went to a lounge, relaxed, and caught up with each other.

They are both traveling back today; I really appreciate their presence. We had a wonderful time, and it was a lovely Christmas visit. They did mention that Glasgow didn’t seem to have much of a Christmas vibe or many lights, which I hadn’t noticed until they pointed it out. I joked that maybe the city was broke, and we all laughed about it. I wish them a safe journey back.

One Blogging Mistake That Is Reducing Your Traffic (And How to Fix It Now)

Many bloggers struggle to drive traffic to their blogs, and one common mistake I've noticed while visiting many new blogs through their Google profiles is leaving outdated links on their profiles. Ever since Google shut down Google+, which I consider one of Google's biggest missteps, this issue has become more common. Google+ was a fantastic platform for connecting bloggers, sharing blog posts, and resolving blogging challenges, thanks to the wealth of information shared there. Now, without Google+, you can no longer view a blogger's profile directly without clicking on their Google account or visiting their blog URL. Unfortunately, many bloggers still have outdated, nonfunctional blogs linked to their profiles, leading to an increase in bounce rate.

What is Bounce Rate?

I’ve explained this in a previous post, but here’s a quick recap: Bounce rate refers to the percentage of single-page visits on your website, where a visitor leaves without interacting further. It’s calculated by dividing the number of single-page visits by the total visits and then representing that as a percentage. A high bounce rate often indicates that visitors are not engaging with your content.

The Problem

When a visitor clicks on your Google profile and finds multiple links, they might accidentally click on one of your outdated blogs. When they realize the blog is inactive, they often close your profile altogether, without checking other links. Even if they do go back and click on an active link, their initial disappointment may lead to spending less time reading your content, which can still contribute to a higher bounce rate.

How to Fix This Issue

1. Remove Non-Functional Links From Your Google Profile

Go through your Google profile and remove links to old or inactive blogs. Only leave links to blogs that are active and regularly updated.

2. Prioritize Updated Blogs

If you manage multiple blogs, make sure the most frequently updated blog appears as the first link on your profile.

3. Include Post Dates

Display the date on each of your blog posts. This helps visitors see that your blog is active and that the content is current.

Against the Tide: Protecting Freedom in a World of Control

While I was watching a reality TV show about a family who lives and raises their children in the bush, I was struck by the profound implications of their story. This family had built their life in the bush, far from the conveniences and demands of modern society. However, the government burned down their home located on public land, forcing them to relocate. Determined to continue their way of life, they purchased land deep in the forest in Alaska—a remote and inexpensive location—and began rebuilding. But the challenges didn’t end there: they had to endure long drives and build a new cabin just to maintain their lifestyle.

Why am I writing about this? Because their experience reflects a broader issue: the way governments and modern societies treat people who choose to live differently. Across the world, there are indigenous tribes and isolated communities who have been “discovered” by tourists, explorers, scientists, or even random adventurers. Once these groups are identified, governments often step in, claiming they need to introduce modernization, enforce regulations, or teach these people a “better” way of life. This paternalistic approach strips individuals and communities of their autonomy and disregards their unique cultures, traditions, and choices.

In my opinion, if we want to live in a world where human rights truly prevail, then people must be allowed to live the way they choose—whether or not we agree with their way of life. As long as they are not harming others, their choices should be respected. I’ve seen reality shows and documentaries from countries like the United States, Canada, and others, where indigenous tribes and remote communities are filmed without consent, their lives laid bare for public consumption. These invasions of privacy are not just disrespectful; they’re exploitative. Forcing these communities into the global spotlight, altering their way of life, or making them adapt to systems they never asked for is a gross violation of their freedom.

Some families and individuals deliberately reject the conventional trappings of modern society. They do not want to pay electricity bills, take on car or house loans, or be beholden to government systems. They don’t want to live a life of perpetual debt or adhere to societal expectations like attending formal schools or holding steady jobs. Instead, they prioritize simplicity, self-reliance, and connection with nature. Not everyone wants to use cell phones or drink contaminated tap water; some people crave fresh water, prefer planting their own food, and living sustainably. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Forcing them to conform to a system—a system often plagued by corruption, inequality, and coercion—is deeply unjust.

Happy Thanksgiving from a thankful heart.

Have you taken the time to reflect on the year from its beginning to its near conclusion? I was at home when I had a deep reflection on Thanksgiving Day. God reminded me of all he has done for me this year, and I just started praising and worshiping him. God has guided every aspect of my life this year. God gave me peace, taught me patience, and shifted my heart from things that added no value to my life—and that didn't point me towards heaven. God provided me with a path to follow, which I will discuss in more detail soon, but overall, my heart is overflowing with joy. I want to thank God that I am among the living, and I am healthy enough to move around and do things. I want to thank God for keeping my parents alive, and I know that my prayer for them for 120 years will come true. I will look back on this post and say, "Yes, indeed, God is great."

Every day should be Thanksgiving. Happy Thanksgiving. What are you thankful for?

Recovering from stress

The holiday season has arrived, bringing with it a multitude of concerns for those balancing work and holiday preparations. Many are feeling the pressure of achieving their year-end goals, yet it is essential to prioritize health amidst these stresses.

