Wednesday, August 20, 2025

The Dress That Was Almost Perfect: Stylewe vacation halter floral maxi dress

Oh my goodness, I still can’t get over how joyful, grateful, and just plain happy I am about my partner’s birthday! We celebrated yesterday, August 19, and by the grace of God, everything turned out even better than I could have planned.

I asked him a few times what he wanted to do for his birthday, and he kept suggesting something simple, similar to what we did for mine. I really wanted to make this day special for him. So, the day before, I went out in the morning and picked up some blue helium balloons, a card from Card Factory that I later personalized to make it feel even more special, got choclates and some other little big things.

I also made sure to cook one of his favorite meals, party jollof rice. I had planned on using fresh mutton, but when I went to the butcher, they hadn’t cut it yet, and I didn’t have time to wait. I ended up getting fresh beef instead, and it turned out amazing. My partner said it was delicious, and you know what? He was right! I have to say that I rarely make bad meals. I’m just blessed with the gift of cooking tasty food.

I didn't want to wait until midnight to wish him a happy birthday, so I gave him his gifts and sang to him with the candles lit on his chocolate cake. We spent the evening together, enjoying some cold drinks and talking about how excited we were about his birthday road trip.

We had our hearts set on spending the day in nature, but we didn’t decide on a specific location until we were already on our way. At first, we considered the Inner Clyde Nature Reserve, but then I suggested going to Ben A'an. We left around 2:45 p.m., and since it’s a long journey, we knew it was too late for a proper hike. We drove toward the area anyway, but once we got there, we decided to turn around and head to a different spot in Loch Lomond & The Trossachs National Park.

Our map led us to Balloch Castle Country Park, which is part of the Trossachs and has incredible views overlooking Loch Lomond. It was perfect. The park is beautiful and so well-kept. The castle itself is closed to the public, so we just took a few photos of it and continued exploring. We walked through the green fields and eventually found a spot by the loch (river) for our meal. We initially attempted to sit at a wooden table; however, the bees were completely uncooperative. The bees kept perching on us, and I was afraid of getting stung. So we found a quieter spot right by the water, where we ate our food and enjoyed some cake. We took more photos and watched the birds, ducks, and some dogs playing catch with their owners. It was so relaxing and peaceful.

Around 8:45 p.m., we returned, watched a movie, and concluded our day. We had originally thought about dressing up and going to a restaurant with a view, but restaurants here close early. We were also pretty tired, and I’m so happy we decided to just stay in. It was a perfect ending to a wonderful day.

I’ll be sharing more photos from Balloch Castle Country Park on the blog soon, but for now, this is the dress I wore for the day. It’s absolutely beautiful and has this gorgeous blue floral print that gives off the perfect summer vacation vibe. It's long and modest, but the breast area was an issue for me. It was so uncomfortable, and I had to constantly adjust myself to make sure I didn't pop out. If I had a larger chest, it would have been impossible to wear. It's a shame because the dress looked so decent on the website. I’ll be reaching out to the brand Stylewe to give them some feedback. Anyways, they get to read my review.

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I did my hair on Saturday, but it is starting to get a little rough, and I know why. I didn't use my usual stylist. The one who did my hair for my birthday makes my styles last so much longer. Still, I love how the photos turned out. The lush greenery in the background gave them an exotic, almost wedding-like feel. I guess I could pass for a wedding guest in this dress, so long as the chest is fixed.

Happy Birthday to My Love

Finally, I want to give a special birthday shoutout to my amazing partner. Thank you for always reminding me to live a Christ-like life, for showing me what true love is, and for loving me just for being me. Every moment we spend together is so satisfying because you don't mind what we're doing, as long as we're doing it together. God bless you, my love. I know the blessings for this new year of your life have already come from heaven, and I pray they have and are already manifesting in our lives. May you make heaven in Jesus' name, amen.








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  1. Happy birthday to your partner. Sounds like the food was just awesome. And you look beautiful in that dress.

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    1. Awww, thanks so much, Chatty! it was the best day ever, and omggg the food was so good. he's literally the sweetest.

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  2. Happy Birthday to your partner :-D Glad you had a good time and enjoyed the meal :-D That dress is gorgeous. It is really stunning on you Melody :-D

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    1. We had the best time celebrating. And seriously, thanks for saying that about the dress. I had it all planned out; I had different options, and this turned out so well. So glad you liked it too.

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  3. Easy to see you had a great time! Happy Birthday to your partner.

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    1. It was honestly such a good time, like, a total vibe. So happy you could tell. Thank you.

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  4. Feliz aniversário do teu parceiro! Que sejam muito felizes!
    Vestido muito lindo! Gostei bastante, amiga Melody.

    Beijinhos e boa semana!

    Mário Margaride

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    1. Thank you so much. We're super happy. Omg, thanks for saying that about the dress.

