I and my partner have been saving this drink and wanting to have it when we could really enjoy it together...and then we had a road trip! We packed it and had it at sunset, that beautiful, golden hour light, right in Drumpellier Country Park. We sat, opened it, relaxed, and shared a couple of glasses. It was the perfect moment.

We had actually had a glass earlier that week, too, and we both absolutely loved it. And here is exactly why I'm now completely obsessed with Mother Root Ginger Switchel.

When the brand reached out and sent me a box to try, I was immediately drawn in. The aesthetic alone is gorgeous—I love the sunny yellow branding against the dark brown bottle. It looks like a heritage tonic, and the logo is really cool, too! But the contents? That’s the real magic.

What is Mother Root?

Before I get into the taste, let's talk about what this is. Mother Root is essentially a modern, premium take on a traditional tonic called a Switchel.

It’s an invigorating, non-alcoholic drink that is packed with potent, natural ingredients. Think of it as a delicious, fiery dose of goodness that’s great for your gut and an amazing alternative to sugary sodas or complicated cocktails.

The founder's goal was simple and brilliant: to create a drink that offers the satisfying, complex flavors of a cocktail but is non-alcoholic (0.1% ABV Alcohol-Free) and genuinely beneficial for your health. They wanted to deliver 'good feelings without compromise,' and honestly, they nailed it.


Hope in Action: A Memoir About the Courage to Lead — My Take on Sanna Marin’s Story

If you follow my Instagram, you might’ve seen the post where I shared my excitement about finally getting my copy of Hope in Action. But as always, I like to save my full reflections for the blog — and this book deserves it.

I still remember when the videos of Sanna Marin dancing broke out online. Headlines everywhere called her “the partying prime minister.” Politicians accused her of being unprofessional; others questioned her ability to lead. Watching that unfold felt cruel — a young woman leader being punished for simply being human. That noise made me curious about the person behind the headlines. So when I learned that Marin had written a memoir, I knew I had to read it.

The book, just over 250 pages, opens with her own words: “Hope is not naïve. It is a choice, and it requires action.” That line set the tone for everything that followed. Marin takes us through her early years growing up in a working-class Finnish family, raised by two women who struggled to make ends meet, yet instilled in her a fierce sense of fairness. By page 42, she writes about being the first in her family to attend university — and the quiet pressure that came with carrying other people’s hopes.

The most challenging section for me came midway through, when she describes those long nights during the first COVID-19 lockdowns. On page 118, she recalls sitting alone in her office at 2 a.m., drafting emergency decrees and wondering if the decisions she was making would cost lives. “Leadership,” she writes, “isn’t about certainty; it’s about carrying uncertainty with grace.” That line stayed with me. It reminded me that true courage often feels like doubt, not confidence.

Firmoo Black frame clear lenses

Why Firmoo Is the Only Place I Buy My Clear Glasses

There are some things in life that you just stick with. For me, they are things like eating by the riverside on a hot afternoon, enjoying my food really hot, and, most importantly, where I get my clear glasses. I have written about Firmoo on my blog several times and I consistently recommend it to absolutely everyone.

I’m talking about a brand I’ve personally trusted for more than six pairs now. I’ve even roped my dad into the fan club, he loves the frames I got him. Firmoo isn't just a place to buy glasses; it's a place that gets it right every single time, from the moment you click "order" to the moment they land on your face.

For a brand to earn this level of loyalty from me, they have to deliver on more than just looks. I’m a loyal influencer for this brand, and I know many of you are, too, so let's dig into why Firmoo is genuinely a leader in the online eyewear space.

Firmoo has always been a champion for making stylish, high-quality eyewear accessible to everyone. They understand that getting a prescription shouldn't break the bank. This focus on affordability without compromising quality is a huge achievement in the industry. It allows people to own multiple pairs for different looks, something that used to be an expensive luxury.

Their range of frames is unbelievable. Whether you're looking for a bold geometric look, a classic aviator, or something completely timeless, they have options for every face shape, style, and age. This dedication to diverse design shows they are constantly innovating and paying attention to current trends while also respecting classic style.

My Latest Firmoo Haul: Two New Everyday Essentials

My current rotation consists of two new pairs, and honestly, they perfectly illustrate why I’m such a massive fan. I needed two clear, everyday-friendly frames, and Firmoo delivered exactly what I asked for:

1. The Classic Look: Black Frames with Clear Lenses

This is my go-to "serious business" or "any outfit" pair. The black frame is crisp and modern, but the best part about this particular pair isn't how it looks, it's how it feels.

