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Monday, October 16

The blessing in the emergency

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I've been battling tooth issues for months, and the delay in my UK treatment made it a real ordeal. The persistent pain and inconvenience were a daily struggle. It took a toll on all aspects of my life. I couldn't concentrate without a fight, constantly diverting my thoughts from the pain and discomfort.

I consulted a UK dentist, initially considering private treatment over NHS. Yet, the £3200 price tag gave me pause, prompting me to explore other options as I had to relocate.

During a subsequent visit to a different dentist, the dreaded X-ray was on the agenda. I must admit, it's not for the faint-hearted, especially with a painful tooth. The first dentist was incredibly patient, but the second was efficient. She attempted the X-rays and informed me that she would have to reschedule us if she was unable to complete the procedure on the second attempt.

Although it was painful, I mustered the courage to proceed. The X-ray revealed what I already knew - the tooth had to come out, a standard procedure for a first-time dentist visit.

She administered anaesthesia, though it proved ineffective due to the infection. Prescribing antibiotics, she then directed me to the receptionist, who arranged an appointment for the 25th of October, despite my request for an earlier date due to the fact that the month was just beginning.

After picking up the prescribed medication from the pharmacy, I returned home, where the emotional weight of it all became overwhelming. Music and prayer provided solace during this difficult time

I started taking the antibiotics as prescribed, and things got a bit better, but I had to be on painkillers. I would take painkillers in the morning and at night before going to bed. Even though this was safe, I was worried because one can get addicted to painkillers.

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On a fateful day, the 13th of this month, my phone rang, and to my surprise, it was the dentist on the line. With a sense of anticipation, she revealed that my appointment for a root canal treatment was scheduled for November 5, 2023. I agreed to the date, but as soon as we hung up, confusion set in. I couldn't shake the feeling that my tooth extraction appointment might have been shifted or mixed up with the root canal booking.

So, I decided to dial her number again and asked for clarification. To my astonishment, she told me they had no record of any appointments. I insisted, "But I have a booking set for the 25th of this month, and I even have the appointment card right here."

She replied that on her end, there were no traces of these dates. Annoyed and in pain, I pleaded for my appointment not to be postponed further, but her response was rather nonchalant. "Do you want to book the date or not?" she asked. I hesitated, trying to make sense of this scheduling mess, and the call abruptly ended.

In a bid to resolve the issue, I called her back once more. This time, she proposed another date, the 30th of this month. I agreed, though not without lingering dissatisfaction. The fact that she failed to apologize for their error made me feel bad. 

As days passed, my toothache grew steadily worse. It lingered like a relentless shadow, and I resorted to stronger painkillers, which had an unusual side effect – hallucinations. Over three nights, I found myself in a surreal world of animals with bizarre shapes, even though I didn't own any pets. I remember seeing a big animal with spikes on its head and a big dog sitting next to me.

On Friday, desperate for relief, I took another painkiller, but the pain intensified drastically. I experimented with various home remedies, but they offered little solace. By Saturday, I was running a fever, weakened, and plagued by a relentless headache. Despite these struggles, I managed to eat, hoping for a miracle to alleviate my pain.




As the pain subsided slightly, I turned to photography as a distraction, taking photos for my blog, even in those images, my smile remained elusive – a clear reflection of the stress I was enduring.

Throughout the weekend, I was hindered from enjoying even a moment of calm by the persistent toothache. As my body temperature progressively increased, it became apparent that an abnormality had occurred.

After we got back home, I tried to ease the ache by having a relaxing bath and taking more pills. My hand got slightly burned while I was filling my go-to hot water bottle with hot water due to my disorientation from the constant pain.

With a heavy heart, I retreated to the living room, dialling my niece for a bit of distraction. But even our talk was useless due to the constant toothache, so I was left sitting there in excruciating pain, hoping for relief that would never come.

I was unable to fall asleep that night, and the agonizing ache did not go away. Crying was still a luxury I could only dream about; I was just waiting for the pain to stop. I resorted to prayer in the midst of my pain, pleading with God to intervene and grant me even a brief period of calm, restful sleep.