We all face stress in our lives, including traffic, monthly bills, health worries, and relationship issues. Persistent worry, due to the inextricable link between the mind and body, can negatively affect health and contribute to a variety of illnesses.

While you cannot eliminate all kinds of stress, you can learn how to manage stress and develop resilience—the ability to recover from adversity.

Some people seem to enjoy better and healthier lives because they are inherently upbeat and cheerful. These people frequently transform obstacles and possible setbacks into chances and achievements. This way of thinking is consistent with the idea of "antifragility," which is the capacity to flourish and become more resilient in the face of adversity and stress. According to this perspective, stress is a necessary part of life, and developing antifragility enables people to leverage their strengths to overcome obstacles.

Happy New Month! Welcome to the month of December 2024!

Happy New Month! Welcome to the month of December. I am so excited about ending the year with clarity, God's leading, success, and vision through His guidance.

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The Overlooked Impact of Teenage Pregnancy on Parents: A Heartfelt Reflection

The Impact of Teenage Pregnancy on Parents

Teenage pregnancy is one of the biggest fears for many parents. Growing up in a large Christian family instilled in us the belief that marriage is honorable, a belief that continues to resonate with me today. The truth is, teenage pregnancy doesn't just affect the teenager involved; it often shapes their lives in challenging ways, leading to a path filled with struggle and stress. While some young parents rise above their circumstances with stories of triumph, others find themselves wishing they had never ventured down that path.

It's crucial to guide and watch over our teens, but we often overlook a significant aspect: the impact on parents when their child either becomes pregnant or is involved in a teenage pregnancy. We rarely discuss the challenges faced by parents whose children are involved in teenage pregnancy. I remember growing up and witnessing a few girls in my community get pregnant. My dad was terrified and warned me to be careful. I could see the fear in his eyes and hear it in his trembling voice, especially since these were girls I grew up with, talked to, and attended Bible study with. His concern came straight from the heart. Thankfully, I heeded his advice, but the experience left me thinking deeply about how much fear and anxiety parents endure.

Often, when teenage pregnancy happens, the focus tends to be on the teenager's future and the societal reactions, but we forget about the parents' pain and heartbreak. Many parents feel judged, ashamed, and even ostracized by their communities. You might say, "Well, why should they care about what society thinks?" But the truth is, as humans, we're naturally conscious of how we're perceived by others. We want to present our best selves to the world, and so do our parents.

When parents react emotionally to the news of a teenage pregnancy, they are sometimes labeled as harsh or uncaring. I've heard stories of people criticizing their parents for their intense reactions, calling them cruel or unloving. Yet, in many cases, those reactions stem from a place of deep pain and disappointment—not just in their children but also in themselves. Parents often feel like they've failed in their upbringing or that their child didn't listen to their guidance. And while it’s true that not all children will heed their parents' advice, it doesn’t take away from the hurt parents feel when things go awry.

The Emotional Toll on Parents

Teenage pregnancy can affect parents in profound ways, but we seldom acknowledge this. Here are some of the emotional and psychological impacts it can have on them:

1. Broken Trust: Parents often feel a deep sense of betrayal, which can affect their trust in their other children as well.

2. Living in Fear: There's a constant worry that the same situation might happen again, either with the same child or with their siblings.

3. Increased Anger: The stress and fear can make them more irritable and prone to outbursts.

4. Shame and guilt: Many parents feel ashamed among their peers and carry a heavy burden of guilt, questioning where they went wrong.

5. Judgment in Religious Communities: For those in religious settings, especially if they hold a position like a pastor, they might be labeled as careless or even unfit for their role, leading to loss of respect and position.

6. Social Withdrawal: Parents may become withdrawn, keeping to themselves to avoid judgment and uncomfortable questions.

7. Loss of Joy: The disappointment and stress can take away their smiles and rob them of their happiness.

8. Diminished confidence: They might lose confidence in their parenting abilities and question their self-worth.

Office Secret Santa: Keep It Simple, Keep It Practical

Let’s be real—Secret Santa in the office is not everyone’s cup of tea. Personally, I’d rather skip it entirely. There’s always that lingering pressure to pick something “perfect,” and no one needs another mug collecting dust in a cabinet (seriously, let’s retire the mug gifting trend). But if you’re in it and want to make your gift count, here are some safe, practical ideas that are both budget-friendly and actually useful.

Smart, Practical Gift Ideas

Desk Organizers
Everyone loves a tidy workspace. Think small drawer organizers, pen holders, or even cord clips to tame those unruly wires. They’re simple, functional, and won’t break the bank.

Mini Plants
Succulents or air plants are easy to care for and can liven up even the gloomiest desk. Bonus points if they’re low-maintenance—no one wants to babysit a high-maintenance ficus.

Fancy Snacks
Snacks are a crowd-pleaser, but skip the generic stuff. A box of gourmet popcorn, some artisan cookies, or even a curated mix of healthy treats can feel thoughtful without trying too hard.

Tech-Friendly Accessories
If your office is phone-free, go for other practical gadgets like blue-light glasses, a mini desk lamp, or a screen cleaning kit. They’re handy and show you’ve put some thought into the gift.

