Happy Good Friday to you all.
Last year I wrote about how to celebrate Good Friday, but this year I’ve been thinking more about what it actually teaches us, especially with how things are in the world right now.
For me, one thing that stands out is how we’re always in a rush for things to work out. We want answers straight away, we want things fixed quickly. But Good Friday doesn’t work like that. It reminds us that there are moments in life where things feel heavy, unclear, and even unfair—and we just have to sit in it.
It also makes me think about how we deal with people. It’s easy to cut people off or hold onto things, but this day reminds us that forgiveness isn’t weakness. It actually takes more strength than most things.
And honestly, it’s a reminder to slow down. Not everything needs to be loud or rushed. Sometimes it’s about being still, reflecting, and taking things as they come.
Good Friday isn’t just about looking back, it’s about how we carry ourselves now.
That’s a different ‘take’ that I am fine with.
ReplyDeleteMe too.
DeleteWell written.
ReplyDeleteHave a blessed Good Friday.
Thank you, Rupam.
DeleteΜεγάλη Παρασκευή σήμερα για τους Καθολικούς Χριστιανούς. Μέρα μεγάλη, γεμάτη σεβασμό και δέος. Να ευχηθώ σε όλους σας εκεί μια ευλογημένη μέρα και καλό Πάσχα.
ReplyDeleteA solemn and meaningful day indeed. May it bring reflection, gratitude, and a deep sense of peace to all who observe it.
DeleteHi Melody.
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion, your words today reflect reality. We're rushing forward, we want everything now, we're incredibly impatient.
Melody, I'll tell you, I often think that people used to have more time for themselves and their loved ones... Today – we have technical innovations, phones, the internet, we can shop and the store will deliver it to us, and we have even less time than before...
Is life fair? In my opinion, life – especially for "normal" people, not politicians or celebrities – isn't easy. Unfortunately, a large percentage of humanity also makes life harder for itself. Of course, there are aspects of life we have no control over, but there are some things we can change, but we don't want to.
Melody, , on the occasion of Easter, I extend my best wishes for health, joy, happiness, family moments, and the blessing of the Risen Lord Jesus!!!
Warmest wishes to you and your loved ones!!!
I agree. Life often moves too fast, and we forget to cherish the simple moments. Your Easter wishes are heartfelt; I hope this season brings peace, joy, and meaningful time with those you care about most.
DeleteJust stopping by to wish you a lovely Easter.
ReplyDeleteHappy Easter to you.
DeleteIl Signore Gesù ha accettato di farsi crocifiggere, un supplizio atroce, per redimerci, Lui non ha esitato a portare la croce e a soffrire e morire per noi, si è fidato totalmente del Padre e ha vinto la morte. Buona Pasqua, ormai prossima.
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Indeed, His sacrifice is a powerful reminder of faith and love beyond measure. May this Easter bring a sense of renewal, hope, and gratitude for the gift of His mercy.
DeleteComo bien nos dices el ritmo de vida actual nos impone hacer las cosas no "ya" si no antes que "ya". Y como bien nos dices debemos parar, reflexionar y seguir al trote.
ReplyDeleteSaludos.
Exactly. Taking a moment to pause and reflect gives life depth and meaning, even amid the rush. It’s in those quiet moments that we truly understand what matters.
DeleteThank you =) Oh yes I do my best to finde the perfect balance between work, sports and gaming time :D Italian food is always so delicious. Thank you =)
ReplyDeleteNice post with really positive vibes <3 It's always good to enjoy every moment and do what makes you happy without stressing. I wish you Happy Easter =)
Enjoying the little things, like food and hobbies, really makes a difference. Wishing you a joyful and peaceful Easter as well.
DeleteJe to zajímavé zamyšlení, ale ... na světě lidé vyznávají více náboženství, takže jak je naznačeno v článku, mnoho věcí nemůžeme ovlivnit, i když bychom chtěli.
ReplyDeletePřeji příjemné Velikonoce!
Indeed, diversity in faith reminds us that life’s paths are many, and understanding is often more important than control. Wishing you a peaceful and joyful Easter.
DeleteGreat thoughts for Good Friday.
ReplyDeleteHappy Easter.
DeleteA wonderful post, Melody. Yes, being still, reflecting and taking things as they come. Happy Easter to you.
ReplyDeleteHappy Easter.
DeleteMuy cierto. Profunda reflexión. Te mando un beso.
ReplyDeleteThank you.
Delete可惜對很多人來說復活節只是一個假期.
ReplyDeleteYes, that is true. For some, it’s easy to forget the deeper meaning amidst the festivities. Taking a quiet moment to reflect can bring its true significance back.