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  5. Feliz cumpleaños para tu pareja.
    Me alegra que lo hayas disfrutado.
    Espero que sigas mi blog de poesía también. Tengo una nueva entrada.
    ¡Feliz día, Melody!

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    1. Thank you so much, Marisa, for the birthday wishes for my partner. I will read your blog. I've been having issues with following blogs, but I am definitely going to read your blog and also check it out in general. Thank you.

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  6. i'm glad your partner's birthday was so special. when is it yours? :)
    the dress looks perfect in you. white and blue are colours that give peace and serenity.
    i love your sandals as well. when i was younger, i used to feel ashamed to show my feet. :)

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    1. It was really a special birthday, and I'm glad I got to spend it with him. Thank you for reading my blog and for commenting on my dress and shoes. Have a lovely day.

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  7. This is such a sweet post, Melody!! It sounds like you made your partner's birthday very special and what a stunning dress!!

    Make Life Marvelous

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    1. By the grace of God it was a special day, and I'm glad we were able to celebrate it together. Thank you for your lovely comment, Ashley.

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  8. Olá Melody é muito bom quando podemos usufruir momentos maravilhosos com quem amamos, que sua vida e do seu companheiro seja muito abençoada, parabéns, muitos beijos, Vi 🌹

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    1. It always is lovely and a beautiful idea to spend time with the people we love. Thank you for your comment.

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  9. Melody, I really like your new dress! I also congratulate your partner on his birthday.

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    1. Thank you so much, Irina. It's a beautiful dress, my partner will hear.

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  10. Happy Birthday to your partner! The dress is beautiful and elegant, dear Melody, and it looks amazing on you!

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  11. You look fabulous Melody, What a wonderful dress, like made for you.💕 You made a perfect bithday for your boyfriend. Hm I‘m hungry. Great you cook so well. <3

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    1. Thank you so much. I felt like it was made for me too. Haha, right? The food was so good. It was the perfect birthday for him, though.

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  12. Happy birthday to your loved one! He had a wonderful birthday thanks to you. Because you love him so much. He's definitely happy and glad you're together! All the best to you both. That's beautiful love! You look wonderful, this dress suits you so well. I love these colors and patterns! Everything goes together so beautifully.

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    1. Aww, thank you so much for saying that! That's so sweet. He really did have the best birthday, and I'm just so happy we get to celebrate together. And seriously, thank you for the love on the dress! I'm so glad you noticed the colors and patterns, that's literally exactly why I chose it. So happy you liked it.

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  13. Happy birthday to your loved one! He had a wonderful birthday thanks to you. Because you love him so much. He's definitely happy and glad you're together! All the best to you both. That's beautiful love! You look wonderful, this dress suits you so well. I love these colors and patterns! Everything goes together so beautifully.

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    1. Thank you so much. He is such a lucky and blessed man to have me, and same here.

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  14. Very pretty dress but I understand your concern over the 'coverage.' You had a lovely day, nonetheless. Happy birthday to your partner!

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    1. Thank you so much. And haha, you totally get it. I was a little nervous about the 'coverage,' but honestly, it was too pretty not to wear. Sometimes you just have to go for it, you know? We had the best time, and thanks for the birthday wishes, too.

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  15. I think he had a lovely birthday and you've spent good time together. Plus your dress is amazing!!!

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  16. Happy Birthday to your partner and it seems you enjoyed his birthday too.
    Love your maxi.

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  17. What a fabulous celebration. I loved reading about your time out of doors. Planning for a visit to Scotland next spring and love reading about it any time. You and the dress look terrific.

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    1. Oh, that is lovely. I can't wait to read about your trip to Scotland.

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  18. Melody, you look so elegant in the photos! Beautiful dress and hair!!!
    Melody, I'm so glad you and your boyfriend had a great time celebrating his birthday!
    Melody, I send you my regards!

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  19. You look absolutely gorgeous.
    What a wonderful celebration. Happy Birthday to your partner.

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  20. I am so glad you were able to celebrate your partner's birthday! I love that you wanted to make it special for him. How thoughtful that you got balloons, a card, and made him one of his favourite meals. That was so kind of you and I am sure he appreciated it very much. Balloch Castle Country Park sounds like a lovely place to spend some time. I'm glad you were able to find a quieter spot by the water. I just love the dress you wore. It is beautiful, but it is a shame you had to constantly make adjustments. It can be frustrating when certain pieces do not fit comfortably.

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    1. Thank you so much for the birthday wishes. He is going to read all the comments.

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  21. The dress looks adorable! It’s a shame it didn’t fit the way you like it. The fabric is beautiful.

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    1. I wish they had the right measurements, but I guess that might be the style.

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  22. It's a beautiful dress, and you look so pretty.

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  23. Olá, Melody.
    Passando por aqui, para desejar um feliz fim de semana, com tudo de bom.