Notebooks or Planners
A sleek pocket notebook or a minimalist planner? Yes, please. Perfect for jotting down ideas, meeting notes, or just pretending to be organized.

Stress Relievers
A good stress ball, a fun fidget toy, or even a roll-on essential oil blend—these are great for those long workdays when you need to decompress (or survive another meeting).

Reusable Lunch Accessories
Collapsible lunch boxes, reusable cutlery sets, or even eco-friendly silicone food bags—practical, thoughtful, and perfect for anyone who brings their lunch.

Personalized Office Supplies
Customized sticky notes or quirky paperclips are small, affordable, and still show effort. Plus, they’re actually useful.

Keep the budget low, the gift neutral, and the vibe easygoing. Secret Santa should be fun, not an exercise in overthinking. If all else fails? Go for snacks—no one’s ever been mad about getting good snacks.

How to create a soft holiday glam: 5 pro steps

I personally don’t like heavy makeup, baby hairs, or anything that looks too unnatural. That’s why I’m not a fan of overly curved or pronounced eyebrows. When it comes to holiday looks, I know eye glitter is often a go-to, but I prefer a soft holiday glam—it’s so much better!

A soft holiday glam makeup look gives you a natural, toned-down style that’s perfect for parties, date nights, or even weekend brunch. If you’re aiming for a soft glam look that doesn’t feel heavy, here are some tips:

Skin: Radiant skin is the foundation of any attractive soft glam.

Your skin is a big part of your look, so prepping it is the first step. Start by washing or cleansing your face, especially if your last wash was hours ago. Personally, I like to take a quick shower beforehand to feel fresh and clean, but it’s okay as long as your skin is clean.

Never apply makeup on dry skin—moisturize first! I use the Vitamin C Glow Skin Tonic by Skin Saints, and ever since I started using the Edinburgh Skincare Anti-Aging Face Cream (it’s like skin butter with coconut oil), I’ve noticed my powder blends so much better. I apply the skin butter in moderation, just enough to create a smooth base.

Powder:

Next, I go straight to powder. I use the MAC Studio Fix Powder Plus Foundation in shade NW45. I skip liquid foundation to keep things light and avoid that heavy feel. Pro tip: Apply your powder like you’re shading lightly—it blends better that way.

Brows:

Keep your brows looking natural. After applying powder, my brows tend to look a bit dim, so I use a brown brow pencil to add a subtle tone. Then, I brush my brows to shape them. For a natural soft glow, avoid overdrawing or making your brows too bold.

Top 10 Business Travel Destinations in Europe

Going on a business vacation or bleisure to a different place is an excellent method to liven up your work routine. Whether you work in fashion, banking, manufacturing, or the automotive industry, Europe has fantastic destinations for business visitors.

The following are our top 10 most popular European cities with flourishing commercial sectors, spectacular event venues, and a variety of activities to enjoy during downtime.

Let's look at the top 10 business trip destinations in Europe.

1. London, England.

London is a hub of genius, where Canary Wharf's financial strength meets the creative pulse of Camden and Shoreditch. The UK's massive economic output includes finance, technology, hospitality, and the arts, all of which thrive in London's dynamic environment.

World-class venues such as ExCeL London, The Shard, and Olympia London drive success, while annual events such as the Business Travel Show and Going Global Live promote networking and growth. London metropolis, Heathrow, and Gatwick are the main airports that provide easy access to the metropolis.

In your spare time, visit historic sights such as the Tower of London and Buckingham Palace, see a show in the West End, or take a peaceful Thames-side stroll. As twilight falls, explore the city's diverse culinary scene in Covent Garden before heading to the cobbled lanes of Soho to enjoy London's famous nightlife.

2. Paris, France.

The "City of Love" in the heart of Europe is so captivating that it can even make business travel more exciting. Discover world-class event sites such as the Paris Expo Porte de Versailles and the Maison de la Mutualité, where networking, conferences, and exhibitions are transformed into experiences rather than just work.

Furthermore, Paris features exciting yearly events such as Viva Technology and Paris Retail Week, which connect you with global innovators with compelling stories to tell. Whether you're a seasoned tourist or a first-time visitor, the Charles de Gaulle and Orly airports make it easy to reach this urban retreat.

Beyond business, visit landmarks such as the Eiffel Tower and the Louvre Museum. Whether for business or pleasure, a journey to Paris is incomplete without sampling the local bread, wine, and cheese. Explore the banks of the Seine to find hidden jewels and charming cafés.

3. Berlin, Germany.

The bustling capital of Germany entices business tourists with its distinctive blend of innovation and tradition. As one of Europe's top business towns, it serves as a thriving hub for tech companies and creative sectors. World-class venues such as Messe Berlin make this city an excellent choice for business possibilities and inspiration.

In less than 30 minutes, the Express Train FEX connects the regional airport to Berlin Central Station. It leaves Terminal 1's train station every half hour. Whatever corner of Berlin your business map leads you to, you'll get there easily.

