The true story of Pastor Chris’ divorce is one of wholeness found in Christ.
Beyond the headlines and speculations about the divorce lies a story of personal transformation, spiritual resilience, and continued dedication to the cause of Christ. Pastor Chris Oyakhilome, the globally respected founder and president of LoveWorld Incorporated, continues to lead one of the most influential Christian ministries in the world, long after the end of his marriage.Understanding the Context of Pastor Chris Divorce
The announcement of Pastor Chris Oyakhilome’s divorce in 2016 took many by surprise. As a spiritual leader revered across continents, his personal life had remained largely private. When the divorce became public, he never responded with hostility or blame. Instead, he maintained a dignified silence for the most part, focusing on his calling and continuing to minister to millions across the globe. In one of his rare comments on the matter, he emphasized that his focus remained firmly on the Gospel of Jesus Christ and the mission God had entrusted to him.Far from derailing his ministry, the divorce became a moment of introspection for many of his followers, a reminder that even spiritual leaders are human, facing the same relational challenges that others do, yet choosing to move forward with grace.
A Ministry That Grew Stronger Through Trials
What makes the divorce story unique is how it was followed not by decline, but by immense growth and global expansion. His ministry, Christ Embassy, continued to reach new milestones. The Healing School expanded its reach through the Healing Streams Live Healing Services, broadcasting miraculous healing sessions to hundreds of millions in over 200 countries.
Meanwhile, Rhapsody of Realities, the daily devotional authored by Pastor Chris, remained one of the most distributed publications in the world, translated into thousands of languages. His teaching programs like Your LoveWorld Specials and Global Communion Services gained even more traction, particularly during and after the COVID-19 pandemic, when people sought spiritual insight and encouragement.
In the midst of personal change, he demonstrated a principle he often preaches: "Your life is not at the mercy of circumstances but governed by the Word of God." The divorce did not define his ministry; instead, it refined it, sharpening his focus, broadening his message, and showcasing the strength of faith in action.
We strolled around, soaking up every single view. Seriously, every single one! There's a long trail, and as you walk towards it, you get a gorgeous view of the River Calder, and from there, you can see the Castle Semple Country Park. That long trail felt like it went on forever, but when we finally reached the end, the view was absolutely worth it. We also spotted loads of birds that are being protected in their natural habitat. At the end of the trail, you can see the Peel Tower of Lochwinnoch. The ruins of The Peel of Castle Semple, or the Castle Semple Loch Peel Tower, which was once known in Scottish Reformation times as the Defender of the Faith, sit in Castle Semple Loch, in the Parish of Lochwinnoch, Renfrewshire, Scotland. The castle stands on a wee rocky island that's now connected to the shore by a curved embankment because of drainage and farming. You might see Semple written as 'Sempill' sometimes, but we'll stick to the more common spelling here.
I needed to do a product review, so I filmed the second one right there. Just after I finished, I started dancing again because I had my MUZEN OTR Portable Retro FM Radio Bluetooth Speaker with me – the walnut wood one I usually take on our trips. I love chilling out or having a dance in nature. There's just something about it that makes me constantly smile. I can't help it! I adore nature, so it's safe to say I'd love to live right in the middle of it.
Anyway, while we were there, we bumped into three elderly folks. After chatting with them, we found out they were three siblings. That really warmed my heart. Three elderly siblings on a trip together from the same parents – it was so lovely. You could still see that sibling bond between them.
Moving on, we enjoyed the views and made sure to snap loads of photos of Lochwinnoch so I could share them with you all. But wait, there's more! We decided to head towards the part where we could dip our legs in the water, and those lovely elderly siblings pointed us in the right direction, near Castle Semple Country Park. (I've already shared photos of our trip to Castle Semple Park on the blog.) But just before we went to find it, I asked my partner to wind down the car window a bit. We had cans of disinfectant inside, and with the hot weather, I was worried they might explode. We were still deciding whether to put them in the boot or leave them on the seats, and I asked my partner to check the boot. While we were talking, I didn't realize he was about to close it. I wanted to check the temperature, and bam! He closed it on my left index finger, and I screamed! Hahaha, the pain was so intense I couldn't even cry. My partner instantly felt terrible, so I had to cheer him up. He's been a bit down about it all day. Anyway, I insisted we finish our trip, but he wanted me to go to the hospital. But you know me, I waited for the bleeding to stop. My clotting time was about 4 minutes, which is normal, so I figured I'd be alright. We put some disinfectant on it, and my partner started looking for first aid. The first person he asked was a bus driver, but he didn't have anything. The second was a woman at the Castle Semple Sailing Club. Actually, he went around looking for first aid while I sat down. I even told him not to bother, but he was determined. When the woman saw us, she was so kind. She showed me where to wash my hands and gave me disinfectant cream, and my partner dressed the wound. It was a deep cut, but the pain is easing off now. Funnily enough, when I woke up on Friday last week, my elbow was even more sore than my finger!