When I did fall asleep, it was only for ten or twenty minutes before the pain startled me back to consciousness. I felt like I was stuck in a transitional state, on the verge of pain and sleep.



My endurance reached its limits; the pain had become unbearable. At around 5 in the morning, I summoned the strength to call the emergency NHS 111 number. Speaking was a struggle, but I managed to convey my distress, and they promptly scheduled an emergency tooth extraction for me on a Sunday by 12.

We prayed to God that the procedure would go well before we left for the clinic. We arrived early, and I was called in ahead of schedule. The doctor, with reassuring words, administered anaesthesia, and in less than 15 minutes, the offending tooth was extracted. I left with post-extraction care instructions and a letter for my regular dentist.

I couldn't help but feel a profound sense of relief and happiness. I share this story because when my original appointment was canceled and rescheduled, it tested my patience. I initially allowed frustration to creep in, but I reminded myself that sometimes, we just need to wait a little longer. Unexpectedly, this dental emergency turned out to be a blessing in disguise. Plans were made, but it was God's plan that ultimately prevailed.

Looking forward to my upcoming dental appointment, I've diligently followed the recommended care instructions. I had a wonderful Sunday, with a peaceful night's sleep to crown it all.

Now, about my outfit: I opted for a white blouse from Uoozee, featuring ruffled wrist ends for a touch of subtle yet classy drama. Originally intended to be paired with a skirt, I changed my mind and matched it with hand-made heels from Xinzirain and pink floral hand jeans.

You can buy my Flared Sleeves Bow-Embellished Falbala Solid Color Lapel Blouse using the discount code "Melody" for a 15% off your order. I wish you a fantastic Monday and a productive week ahead. And if we're not already connected on Instagram, let's change that – it's high time we followed each other. Thanks for reading!

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84 comments

  1. I have few teeth and a number what I do have are broken and missing fillings but I can't afford dental treatment at the time so until I am in pain I will carry on as things are.

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    1. I understand the challenges you're facing with your dental health. It's important to prioritize your well-being, so if you ever experience pain or discomfort, please consider seeking affordable dental options or clinics that offer payment plans. Your health is essential, and addressing dental issues early can prevent more significant problems down the line. Take care of yourself.

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  2. Olá Melody!
    Aqui em Portugal, o serviço nacional de saúde também está um caos. E em relação aos problemas dentários ainda pior. Quase não existem.
    Espero que o teu problema se resolva rapidamente.
    Muito Obrigado, pela visita e gentil comentário no meu cantinho.
    Votos de uma excelente semana!
    Beijinho.

    Mário Margaride

    http://poesiaaquiesta.blogspot.com

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    1. Olá! Compreendo as dificuldades no serviço de saúde em Portugal, e é lamentável que os problemas dentários sejam particularmente escassos. Espero que também possam encontrar soluções para essas questões em breve. Agradeço a sua amabilidade na resposta ao meu comentário no teu blog. Desejo uma excelente semana para ti também! Um abraço!

      Hello! I understand the difficulties in Portugal's healthcare system, and it's unfortunate. I hope that solutions can be found for these issues soon. Thank you for your kind response to my comment on your blog. I wish you an excellent week too! A hug!

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  3. POuxa, que verdadeira epopéia pra tratar o dente! Desejo que tudo se ajeite e acabe bem! beijos praianos, chica e agradeço tua viisita!

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    1. Olá! Com certeza, foi uma jornada e tanto para cuidar desse dente. Espero que tudo se resolva e tenha um desfecho positivo. Beijos praianos! Agradeço a sua visita também!

      Hello! It was indeed quite an odyssey to treat that tooth. I hope everything gets sorted out and ends well. Chica, and I appreciate your visit!

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  4. Oh boy what a missery. I hope it goes better soon!

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    1. I'm eagerly anticipating a productive dentist appointment. Dental problems should never be taken lightly. Thank you Nancy.