When time allows, immerse yourself in Berlin's rich history, from the remains of the Berlin Wall and the renowned Brandenburg Gate to the cultural refuge of Museum Island. If you have some free time, visit vibrant neighborhoods such as Kreuzberg and Prenzlauer Berg, where Berlin's true soul can be felt.

4. Madrid, Spain.

Madrid is an excellent choice for a work vacation, offering a blend of modernism and tradition that caters to both professional needs and leisure activities. The city features excellent event venues, including IFEMA, Feria de Madrid, and the Palacio Municipal de Congresos, which are suited for conferences of all sizes. Madrid also holds well-known yearly business events, such as the Madrid International Real Estate Exhibition (SIMA) and Madrid Fusión, a global gastronomic conference.

The Spanish capital is a center for a variety of industries, including finance, technology, fashion, and tourism. The Airport Train (Cercanías, Line C-1) connects the airport to important train stations such as Chamartín and Atocha, making it simple for business travelers to reach the city center.

Businesspeople can network and enjoy the city's colorful culture. Outside of work, you can visit historic buildings such as the Royal Palace and the Prado Museum, eat at Michelin-starred restaurants, or relax in the beautiful Retiro Park.

5. Munich, Germany.

Munich, located in southern Germany, is an ideal destination for business travelers. Known for its economic strength and technological innovation, the city offers major events such as EXPO REAL and BAUMA, which are ideal for industry networking and growth. The ICM Munich and Messe München are premier locations for corporations globally.

Munich's Franz Josef Strauss Airport provides easy access, and the city's cultural sector gives plenty to discover. In your spare time, visit Nymphenburg Palace and Marienplatz to soak up some culture. Indulge in Bavarian cuisine and raise a stein at one of Munich's famed beer halls. While many people understand English, learning a few basic German words can be extremely beneficial. Locals frequently appreciate your efforts, even if your German is limited.

10 essential tips to enhance your business trip packing list and overall experience

10 things to keep in mind when planning your business trip's itinerary and activities

Discover 10 items and guidance for a successful business trip, including a packing list and recommendations!

Traveling for business purposes is very different from vacation travel. Not only are you stepping into a new work culture, but you also require additional comfort to be productive, such as reliable Wi-Fi.

You can't ignore the logistical considerations, like making sure you have everything you need for a business trip in immaculately packed luggage. Local customs and etiquette are examples of items that you would not think to bring on a vacation but which are crucial to its success.

1. Consider bringing a plug converter on your business trip.

During a work trip, you'll likely be using your laptop for the majority of the time, so having access to energy is really vital.

Not only can sockets vary across continents, but they can also vary within countries on the same continent. For example, sockets in one country might not fit into another. Do your homework and make sure to include a plug converter on your packing list if you think you might need one.

Expert tip: The letter denominator can help you identify different types of plugs, such as type G, type C, E, and F.

2. Get a head start on gathering personal care items.

When you're on a business trip, it's important to pack wisely to avoid wasting space or having your amenities explode in your bag and spoil your business clothes. Remember that there is a 100 ml bottle restriction for toiletries if you are traveling with only carry-on luggage.

You won't need to bring your own shampoo and shower gel if the hotel provides them. Space and packing concerns will be alleviated. Limit yourself to necessities, such as hand sanitizer or prescription toiletries, as you can be sure that these won't be available on the premises.

If you can't see the amenities stated on the property page, a helpful hint is to inquire about them.

3. You should bring a refillable water bottle.

It goes without saying that maintaining an adequate fluid intake is critical to health and well-being. If you're traveling on a business trip and anticipate sitting for long periods of time in meetings, bring along your go-to bottle.

While the water from the faucet is safe to drink in certain nations, you might want to bring along some bottled water just in case. Consider bringing a refillable water bottle on a business trip if you'll be visiting a country with potable tap water.

Modern travelers and fitness enthusiasts alike can start their trip worry-free with the Collapsible Silicone Water Bottle. People who value efficiency and durability will find its silicone construction appealing.

Expert advice: find out in advance whether the local water supply is safe to drink. Bring a refillable water bottle if that's the case.

4. Get all of your trip paperwork printed.

You can get your boarding card printed and ready to scan at the airport with several different airline applications. If you'd rather not risk your phone dying on you or losing signal, you may always print your boarding pass.

While on business travel, some people find it more convenient to get some work done while in transit. Remember that certain digital tools let you work offline if you download them in advance, especially if the journey takes many hours.

Assume you will be unable to use the internet and get all of your key documents ready accordingly. This implies that you should save all documents to your computer and print off just the ones you'll actually need before you go.

5. Bring two portable chargers—one for your phone and one for your laptop.

Power banks are available in a variety of forms and capacities. There are two options here: get one with a 10,000 mAH capacity and use it just for your phone, or splurge on a power bank for both your laptop and phone. Even though these power banks are three times as expensive as an external battery for a phone, they are well worth the investment for flights that last longer or for laptops with fewer batteries. Their capacity is over 40,000 mAH.

Remember that you'll still need cords to link your electronic devices to your power bank; for example, if you charge your phone using one connection, double-check that the same cable is required to charge your external battery.