You won't believe the craziest part of our adventure that day. When we finished our trip and were on our way back, my partner said I should get a tetanus jab. So, I called the NHS and was on hold for ages. Then, I went to Boots pharmacy, and they advised me to go to the hospital to see a doctor and gave me some painkillers. We finally got the go-ahead to go to Glasgow Royal Infirmary, and that was around 9:06 pm, but I'd been calling the NHS 111 since 7:37 pm. When I got there, I signed in and waited for what felt like forever before a nurse saw my wound. She used sterile water to clean it and then bandaged my whole left palm, not just my index finger. Then, she asked us to wait to see a doctor who would prescribe the tetanus injection – the whole reason I was there! I waited until around 1:15 am (middle of the night) before another senior nurse came to see me. Since I couldn't really feel the tip of my finger, I had to get an X-ray. After the X-ray, I waited again for a while, and then she came back with another person to give me the tetanus injection. They cleaned the wound again and redressed it. By this point, I was completely exhausted and trying not to get cranky because my partner had been with me the whole time and felt bad about what happened. He kept encouraging me to just wait it out, but I was so fed up. We finally got home around 2:56 am, almost 3 am! I quickly had a bath, grabbed something to eat, and went to bed. The funny thing is, I've been injured before back home as a kid, and it took maybe 30 minutes to get a prescription, the tetanus shot, and walk home. Same in Ukraine. But this was my first time visiting the minor injury ward here, and let me tell you, I won't be rushing back! The waiting time is ridiculous, and in the end, I didn't even see a doctor – the nurse did her job, and I'm fine. My partner tried to lighten the mood and said we were craving adventure, and now the adventure doesn't want to end! I couldn't help but laugh 🤣. Well, we got home safe and sound, thank God.
I know you can probably picture how exhausted I was by now, but let me quickly tell you a bit about Lochwinnoch Nature Reserve. It's a wetland reserve and a fantastic spot for a nature escape.
According to the RSPB, it's one of the few wetlands left in the west of Scotland. You can spot Whooper Swans, Wigeon, Goldeneye, and loads of other ducks. The conservation work at Lochwinnoch aims to restore the reserve's wetland system to how it would have been over 100 years ago. You can read more about Lochwinnoch village. We drove through it, and in my opinion, it's beautiful and peaceful. But judging by the £2.50 we paid for a can of Pepsi, the cost of living might be a bit on the higher side – you can do the math and tell me what you think.
Lochwinnoch: Your Ultimate Guide to a Wonderful Visit.
Address: Lochwinnoch RSPB Nature Reserve, Largs Road, Lochwinnoch PA12 4JFFirst off, parking. It's all about contactless payment at the machine, so no need to rummage for change, but keep in mind you'll have to pay no matter when you rock up if you do not have the membership card. There are about 30 spaces, and just so you know, four of those are reserved for folks popping into the shop. If you've got a Blue Badge, there are three designated spots for you, and they're pretty close to the visitor centre – about 20 meters away. Now, the car park surface is gravel, and it can get a bit bumpy with potholes, so watch your step. If you're bringing your bike, there are racks right near the visitor centre entrance. Just a heads-up, there's no lighting in the car park and no proper spot to drop anyone off, but hey, at least there's no height restriction for your vehicle.
Need the loo? There's one accessible toilet about 10 meters from the visitor centre entrance. And if you've got a little one, the baby changing facilities are in that same accessible toilet.
If you're planning on pushing a pushchair around, the nature trails are generally okay. There are three partly signposted trails – two are about 400m each, and the other is 1.5km. They're all flat with no big hills. The main 1.5km trail is meant to be accessible for everyone. Just a word of warning though, all the trails can get a bit waterlogged if there's been a lot of rain.