DeleteHappy Easter!
ReplyDeleteHappy Easter.
DeleteForgiveness is a great way for us to move forward, and not be trap in our own mind.
ReplyDeleteThat is right.
DeleteA gente tem pressa de tudo, até a pressa de viver numa vida, que o violentar anda fazendo das suas maldades.
ReplyDeleteBelas palavras amiga e que a Páscoa aconteça no coração.
Abraços de paz e feliz fim de semana.
Thank you so much.
DeleteIndependentemente da publicação que amei ver e ler, passo a fim de desejar uma PÁSCOA muito feliz, se possível, junto de quem mais ama.
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“” Pensamentos e Devaneios poéticos ““
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Thank you.
DeleteA wonderful post
ReplyDeleteThank you.
DeleteSo many people can't forgive these days, I don't think they were shown or taught how to forgive, it appears it's one of the hardest things to do.
ReplyDeleteLovely post, Melody.
Happy Easter.
It is hard to do, especially when you know deep down that this person will do it again or has done this before, which is why we have the option of forgiving and walking away to protect our space, but not out of malice, just by applying wisdom to also preserve our mental space.
DeleteNiech te Święta Wielkanocne przyniosą spokój, nadzieję i chwilę prawdziwego oddechu od codzienności. Życzę Wam dużo ciepła, bliskości i radości z małych rzeczy. Niech ten czas będzie pełen dobrej energii i nowych początków. Wesołych Świąt!
ReplyDeleteAngelika
Amen, same to you, Angela.
DeleteWhy Have I always thought this day ic called GREAT Friday? :/
ReplyDeleteNot sure why, but I know it as Good Friday.
Deletevery insightful and meaningful.
ReplyDeleteThank you
DeleteChyba wszyscy chcemy za szybko. A to czas aby się chwilę zatrzymać i pomyśleć. Po prostu.
ReplyDeleteThat is right. Happy Easter!
DeleteThis is so very thoughtful and yes, so spot on. i confess, I long more now for the quieter relationships and times than some of the others. And yes, slower too. Happy Easter.
ReplyDeleteThat is the right step to self-peace.
Delete"Não jogues o Sagrado ao vento com palavras fúteis.
ReplyDeleteSeja o Sagrado!"
P elo Amor derramado
A paz, enfim, reinou
S ó nos resta o Amado
C om todo esplendor
O sol nos vem calado
A contemplar tanto Amor
(Rosélia Bezerra)
Deixe que o Amor seja sua oração.
(Osho)
Feliz e Abençoada Pascoa, Amiga!🌻🙏
"Não jogues o Sagrado ao vento com palavras fúteis.
ReplyDeleteSeja o Sagrado!"
P elo Amor derramado
A paz, enfim, reinou
S ó nos resta o Amado
C om todo esplendor
O sol nos vem calado
A contemplar tanto Amor
(Rosélia Bezerra)
Deixe que o Amor seja sua oração.
(Osho)
Feliz e Abençoada Pascoa, Amiga!🌻🙏
Happy Easter to you and your family.
DeleteI would also say that it teaches us that suffering can have meaning.
ReplyDeleteIt also teaches that in a time when things are not going well, we should remain positive and mind the words we speak.
DeleteWhat a beautiful post. I also find Easter is a reminder of in the waiting time of our lives, it's okay to grieve but also hope can be right around the corner. It's also a reminder to me that no matter how tough life gets we have that promise of eternal life because of what Jesus did on the cross. Happy Easter!
ReplyDeleteThat is very right, Nicole. Happy Easter.
DeleteWybaczenie to wielki dar, który wyzwala. Wybaczenie daje wytchnienie. Skoro Jezus wszystko nam wybaczył, Judaszowi zdradę, Piotrowi wyparcie to czemu my mamy nie wybaczyć bliźniemu? Wybaczenie w taki dzień ma szczególną moc. Życzę Ci dziś wielu błogosławieństw i dobroci ze strony ludzi których codziennie spotykasz na drodze. Pięknej Wielkanocy Melody.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much.
DeleteWe rush too much. Happy Easter!
ReplyDeleteThat is true, taking it slow is a better way to live.
DeleteA good perspective. We have to deal with ambiguity and uncertainty in our lives. Good Friday teaches us patience. Forgiveness is harder than revenge or bearing grudges. Thanks for linking.
ReplyDeleteYou are welcome.
DeleteWhat a wonderful perspective. Sometimes, we all need a reminder to slow down and to hold onto hope, even in the midst of uncertainty. I hope you had a wonderful Easter celebration <3
ReplyDeleteGlad you read the post. Thank you.
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