The Products I Use to Keep My Hair Tangle-Free and Control My Edges

Having products that work for your hair and do the essentials is what everyone needs. I shared the products I currently use to maintain my curls, edges, and moisture. I also posted a video on Instagram and embedded it within this blog post.

My hair is very curly, and keeping the curls tangle-free can be a bit challenging. However, I've discovered three products that work wonders for both my weave and natural hair. The first product I use for my curls is the Cantu Beauty Coil Calm Detangler.   Next, I apply the coconut oil shine and hold.  Lastly, to keep my edges under control, I use the Protective Styles Gel by Angela.

Being able to keep my hair moisturized and tangle-free makes it much easier to work with, especially during the winter months.

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Jade and Mia Sunglasses, by Dima Eyewear

When it comes to sunglasses, they are more than just an accessory to me—they're a statement, a vibe, and, let's face it, a necessity. If I told you how many pairs I left behind in Ukraine, you'd probably think I ran to a sunglasses boutique. Over 100 pairs. Seriously. However, an unexpected turn in my life forced me to make difficult decisions. Yet, even now, sunglasses remain a key part of my style, whether it's the blazing summer sun or the icy brilliance of winter.

Yes, I wear sunglasses in winter too. Think about it—snow reflects sunlight like crazy, and those bright, clear days can be harsh on your eyes. A stylish pair of sunglasses doesn't just shield your eyes; it elevates your whole look.

Speaking of excellent pairs, let's talk about Dima sunglasses . I'm smitten. The quality, the designs, the way they sit on your face—it's like they were made for me. I had one of those “feeling myself” moments when I first wore them, posing left and right while my partner captured every angle. On a side note, his photography skills have significantly improved.

Happy International Men's Day: The Bittersweet Journey of the Boy Child

The boy child is like a moving vehicle faster than a bugatti.

He learned to walk too fast.

Get over things like the future flash.

Nobody is teaching this boy positive masculinity, and he wears armor just to cover his insecurities.

You have been neglected for so long, and now to cry reminds you you're less of a man when crying is a part of growing too.

Someone tell this male that tears are welcome here.

The journey is only sweet when there is some ofe onugbu to accompany the fufu.

The bitter leaf is never complete without something to swallow, and the journey is bittersweet for the boy child to be a man when the man didn't finish learning how to first be a boy.

He's been walked out of the room when it comes to sexual abuse, and now the boy child can't say me too.

So he continues to walk too fast and chase the bag with the responsibility of the world on his shoulders.

This boy is a family man, striving for perfection that can only make a mad man run mad.

But someone tells him he's in control and that his presence commands attention.

An authority known for Kings because he's one

So please teach your sons and the ones unborn.

Teach boys carefully, patiently and, most importantly, lovingly.

 

By Ibquake

Happy International Men's Day.

Photo by Mathew Thomas

Lessons to learn from The Lost Children: A Netflix documentary

The Lost Children is a powerful Netflix documentary about a plane crash in Colombia, deep within a jungle near an indigenous community. This community had long struggled with government oppression and claimed mistreatment by the military. When the crash first occurred, the military couldn’t locate the wreckage. In response, members of the indigenous community took it upon themselves to search for the plane.

A 14-year-old boy, who had seen a small blue object in the jungle, guided the group to the wreckage. Despite using advanced technology, the military had been unable to find the plane, but this teenager led them straight to it. Upon examining the wreckage, they found no children’s bodies. Some boxes were opened, and signs suggested that the children might still be alive—including a 14-month-old baby.

The military continued their search with no progress, while people around the world anxiously awaited news. However, the indigenous people, not initially asked to help, remained patient, allowing the military to continue. Eventually, the military acknowledged their expertise and requested their assistance, and that’s when the true search began.

The indigenous people have a profound connection to the jungle, understanding it in ways the military could never. They also believe that not all powers are physical. So, they prayed and performed a ritual involving herbs, while others stayed behind and prayed for success. The military had to use helicopters to navigate the treacherous jungle, filled with wild animals. The first man to attempt the ritual was the father of the children, but he was immediately rejected. Instead, an elderly man was asked to drink the herbs and sit in a particular spot to receive guidance. In a trance-like state, he said he transformed into a tiger, saw lights, and found the children.

The next morning, he predicted they would find the children by 3 p.m. that day—the last day of the search. And they did. The children were found weak and emaciated, but alive. Their survival was a miracle, guided by nature and protected by God. The children shared that they had seen their mother die in the crash, but they had left the wreckage in search of help.

Chidimma Adetshina is Miss Universe 2024.

By now, I’m sure most of you are aware of the recently concluded Miss Universe competition. I followed the show closely, and in my opinion, Miss Nigeria, Chidimma Adetshina, truly deserved that crown. She was the clear standout, but of course, the judges made their choice, and she ended up as the first runner-up.

Chidinma answered all her questions with poise and intelligence, and she’s an absolutely stunning woman. I’m not just saying this because she’s Nigerian—I genuinely believe she was the best on that stage.

For those who may not know, Chidinma is a dedicated law student who has faced considerable backlash from some in South Africa due to her mixed heritage. Despite this, Nigeria has embraced her wholeheartedly, and she’s made us incredibly proud.