For anyone using a wheelchair, the car park is that gravel surface with potential potholes, so be aware of that. When it comes to the nature trails, the same applies – the three trails are flat with no steep bits, and the main 1.5km one is all-access. But again, they can get flooded after heavy rain. There are also four picnic benches, and two of them have space for a single wheelchair.
If you need a regular toilet, you'll find them inside the visitor centre.
The visitor centre itself is open every day from 9:30 am to 5 pm, and the car park and trails are open all the time. There are three entrances on the ground floor, with both steps and ramps available. The doors open outwards manually. They've got a low counter for membership info, and they even have a wheelchair you can borrow if you need it. The inside is all on one level with plenty of space to move around, good lighting, and clear information. Some of the stuff in there might be a bit tricky to reach, but the staff are happy to help. They also have a hearing loop.
Fancy a cuppa or a snack? They've got a range of refreshments in their shop, and they try to stock Fairtrade or locally sourced goodies. You can grab hot drinks (proper bean-to-cup coffee!), and all sorts of sweet and savory snacks and sandwiches.
The shop itself sells things like binoculars and telescopes, books, bird food, and gifts.
Just a heads up, the picnic area is temporarily closed from May 13th, and they're hoping to have it back open by May 31st. There are usually four tables outside the visitor centre, and two of them have space for a wheelchair. You're welcome to bring your own food and drinks to enjoy there when it's open again.
You can also hire binoculars from £3.
They sometimes have guided walks, so it might be worth checking if there are any on when you visit.
As for the viewpoint, most of it is level access, but the Tower Observation Area is upstairs in the visitor centre. There's no lift, so you'll have to climb 23 steps to get up there. They also have two hides with seating and two viewing screens, one with seating. Just a note that the Aird Meadow Hide is currently closed for maintenance.
Remember those nature trails? The three of them are partly signposted, flat, and without any big inclines. The main one (1.5km) is all-access. You get onto it through a gate, and part of it is a boardwalk with passing places. There are no other gates, steps, or stiles on the trails, but they can get flooded after heavy rain.
They've got a wild playground, which sounds fun! Oh wait, it says "Not available on site," so maybe that's something for the future.
Looks like barbecues are also "Not available on site," so no grilling your sausages there.
If you're bringing your dog, they're allowed on all the footpaths as long as you follow the Scottish Outdoor Access Code. Well-behaved dogs are welcome inside the visitor centre, but not in the shop area. They just ask that you keep your furry friend at your heel or on a lead to protect the wildlife.
And of course, assistance dogs are welcome in all parts of the reserve.
So there you have it – the full scoop on what's available when you visit Lochwinnoch Nature Reserve!
Did you clock our mucky shoes? Aye, the paths were a bit dusty, and you know what that means – pollen galore! Seriously, the pollen count was off the charts, must have been the time of year we went. We noticed loads of plants around there absolutely covered in pollen. Plus, there's a train line pretty close to one side of the path, so every time the wind picked up or a train whizzed by, you could just see the pollen swirling in the air. Even some bits of the water had a layer of it, but hey, nature's got its own way of doing things, doesn't it? Still totally worth it for the views, though.
One of the things that caught my eye is that Dethlac is said to be completely safe around children and pets once it's dried. That's a huge plus for households with little ones or furry friends. Once you spray it, it dries to a hard, clear film that keeps working for months. Apparently, it even holds up when it rains (for those garden ants) or if you wash the surface with detergents (think kitchen floors). You can use it indoors and outdoors on any firm, non-absorbent surface like door frames (not UPVC though, take note!), skirting boards, shelves, concrete, and patios. They even say you can get rid of flying ants by spraying surfaces before they take off.
My Honest Review of the Slim & Secure Shuffle Wallet
For ages, I've been lugging around a pretty standard wallet, you know the type – gets bulky, hard to find the right card, and let's be honest, not exactly a style statement. I was on the hunt for something different, something that streamlined my everyday carry, and that's when I stumbled upon the Shuffle Wallet.