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  5. I am really sorry for your health. Never experienced such big toothache, but I sure know what is pain.
    Get well soon dear Melody!

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    1. I genuinely appreciate your sympathy and understanding. Toothaches can be incredibly painful. Thank you for your well wishes, and I'm hopeful for a speedy recovery as well.

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  6. I admit, I just overflew, because I´ve been through all that and don´t need a reminder ;-)
    Good luck it won´t hurt too much!

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    1. I understand, and it's perfectly fine not to dwell on such experiences. Thank you for your well wishes, and I hope the pain is minimal too! 😊

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  7. So sorry you had to go through such an ordeal. Healthcare in the states is crazy expensive and it doesn't cover dental. Like those pants!

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    1. Thank you for your understanding. You're absolutely right about the healthcare costs in the States. And I'm glad you like the pants! 😊

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  8. Ter problemas dentários é muito ruim, que lindo o look ficou maravilhosa bjs.

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    1. Thank you for your kind words! Dental issues can be quite challenging, but I appreciate your compliment. Sending hugs your way too! 😊

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  9. I'm grateful you were finally able to get the help you need and I admire your persistence and determination to get what you needed. I hope by now you are much -- hopefully -- all improved!

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    1. Thank you for your kind words and support. It was a journey, but I'm grateful for the help I received. I'm doing much better now, and your well wishes mean a lot to me.

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  10. Bom dia, Melodia
    Graças a Deus que resolveu a questão do seu dente, o Senhor te abençoe sempre, um forte agrço.

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    1. Good day! Thank you for your kind words and blessings. I appreciate your support. Sending a big hug back to you!

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  11. I am glad that you are feeling better now, Melody. Your outfit looks gorgeous on you.

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    1. Thank you so much! I'm feeling better, and your compliment about my outfit warms my heart.

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  12. You look beautiful. I admire that you were able to do a photo shoot. I sympathize with this pain, may there never be such problems again. Take care of yourself. I wish you all the best.

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    1. It means a lot to hear your kind words. Photo shoots can be a fun distraction, and I'm glad you admire it. Pain is never pleasant, but your support is a comfort. Wishing you all the best as well. Please feel free to share any tips or stories related to health or photography if you have them!

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  13. Dental problems are pretty tricky so better not to take them lightly and check with a dentist asap!
    The costs can be high but I guess that with time they con only became hgher and plus you suffer a lot meantime!
    In my family we've got all an health insurance for these cases (even if here in Italy medical care are even free if you want, but generally the time to wait is infinite, not to talk of the burocracy...).
    I really hope that you can overcame your problems asap, wishing you all the best, dear!
    XO
    S
    https://s-fashion-avenue.blogspot.com

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    1. Hello there! You're absolutely right, dental issues can be quite a challenge, and it's wise not to ignore them. It's great to hear that you have health insurance to help cover the costs. Dealing with healthcare bureaucracy can be frustrating, but it's good to have options. Thanks for your kind wishes – wishing you all the best too! 🦷😊

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  14. Tooth aches can bring your all kinds of problems. Hope the issue is solved and wishing you a nice week.

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    1. Thank you for your kind words! Toothaches can indeed be quite bothersome, but I'm working on getting it sorted out. Wishing you a wonderful week as well!

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  15. What a story!
    I had similar problems with my tooth . I finally changed the dentist and it was such a relief...
    Take care!

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    1. I appreciate your support! Changing dentists can make a world of difference, and I'm considering that option too. Thanks for sharing your experience, and you take care as well!

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  16. Ohhh babe, so sorry to heard this. I wish you all the best and get well very soon.
    xox
    https://kintanfashion.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you for your kind words and well wishes! I really appreciate it. I'm doing my best to get better soon. 🙏

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  17. Anonymous10/17/2023

    Oh, this sounds so horrible! I am so glad they got you in for an emergency appointment to take care of it. It sounds like you tried to hold out, but sometimes you just can't. Your outfit is cute and I adore those pants! Take care!