Congratulations to all the participants. I wish them all the best in their future endeavors.

Holiday Glam on a Budget: Effortless Christmas Outfit Ideas to Shine This Season

Are you planning anything special for Christmas this year? Honestly, I’m not sure what this Christmas will look like for me, but one thing’s for sure—if there’s a chance to attend any festive events, I will be showing up looking my best!

I recently dug out this stunning blackless dress from Uoozee that I’ve had in my closet for a while. When I finally wore it, the fabulous flare sleeves were the perfect fit for me. The dress is a solid color, high-neck, backless mini, and I like it! Since it's already freezing, I paired it with pantyhose, and honestly, it didn’t look bad at all! A little layering hack for winter parties, you know?

Speaking of parties, the holiday season is officially upon us, which means it’s time to plan those Christmas and New Year looks! I’ve got a bunch of holiday outfits lined up that I can't wait to share, but for now, let’s talk about the top trends this season. If you haven’t picked out your outfit for the office party, family gathering, or just a fun night out, there’s still time! Trust me, you don’t have to go overboard. Sometimes the best outfits are the ones you already own.Here’s a little secret: I’m not big on over-planning my outfits. I usually just visualize something cute in my head, do a quick ironing session if needed, hang it up, and I’m good to go. Trying on too many outfits just leaves me tired and confused, and I end up picking the wrong one anyway—can anyone relate?

But seriously, finding the perfect Christmas outfit is all about striking that balance. You want to look unique and original but also honor those classic traditions (yes, I’m talking about wearing something red! . You really don’t need to splurge to look fabulous—chances are, you’ve already got some great pieces in your closet. Just add a little sparkle here and there, maybe a shimmery bag or glittery shoes, and you’re all set to dazzle!

So, go ahead, grab that dress you’ve been saving, throw on a touch of glitter, add some fun accessories, and make that outfit shine. Oh, and don’t forget a cozy pair of hose—it’s giving me all the holiday vibes!

Now tell me, any fun Christmas plans on the horizon? Or have you picked out your perfect holiday look yet? Let’s chat in the comments!

The Recommended Guide for Driving in Fog

Today, Glasgow is extremely foggy, which often leads to a moody atmosphere. However, it's an ideal time to light candles and enjoy a relaxing movie. Personally, if you don't have any important activities outside of your house, I recommend staying indoors.

Foggy days are perfect for cuddling up in a blanket, lighting some scented candles, and enjoying a warm cup of pumpkin spice tea. If you have to go out, be vigilant and walk away from the roadway. Use less-busy footways that are close to motorways. Drivers do not see far, even though there are fog lights in cars.

For any motorist, one of the worst conditions is driving in fog. The thick mist greatly obscures vision, thereby making it difficult to see possible hazards, estimate distances, or even tell moving from stationary cars apart. This thorough advice will enable you to safely negotiate foggy weather.

 

Understanding the Difficulties of Foggy Conditions

Fog can seriously affect both your visibility on the road and in other cars. Visibility may occasionally reduce to only a few meters, which would make it challenging to estimate speed or tell if the car ahead is still or moving. This lowered visibility height increases the likelihood of crashes; hence, your driving behavior needs to change.

Basic Advice for Safe Driving in Fog: Use dipped headlights, wipers, and demisters.

Driving in fog, always switch to dipped headlights. High beams reflect off the fog, producing glare and even more limited seeing. Keep your windshield clear by running your wipers and demisters.

Turn on foglights as needed.

Front and rear fog lights, designed to cut through mist, enhance your car's visibility to others. Turn them off when circumstances improve to prevent blinding other vehicles; use them if visibility falls below 100 meters.

Change your pace and boost your following distance.

Drive at a slower pace than usual due to the possibility of fog impairing your ability to judge speed. Allow a minimum three-second gap between you and the vehicle in front instead of the usual two. This greater distance gives more time to react to abrupt stops.

Avoid relying solely on automatic lights.

Automatic headlights might not turn on in misty weather, particularly during the day. Make sure your lights are manually turned on to remain visible to other drivers.

Remain vigilant at interchanges.
If you have limited sight at a junction, open your windows to listen for vehicles. This can enable you to identify approaching cars you might not be able to see.

Mistakes people make when driving in Fog

• Avoid tailgating other vehicles.
• Especially if you rely on the automobile ahead to assist you, following too closely can cause you to feel falsely secure. 
• Stay far enough to prevent running across each other.
• Avoid accelerating to flee tailgaters.
• It can be tempting to accelerate if a car is behind too closely. Rather, keep a constant, safe speed and let them pass if at all feasible.
• Never rely just on daytime running lights.
• Only the front of your car is lit by these lights. To avoid rear-end incidents, make sure your back lights are also on.

Getting your vehicle ready for a drive-through fog

Make sure your car is in the best shape for foggy conditions before you start driving.

• Clean your windows and lights; dirt and grime will help to further obscure the view. 
• Check your windscreen, fog lights, and headlights for perfect clarity.
• Examine batteries and fuel levels. A particularly risky situation could be running out of petrol or experiencing a break in fog. 
• Check that your car is fit for the trip.
• Verify that every light is operational. Make sure your fog lights are working properly, as they will allow other cars to see you.