Right off the bat, the packaging was impressive – always a good sign, right? And the wallet itself? Wow. The build quality feels seriously top-notch. I went for the Neon Black aluminum finish because, well, all my tech stuff is black, so it just fits. But they also have some other cool colors in aluminum like Polar Ice, Gunmetal, and Diesel Green, plus titanium options in Raw and Burnt Titanium if you're feeling fancy.
What really grabbed my attention is the deck-of-cards opening mechanism. Seriously, it's so satisfying! With a quick flick, all your cards are displayed neatly, making it a breeze to grab the one you need. No more frantic rummaging! And don't worry about your cards flying out – the quick-release is secure. I’ve been using it for over two weeks now, and they haven’t budged unless I want them to. It holds up to six cards snugly.
Well, right next door to that lovely village and Lochwinnoch Nature Reserve is the Castle Semple Country Park, and let me tell you, it's a proper summer location. Think of it as your starting point for exploring the whole Clyde Muirshiel Regional Park. It's got everything you could want – easy access to the water for all sorts of outdoor fun, cracking walks, loads of wildlife to spot, and some lovely woods to wander through.
So, what can you actually do there? Plenty!
First off, you can stretch your legs on the Semple Trail. They've even got suggested walking routes dotted around if you fancy a bit of guidance. Just click here to have a wee look.
If you're a fan of two wheels, it's perfect for a visit by bicycle. The Centre is right on the Sustrans traffic-free cycle route 7 that runs all the way from Glasgow to Irvine. And if you don't have your own bike, no worries – you can hire one from RT Cycles. They've even got bike parking with maintenance stations at the Visitor Centre, which is handy. You can find some suggested cycle routes too.
Feeling peckish or just fancy a break? The Visitor Centre Café is the place to be. You can enjoy a lovely coffee or an ice cream while taking in the cracking view. Trust me, it's a good spot to just sit and chill.
But that's not all! They've also got:
- Outdoor Activity Group Sessions and Courses – but you need to book these in advance, so get your name down if you're keen on sailing, kayaking, archery, and all that good stuff.
- The Semple Estate Historic Map & Exhibition – give them a ring beforehand to make sure you can get access if you're specifically going to see this.
- Loads of Resident Clubs if you're into getting more involved, like the Castle Semple Rowing Club, Castle Semple Sailing Club, West Coast Paddlers Kayaking, Clyde Windsurfing & SUP, St Winnoch Angling Club, and Ride 63 Community Cycling Club.
- You can even get Fishing Permits from the Visitor Centre if you fancy a bit of coarse fishing (that's non-migratory fish) in Castle Semple Loch.
The car park, walks, and trails are open all day, every day. So you can wander to your heart's content whenever you fancy.
The Castle Semple Café is open daily from 10 am to 5 pm in the summer and 10 am to 4 pm in the winter, so you can always get your caffeine fix and some tasty treats.
The Outdoor Toilets are open daily from 9 am to 4 pm. Handy to know!
Just to give you the full picture, this Castle Semple place is one of a few gems within the larger Clyde Muirshiel Regional Park. It's right in Lochwinnoch, Renfrewshire, practically next door to National Cycle Route 7 and just a short walk from Lochwinnoch Train Station.
They even have a Ranger Service that puts on family-friendly events and volunteer programs throughout the year. And if you're feeling adventurous, their Outdoor Activity team is top-notch and can guide you through things like sailing, kayaking, canoeing, powerboating, archery – the works.
What's really brilliant is that the Centre is fully accessible to everyone. It was even Scotland's first Centre of Excellence for disability sailing back in 2012.
How to locate Castle Semple Country Park?
Castle Semple Visitor Centre,
Lochlip Road,
Lochwinnoch,
Renfrewshire,
PA12 4EA
And for accessibility, Castle Semple has ramps leading into the main Visitor Centre & Café, and it's a short, level walk from the car park. You can also get to the loch and watersports via their pontoon hoist, but it's best to give them a bell to check when it's available.
The toilets all have step-free access, and the disabled cubicles have wide doors and handrails.
And the staff? Especially the outdoor activities team, which are really experienced in helping folks with disabilities get out on the water.
So there you have it! Castle Semple Country Park sounds like a fantastic place to spend a day. I and my partner spent some time having a meal at the park close to the river. We also enjoyed the view and wanted to explore even more, but it was getting a bit chilly, and I only picked two stones at this location. When I share photos of our trip to Lochwinnoch Nature Reserve, you will know why, and you will have a more fun read about our adventure. I will take you through the whole day we spent at Lochwinnoch and after reading, you will be surprised at how the day ended.