    Carrie
    curlycraftymom.com

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    1. Thank you so much for your empathy and kind words! Yes, I did try to tough it out, but the pain was unbearable. I'm glad I got that emergency appointment too. And I'm thrilled that you like my outfit, especially the pants! Your support means a lot. Take care! 😊

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  18. I am so sorry that you had to endure that. Dental pain is truly nasty. I hope the follow up visit goes to your dentist goes much better than the ones before.

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  19. Dental problems can cause such awful pain. Good to hear that you were able to get the tooth extracted without any issues.

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    1. You're absolutely right; dental pain can be excruciating. Fortunately, the tooth extraction went smoothly, and I'm feeling much better now. Thanks for your understanding! 😄

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  20. You poor thing. It's awful that you had to wait so long.
    XOOX
    Jodie

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    1. Thank you for your sympathy, Jodie! It was a tough wait, but I'm grateful to be on the path to recovery now. Sending you lots of hugs and XOOX too! 😊

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  21. Oh my goodness Melody, what a horrible ordeal! My friend is going through something similar, the dentist is trying root canal but the tooth may need to come out. In Australia all dental work is private and it is expensive. Thank goodness you rang 111 and they scheduled a tooth extraction. I hope your mouth is feeling all better now xx
    Janet
    www.rediscoveringmystyle.com

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    1. I can empathize with your friend's situation, Janet. Dental issues can be quite challenging, and the costs can add up. I'm grateful for the emergency services like 111, which made it possible to schedule the extraction. My mouth is on the mend, and I hope your friend's dental journey gets easier too. Thanks for your concern! xx 😊

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  22. I'm so sorry you went through that- I'm sure the pain was unbearable. You were so strong, though! And patient. I'm glad the issue is resolved and you're feeling better now!

    -Ashley
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    1. Ashley, your compassion means a lot to me. The pain was indeed unbearable, but your kind words bring comfort. I'm relieved the issue is resolved. Thanks for your support! 😊

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  23. Espero que te encuentres mejor . Te mando un beso. Lindo atuendo.

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    1. Thank you for your well wishes and the kind compliment on the outfit! Your virtual kiss is appreciated. 😊💋

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  24. Hello Melody. I hope that you feel better now.
    Your outfit is beautiful. Take care!

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    1. Hi there! Thanks for your kind words. I'm feeling much better now, and I appreciate your compliment on my outfit. Take care as well! 😊

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  25. Oh, I am so sorry you went through all of this pain and suffering. Thankfully, you were able to have the tooth extracted. So, do you still need a root canal? Toothaches can just ruin your life. So glad you're feeling better.

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    1. I really appreciate your empathy! You're right; toothaches can be a real nuisance. Unfortunately, I still need a root canal treatment, but I'm hopeful that things will improve. Thanks for your kind words, they mean a lot! 😊

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  26. oooh I hope you feel better now, toothache is something very intense, I have always been surprised that dental health services are so high abroad, although here the health service in general has many deficiencies and in my case I have than seeing me in private offices, the good thing is that it is affordable, by the way, I loved your pants!

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    1. Thank you for your kind words! I'm gradually feeling better; you're absolutely right about the intensity of toothaches. Dental health services can indeed be quite expensive in many places, which can be a challenge. I'm fortunate to have access to affordable care. Hopefully, I don't need to go for any expensive treatment. Also, I'm glad you liked my pants! 😊

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  27. I'm so sorry to know that you have been in so much pain. Dental care is expensive here in the UK as well and insurance plans do not cover them. Finding a right dentist is so important. Thank you for sharing your experience.

    Ashh
    https://www.thatseptembermuse.com/christmas-gift-guide-for-home-lovers/

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    1. I appreciate your understanding. Dental care costs can be a challenge in many places. It's important to find a reliable dentist for the best care. Your support means a lot.

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  28. Thank you for reminder that God's plan is always best. Love this look!

    https://www.kathrineeldridge.com

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    1. You're welcome! It's wonderful to find inspiration in God's plan, and I'm glad you love the look too!