Does every car come with fog lights?

Absolutely, it's a requirement for all cars to have rear fog lights! It's important to note that not all cars come equipped with front fog lights, as they are not mandatory.

Why the Duex Float Portable Monitor is a Game Changer for My Work

You all know that when I share a product I genuinely love and that’s worth the hype, I go all out. I'm beyond thrilled and proud to introduce this gem to you: the Deux Float Portable Laptop Monitor.

I've always wanted an extended laptop screen, and since getting the Deux Float, my productivity has genuinely hit a new level. This product is perfect if you’re looking to boost productivity or make work more enjoyable. I can multitask so effortlessly, and on days when I want to make work more fun, I can stream something on one screen while working on the other. It's honestly a game changer.

What makes it so special? For starters, it has a super-responsive 1080p touchscreen, so you don’t even need a mouse to interact with it. It’s a spacious 15.6-inch display that pairs perfectly with 15 to 16-inch laptops.

Setting it up couldn’t be easier. The manual is clear and even includes photos, so you know you’re doing it right. I was excited to try it out with everything I own—it works with my Chromebook, my laptop, and even my phone! Just plug in the cable, and it connects instantly, no extra setup needed.

The Duex Float also has a built-in kickstand, which is amazing for using it on its own without attaching it to the laptop. The kickstand works with any laptop size, but if you prefer the magnetic attachment, they include four magnets for that option too.

I love how portable it is. Its compact, foldable design makes it easy to carry around. There’s also an option to adjust the screen’s color to protect your eyes during long workdays or late nights. The dual-hinge system is incredibly flexible, offering three modes: dual-screen, presentation, and desktop mode. So you can set it up in whatever way suits your productivity needs. As an independent display, it’s perfect for gaming or working with documents, and you can flip the screen around to easily share content with someone in front of you—great for work presentations or even just casual viewing.

One awesome feature is that the screen rotates both ways. You can easily show someone something on the screen without having to move your whole setup, making it perfect for collaborative work. Another person can use the Duex screen while you’re working on your laptop screen, which makes it super practical.

It’s also compatible with Apple Stage Manager for iPad OS! Instead of mirroring content onto a smaller 4:3 view, iPads with M-series processors can display active apps across the spacious 15.6-inch, 16:9 screen. I tested it out with an iPhone 15 Pro Max, and it worked flawlessly. Plus, it’s also compatible with Android devices, so it’s got great flexibility.

When I unboxed the Duex Float, I recorded it because I wanted to capture just how unique and practical the design is. I’ll be sharing my review on YouTube and Instagram reels soon so you can get a closer look.

Here’s what comes with the Duex Float:

• USB Type-C cable with USB-A to USB-C adapter
• HDMI cable
• Magnetic plates
• Adhesive stickers

And some standout features:

• Stacked design
• Two USB-C ports with pass-through charging
• One mini HDMI port
• Built-in kickstand
• Three different viewing modes

Product Specifications:

• SKU: 101-1011P01
• Screen Size: 15.6-inch touchscreen
• Resolution: 1920 x 1080 pixels
• Refresh Rate: 60 Hz
• Brightness: 250 nits (adjustable)
• Dimensions: 14.2" x 9.1" x 0.87"

For me, the Duex Float is a total winner, especially for anyone needing a larger screen on the go without much desk space. The HDMI and USB-C ports make it simple to connect to almost anything, and the pass-through charging is a huge plus! Its aluminum alloy frame is both durable and lightweight, which I really appreciate. The stand and monitor are sturdy enough that I don’t worry about it tipping over.

Now, it’s a bit heavier than my laptop, but I can still throw it into my bag for a quick cafe visit and travel with it. But it folds up perfectly, with the screen facing inward for protection. This screen has truly improved my remote work setup, saving me from neck strain and making my workflow smoother. And honestly, it’s making me look forward to work even more—it’s just fun to use!

If you haven’t tried the Duex yet, I highly recommend giving it a shot. I’m sure you won’t regret adding it to your office setup. Plus, they’re offering a discount code: HAPPY20 for 20% off. This product’s durability is unmatched, and it opens and closes with zero noise. Everything about it is high quality.

Beautiful photos of Fireweed (Chamerion angustifolium) Plant

While walking around my neighborhood, I enjoy looking at plants. I enjoy taking photos of them because of how beautiful they are. I have frequently observed this plant and eventually captured a photo of it, which I then decided to share. The name of this plant is Fireweed (Chamerion angustifolia). I would describe it as a tall, beautiful plant with its vivid magenta-pink flowers that bloom. In fall, the foliage turns into a rich burgundy crimson, making it more visually appealing.

The perennial is valuable for pollinators; it serves as a host for moth larvae and attracts a variety of insects. It is beneficial to wildlife but extremely poisonous to horses, cattle, and other livestock. Consumption can lead to stunted growth, liver issues, and even death in severe cases.