    Mário Margaride

    http://poesiaaquiesta.blogspot.com
    https://soltaastuaspalavras.blogspot.com

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  24. Te veo muy guapa y elegante, el vestido es precios y el entorno espectacular. Seguro que disfrutasteis mucho en el cumpleaños de tu pareja. Lo preparaste con mucho amor. Un saludo

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    1. It was with so much love and honesty that I was looking forward to also having a good time.

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  25. Happy birthday to your partner.
    Your dress, and you, look lovely.

    All the best Jan

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  26. Happy birthday to your partner! Your birthday celebrations sound absolutely perfect to me.
    Your look amazing in that dress, what a shame it wasn't comfortable! xxx

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    1. Thank you so much. He will be excited reading all the comments.

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  27. El vestido se ve fabuloso una pena que ese pequeño problema a la hora de cubrir tus pechos, problema que a juzgar por las fotos no es tanto frontal, estropearía un tanto la fiesta de cumpleaños.

    Saludos.

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    1. Yes, it made me feel uncomfortable and i had to adjust from time to time but that is a beautiful dress.

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  28. You looking great in this dress! And I'm sure the Birthday Event was perfect:
    Happy Birthday to your friend 🥂 Best wishes.

    Greetings by Heidrun

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  29. Awesome celebration. And what a beautiful outfit for the occasion. Such a splendid post. Wishing you both many fond memories to come. Thanks so much for your comments and much much more. All the best to a new year for both of you with much happiness.💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
    Caitlin&Megan
    Ivy
    Ellie

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  30. Beautiful dress! And wonderful birthday party! Visit my blog! Hugs!

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  31. О, с днём рождения твоего партнёра! Пусть он наслаждается отношениями с тобой, вы вместе прекрасны!
    И очень красивое платье, ты в нём выглядишь потрясающе, благодаря твоей королевской осанке и струящейся ткани.
    Я с удовольствием прочитала, как прошёл ваш день вместе, и это великолепно! Это лучшая идея для дня рождения. Это правда - если есть чувства и взаимопонимание, то неважно, что делать, главное - вместе!

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    1. You are always sweet with your comments, and I really appreciate it. Your kindness radiates in your comment. We enjoyed spending time together, but do you know one thing I noticed? Each time we spend the day together, it feels like time moves faster. Hahahahaha

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  32. Ohhh Melody, não poderia ser mais perfeito do que isso a celebração de aniversário do seu parceiro de vida e de passeios.Parabéns para ele e muitos anos de vida repletos de saúde e felicidade ao casal!! :)))))
    Fiquei encantada com o seu lindo vestido! É tão fresco, leve e suave!! Azul é a minha cor favorita e as estampas florais ficaram espetaculares com as folhas em dourado, ou seria marrom? De qualquer forma é belíssimo!! Noa dá para reparar que estava desconfortável no busto, você ficou muito linda!! :)))
    E você é ótima na cozinha, sabe preparar pratos dignas de uma grande chef de cozinha!! Parabéns!!
    Beijos e uma grande semana querida!!

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    1. Thank you so much, Adriana. I can say that I am good at cooking but it is not my favorite thing to do. We had a lovely time. Thank you for the wishes.

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  33. Cieszę się że Jesteś szczęśliwa i że ten dzień urodzin twojego partnera wypadł idealnie. Wyglądasz zjawiskowo w tej sukni. Przykro mi, że okazała się niewygodna. Mam nadzieję że wymienią ją na lepszą. Ale cudownie Ci w takich kolorach. Przyznam Ci się, że ja zawsze się czuje sfrustrowana jak mam kupować suknie na jakieś okazję. Nigdy nie mogę wybrać nic idealnego. Jak mi się coś spodoba to nigdy nie ma mojego rozmiaru. Inne znów brzydko na mnie leżą. Wychodzę zła i generalnie mam już dość zakupów. Nigdy nie wyglądam dobrze w tym co by mi pasowało. Mój mąż uważa, że wymyślam... Nie lubię jak tak gada. Nie wie jak czuję się kobieta, która urodziła trójkę dzieci i przestała czuć się atrakcyjna. Rzadko ubieram sukienki, najczęściej chodzę na sportowo. Życzę Twojemu partnerowi wszystkiego najlepszego z okazji minionych urodzin, a Wam obojgu dużo szczęścia i pomyślności.

    Zapraszam do mnie na 6 część opowieści.

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    1. His birthday was perfect and I enjoyed myself. I don't intend to exchange the dress. Buying dresses for occasions can be tricky and stressful. Sometimes I always go for simple, elegant dresses. When I am confused, I prefer one-colored dresses that are fitted and suitable for various occasions, as long as they are of decent length.

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  34. Olá, Melody
    Parabéns para o seu parceiro, que Deus abençoe a vida dele ricamente. Lindo vestido, ficou ótimo em você, acredito que ele gostou muito da festa que você preparou, tudo maravilhoso, um forte abraço.

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  35. Absolutely gorgeous! And what a sweet post!
    www.chezmireillefashiontravelmom.com

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