Just back from a breathtaking trip to Loch Lomond, and I had the perfect companions for exploring its tranquil beauty: the Sweaty Betty Get Set 2-in-1 Multi-Train Shorts and their empowering "Wear the Damn Shorts" Campaign Polo. Let's dive into why these pieces have become my new go-to for active adventures and beyond.
Sweaty Betty: More Than Just Activewear
For those unfamiliar, Sweaty Betty is a leading global activewear and lifestyle brand for women. They champion the power of movement and empower women through fitness and beyond. What I love about Sweaty Betty is their commitment to creating high-performance clothing that doesn't compromise on style or comfort. They cater to all your gym and swim needs, offering a fantastic range including:
- Leggings: From their iconic Power Leggings to supportive running tights.
- Sports Bras: Offering various levels of support for every activity.
- Tops: From breathable tanks to cosy hoodies.
- Swimwear: Stylish and functional bikinis and one-pieces.
- Outerwear: Jackets and layers to keep you warm during outdoor workouts.
- Accessories: Including bags, socks, and headbands.
Their ethos shines through in their "Wear the Damn Shorts" campaign polo. It's more than just a top; it's a message: "Your body is uniquely yours, and it deserves love, respect, and care at every stage. You are more than a number on a scale or a reflection in the mirror, your worth is defined by your kindness, strength, and spirit. Celebrate yourself just as you are today." This powerful message truly resonates and makes wearing this polo feel like a statement of self-acceptance.
Sweaty Betty Get Set 2-in-1 Multi-Train Shorts: My Loch Lomond Companion
My main reason for wanting the 2-in-1 Multi-Train Shorts was the crucial need for phone storage while running. If you're like me, juggling your phone can be a real pain. These shorts have solved that problem perfectly.
Here's what I thought:
- Fit & Comfort: The fit is fantastic. The sweat-wicking inner short with 4-way stretch feels snug and supportive without any restriction. The loose outer layer provides great coverage and freedom of movement. The soft and comfy waistband is a definite plus, staying put without digging in.
- Material: The material is slightly thicker than I would ideally like for peak summer running, but it feels durable and high-quality, suggesting they'll hold up well to regular workouts.
- Pockets: The side slip pockets on the inner short are exactly what I needed for my phone. It stays secure and doesn't bounce around while I'm on the move.
- Style: I'm genuinely a fan of the Black Peony Print. It's much more interesting than plain black and adds a touch of personality to my workout gear. The outer short inseam of 6.5cm and inner short inseam of 10cm offer a flattering and practical length.
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When I was a teenager, there was a boy who liked me. He invited me to go swimming in a popular river in the community we lived in. Now, that river was a place my parents warned us never to go near. My mum was especially strict about it. She used to say the river didn’t like non-indigenes, and there had been quite a few deaths connected to it. I remember she even warned my brother seriously when he once mentioned going there. I think they even announced in church for parents to tell their children to stay away.
Interestingly, that same river was where I got baptized—though in a different area, the sand dredging site that’s more controlled. But still, this boy kept asking, and one day when my parents were out, I followed him—and a few others—to the river.
Now that I think of it, neither of us knew how to swim. We were young and just wanted to have fun, but looking back now, it was such a dangerous thing to do. The part of the river we went to was near an abandoned school. We just got in the water and stayed there for a while. I even went near a narrow part at one point, not knowing how risky it was. Thank God nothing happened.
Afterward, I rushed home, took my bath, applied some cream, and acted like nothing had happened—because my mum could always tell when someone had been in the water. She’s from Rivers State, so she just had that sensitivity. She used to look at my brother and say, “You went to that river,” and she’d be really upset.
As for me, I never dipped my head, so my face stayed dry, no red eye, and looked normal. I didn’t even have proper swimwear—just regular clothes and a change of clothes. But what’s interesting is that even though I didn’t dip my head, whenever my mum came back, she would still look at me like she sensed something was off. She was that perceptive.
We did that three times—completely unsupervised. Looking back now, I know I didn’t act wisely at all. It was careless and dangerous.
So I just want to thank Him for His mercy and protection. Even when I was unaware, He was watching over me.