People have historically used fireweed for food and medicine. You can eat the young stems and make syrup and jam from the flowers. Also, people have used it medicinally as a salve and for digestive issues. Before using this plant, make sure you consult a verified botanist. Bushcrafters have also used the silky seed hairs as tinder and stuffing.

Fireweed grows in damp soils from calcareous to mildly acidic environments and spreads quickly, especially in fire-cleared areas. It is known as bombweed, rosebay willowherb, and fireweed. It is a resilient plant that enhances natural landscapes. You cannot walk past it without noticing it.

12 Cybersecurity Tips for Business Travel

Here are 12 cyber security tips for business travel that you should be aware of before your next trip to ensure the digital security of your business.

Cybersecurity for business travelers is an important topic because traveling for work might expose your company's and clients' data to significant risk. While on the go, your devices may be more vulnerable to scammers or burglars.

With cyber security risks continually growing and rising, it's critical to understand crucial cyber security advice for business travel and how to respond in the event of a cyberattack.

What are the best approaches to achieving digital security for business travel, and what aspects of cyber security should you consider?

What is cyber security?

Cybersecurity refers to the techniques that protect companies and individuals against internet dangers. Cyber dangers include social engineering, phishing, and malware. Cybercriminals may target businesses and attempt to gain unauthorized access to their systems, networks, and devices in order to steal private information or client data for financial benefit.

Cyber security in corporate travel is a major topic. As a business traveler, you are more vulnerable to cyber threats because you work outside of a secure office environment. You have a responsibility to safeguard your devices against cyber threats and ensure the security of your company's and clients' data.

During business travel, the chance of devices becoming infected with malicious software is substantial. This can occur if you connect to an insecure wireless network or use public computers or charging stations.

12 Key Points to Ensure Cybersecurity for Business Travel

Achieving cyber security for corporate travel is not an easy task, but following these 11 pieces of cyber security advice will ensure that you cover the most crucial components.

1. Lock down your devices.

When you are not using your device—whether a laptop, smartphone, or any other type of electronics for work—ensure that an identifying mechanism such as a password, PIN, fingerprint, or facial recognition is required to unlock and access the system.

This can enhance your computer security when traveling and safeguard your devices from theft.

2. Update your passwords.

Are your devices password protected? Good. However, make sure to update your passwords on a frequent basis, especially before and after business trips. Using various passwords during work trips reduces the chance of compromised accounts. Thus, anyone who gains access to your credentials while you're away can't use them afterward.

Avoid reusing passwords across applications, accounts, and devices, and use strong passwords of at least 12 characters, including lowercase, uppercase, digits, and symbols. Using a password generator is a simple method for creating secure passwords that hackers cannot guess. To be particularly secure, use a password manager—a tool that uses powerful encryption—to keep all of your passwords in one place. You'll just need to remember your master password to access the rest.

If you are staying at a property with a safe and wish to utilize it, create a strong code to ensure information security.

3. Enable two-factor authentication.

Two-factor authentication (2FA) adds an additional layer of security to your accounts, providing improved protection against fraudsters.

Two-factor authentication is a security solution that asks you to provide two pieces of identity when logging into your account. First, enter your user credentials, followed by a second piece of authentication information, such as a PIN, token, facial ID, or fingerprint.

Using 2FA improves the security of your online accounts. Even if someone succeeds in obtaining your credentials, they will be unable to gain access without the second factor of authentication. This can help lessen the severity of phishing attempts. If you submit your credentials on a phishing site, the extra layer of security will prevent hackers from accessing your account.

4. Use Wi-Fi and Bluetooth carefully.

WiFi is essential when traveling for work, but it carries the risk of stealing valuable company or client information. A typical cyber security suggestion is to avoid utilizing public networks, particularly ones that lack password protection. If you need to connect to a public network, contact the personnel for the official name and password.

A vital piece of smartphone security advice is to turn off the Wi-Fi capability when not in use, as well as the automatic connection to available Wi-Fi networks. The same goes with Bluetooth. Turn off the feature when not using it to prevent data theft from device connections.

5. Use a VPN.

When working remotely or traveling for business, connect to WiFi via a Virtual Private Network (VPN). A VPN decreases the risk of hackers monitoring your online activities and gaining access to your data and passwords by establishing a more secure connection through encryption. This is especially true—but not exclusively—if you are unable to avoid connecting to a public WiFi network.

You can perform sensitive tasks, like handling bank details and client information, with a VPN, ensuring that no one can intercept the data. It will also allow you to connect to your company's network and continue conducting your regular responsibilities while on the go.

6. Install the antivirus program.

Install and update antivirus software on all your devices, including laptops, smartphones, and tablets. Email attachments or URLs can send malware such as viruses, spyware, ransomware, and Trojans, which an antivirus detects, stops, and defends against.

Regular updates will keep your system up to date with the most modern virus safeguards, protecting you from attacks. However, be aware that antivirus alone will not protect you from all cyber threats.

7. Backup your files to the cloud.

Before going on a business trip, it's a beneficial idea to back up your devices' data to the cloud.

This will keep your data safe and accessible in case you lose any of your devices or run into any technical difficulties during your vacation. You can view your data from any device and location and interact with colleagues via file sharing, thanks to its remote server storage.