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  29. There is a saying: toothache is not a disease, pain can kill people.
    Dealing with dental problems is also expensive here, but we generally don’t encounter dentists who are indifferent and shirk responsibility.
    Your outfit looks great and is very suitable for a free and capable professional woman who is at the forefront of fashion.
    Kloisonne bags

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    1. You're absolutely right about the importance of dental care. It's a universal concern. Thank you for your kind words about the outfit – I appreciate your perspective on it!

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  30. Obrigada pelas palavras deixadas no meu "Ortografia". Passarei aqui outras vezes.
    Tudo de bom.
    Um beijo.

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    1. You're very welcome! I look forward to your return. Wishing you all the best too! 💋

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  31. I am so glad you got it taken care of! My mom has been in pain off and on with her jaw and teeth since her cancer 3 years ago and just found out after 10 days of constant pain that her jaw is broken (it just happened in the last 3 weeks). The radiation weakened her jaw and it just broke. The surgery is very involved and will last almost 7 hours and recuperation is long too! Praying they can schedule it sooner rather than later but wow...
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    1. I'm truly sorry to hear about your mom's situation. That sounds incredibly tough for her and the whole family. I'll keep her in my thoughts and hope for a swift and successful surgery. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to reach out. Wishing strength and a smooth recovery for your mom. 🙏❤️

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  32. Really nice photos and amazing post
    Thanks for sharing
    Kisses!

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    1. Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm glad you enjoyed the photos and the post. Sending kisses right back to you! 💋

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  33. I understand your pain and dissatisfaction, teeth are a very sensitive topic, I know quite a lot about it. And I'm glad you're done with it now. You look beautiful in these photos. Greetings.

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    1. Thank you for your understanding and sweet words. While I've made progress, I'm not quite done with my treatment yet, but your support means a lot. Your compliment about the photos is greatly appreciated. Greetings to you too! 😊

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  34. Bardzo współczuję bólu i stresu.
    Ale stylówki tworzysz przepiękne! Pozdrawiam...

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    1. Thank you so much for your empathy and kind words. I truly appreciate your support. Best regards to you too! 😊

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  35. Dores de dentes são mesmo insuportáveis. Espero que o pior esteja passado!
    Muito bonitas fotos!

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    1. I agree, toothaches can be incredibly painful. I'm glad you like the photos! 😊

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  36. I'm sorry about your tooth problems, tooth pain is difficult and can really make normal life impossible.
    Love your pants and bluse, you look really gorgeous!

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    1. Thank you so much for your understanding! Tooth pain can be a real hassle. I'm glad you like my outfit – your kind words made my day! 😊💙

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  37. Hello, Melody,
    What a story! I think your dentist didn't behave properly towards you, she should have apologised for her mistake! Toothache is a bitch and you endured a lot, I'm glad everything worked out in the end. You look very beautiful in that look and especially without the toothache!!!
    xoxo

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    1. I couldn't agree more; it would have been appropriate for your dental receptionist to apologize for the mistake. Toothaches can be excruciating, and enduring one is quite the ordeal. I'm relieved that everything eventually worked out for me.

      And thank you so much for the kind compliment! It's always a relief to be free from a toothache and feel one's best. You're very sweet!

      Sending you lots of love and hugs, xoxo!

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  38. Holy cow, what an ordeal. Bless your heart, I cannot imagine carrying on the day to day activities in that kind of pain. Thank God you got that tooth extracted. Despite the pain you were in, your photos are beautiful!
    xo,
    Kellyann

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    1. Thank you so much, Kellyann! It was indeed a tough time, but I'm relieved to have the tooth extracted. Your kind words mean a lot. 😊 xo

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  39. How awful! I'm sorry you had to suffer like that. Dentistry in the UK is in a big mess - I was lucky enough to get an NHS dentist when I moved 10 years ago, but since the town has expanded there aren't any for miles. My husband foolishly didn't register when me and my daughter did and now he's without a dentist. I'm glad you got the problem sorted. You're looking fabulous despite the ordeal. Thanks for linking up!

    Emma xxx
    www.style-splash.com

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