When I got a house in the Ukrainian countryside, it was pure magic. The peace was so profound, a quiet that seeped into my bones. I wasn't there for the people, not at first. I was there for the profound quiet and the space to just be. I had a mate and his wife nearby, and my life in the city was just a 40-minute ride away, but in the dead of winter, everything changes. The world outside becomes a beautiful, silent snow globe, and I find myself living in a different kind of time.

I was stuck. And alone. Just me, endless cups of tea, and movie marathons. Adding wood to the fireplace. And it was in that solitude, in that beautiful calmness, that I discovered I loved the countryside and enjoyed the calmness that came with it, along with other things I didn’t know existed.

When I picked up Hannah Kent's memoir, Always Home, Always Homesick, I felt an instant, deep connection. I could see myself in her words, in her story.

The book starts with Hannah Kent's trip to Iceland when she was a teenager. A place that looks cold and lonely on the outside, but for her, it became a close, life-changing place. She takes you along on her 17-year-old self’s emotional and physical journey as she navigates a new culture, language, and the profound sense of otherness that comes with living far from home. She doesn't just describe a place; she makes you feel it. You can almost feel the wind on your face and see the desolate, beautiful terrain through her eyes. This isn’t a story of a quick vacation; it's a story of becoming a part of a place and letting it become a part of you.


Reading Rebel Rising felt like an absolute heart-to-heart with someone who really gets it—you know, the dizzying highs, the frustrating lows, and all that messy middle-ground of life. I’ve always loved Rebel Wilson on screen, of course, but this book completely showed me a side of her I genuinely didn’t expect: so vulnerable, incredibly real, and relentlessly determined.

What Really Hit Home for Me

That question she constantly wrestles with—“Am I good enough?”—seriously resonated with me. It instantly brought back those moments in my own life when self-doubt tried to creep in, and how easy it is to let fear be the thing that holds you back. Seeing the way she faced constant rejection, harsh criticism, and her own personal struggles made me really reflect on my own challenges, but in a totally different light.

Her openness about both her health journey and her career hurdles was so inspiring. It was such a great reminder that setbacks are never failures—they’re just a part of the long journey, and true resilience is quietly built, step by patient step.
A close-up of the blogger's hands holding "The Royal Mint Puzzle Book" open, emphasizing the personal journey into British coinage history.

You guys know me – I'm always on the hunt for something that sparks my curiosity, something that's a little bit unique, and definitely something that lets me learn without feeling like I'm "learning." So, when I stumbled upon The Royal Mint Puzzle Book, my inner history buff and puzzle enthusiast did a happy dance. Let me tell you why you need this book in your life.

First off, let’s just appreciate the concept here. This isn't just any puzzle book. This is from The Royal Mint, the official folks who make all of Britain's coins. I mean, how cool is that? Immediately, I knew this wasn't going to be some generic collection of crosswords. Oh no, this was going to be steeped in history, rich with facts, and probably a lot more clever than I was ready for. And I was right.

From the moment I opened the book, I was hooked. The book boasts 125 puzzles, but they're not just random brain teasers. Every single one is woven into over a thousand years of British currency and coinage history. Can you believe it? It's like a mental scavenger hunt through time, and honestly, that's what gives it such a special, personal feel for me. I’m not just solving a riddle; I’m uncovering a piece of history.

I’m talking about everything from cryptic codes that make you feel like a secret agent decoding ancient messages, to logic problems that really make your brain hum. And trust me, some of them are properly challenging. There are even sections dedicated to historical figures like Sir Isaac Newton (who, fun fact, was Master of the Mint!) and Oliver Cromwell. It’s like getting a mini-biography paired with a mental workout. I found myself googling things to learn more after solving a puzzle, which is the sign of a truly engaging book, right?

What I truly adore about this book is its ability to make history feel alive and incredibly relevant. I've always been fascinated by how societies function, and money is such a fundamental part of that. To see the evolution of coins, the stories behind their designs, and the figures who shaped their creation, all while trying to decipher a tricky puzzle—it’s just brilliant. It feels like a secret club for history lovers and puzzle addicts.

If you're anything like me – someone who loves to challenge their mind, enjoys a good historical tidbit, or just appreciates the beauty and significance of currency – then The Royal Mint Puzzle Book is an absolute must-have. It’s perfect for a cozy evening in, a quiet afternoon with a cup of tea, or even a gift for that notoriously hard-to-buy-for friend. Trust me, it's a rewarding experience that’s way more than just a puzzle book. It’s a journey.

Have any of you tried it? Or do you have other historical puzzle books you love? Let me know in the comments below. I’m always looking for my next brain-teaser.

Blogger seated and enthusiastically holding the colorful cover of "The Royal Mint Puzzle Book," ready for a mental challenge.

Melody Jacob reading "The Royal Mint Puzzle Book" while seated, illustrating deep engagement with the historical and numismatic puzzles.

The subject wearing a striking party dress with defined curls, pearl studs, and red heels. Photo highlights the dramatic color contrast of the outfit.


I finally got a chance to wear this absolute masterpiece—the Colorblock Ruffle Patchwork Sleeveless Party Mini Dress from Loragal (SKU:K735050164275470336). Seriously, you need to see this dress up close.

The design is just dramatic and so unique. It starts with a super sleek, high-neck black sleeveless bodice that is perfectly fitted. Then, from the waist down, the skirt flares out in this gorgeous, voluminous way. The real showstopper is the hem: it’s completely covered in these bold, textured red ruffle rosettes that are so vibrant against the black. It gives the whole look this amazing, playful-yet-sophisticated silhouette.

A Quick Styling Secret

Okay, so real talk for a second: I ran into one little issue. I'm wearing a size small, and while the fit everywhere else was great, the seam where all those gathers and ruffles meet at the waist was surprisingly itchy against my skin. I honestly don't know what they did with the stitching there.

To fix it, I just slipped on a singlet underneath, and problem solved. Sometimes you have to improvise to make fashion work, right? But seriously, if you order it, just keep a little cami or singlet handy.

I was so lucky to catch that incredible golden hour light for the photos on our way back from Elgin. The warm glow on the paved path and the lush greenery in the background made the red and black pop even more.

I paired the dress with my sparkly high heels (a beautiful birthday gift) and kept my accessories simple with classic pearl studs. Of course, I had to match the energy of those red ruffles with a bold red lipstick—it just ties the whole look together.

I felt so confident and joyful in this outfit. It truly combines elegance with dramatic style. What do you all think of the color combo? Let me know your favorite part of the look.

Melody Jacob wearing a Ruffle Patchwork Sleeveless Party Mini Dress from Loragal


I'm sure you've all been there. That one week where your head is just pounding from stress. It's one thing after another: a work task, a doctor's appointment, a commitment you can't get out of... It's just so much. And all you can do is wait for the weekend to get here, but it's just crawling by. It's Tuesday and you're already thinking, "Okay, I need to breathe. I need to relax. Friday, where are you?!"

For those of us with a 9-to-5 or more, it feels like we're just running on a treadmill all week, telling ourselves, "Friday is coming." When you get home from work, all you want to do is sleep. You can't even get through your favorite show or reply to blog comments. All you want is to eat, shower, brush your teeth, and crash. Then you wake up the next morning and do it all over again, just silently wishing for the weekend to arrive.

That was me all last week. Seriously, I could not wait for the weekend to come. It was just too much. But I found something that has helped me ease the stress, and the psychology behind it is actually pretty amazing. Mangatopia, illustrated by Liv Wan. It made me wonder: Why do children love coloring so much, and why do adults need it?

Melody Jacob wearing the Duo Blush Cream & Powder set by collection cosmetics


For the longest time, I was convinced that blush and I just weren't meant to be. I tried so many different types and shades, but nothing seemed to work. I even found a cream blush I liked, but it was a whole ordeal to apply without it clashing with my foundation. I just didn't have the patience for it, so I gave up and stuck to what I knew.

If you've been reading this blog for a while, you know my makeup routine is pretty simple. I'm a MAC Powder Foundation girl—NW45, to be exact. I've got an Oriflame liquid foundation, but I don't use it often. My go-to look is just my MAC powder, some brow pencil, and mascara. Lipsticks are tricky for me, so I usually just go for a light stain and some gloss. I'm not into heavy makeup that feels caked on. I'm confident in my own skin, and I don't feel the need to cover anything up. My makeup is meant to enhance, not conceal.

But then, something changed. I got my hands on some blushes from Collections Cosmetics UK. They also sent me some of their High Color Glosses, but the colors weren't for me. I tried everything, but they just didn't suit my skin tone. I'll find a way to make them work eventually, but the blushes? Oh, my gosh. They're exactly what I've been looking for.

Collection cosmetics Duo Blush Cream & Powder Set

A close-up of the dress's colorful floral pattern and the pearl earrings, showing how I styled the outfit.

Welcome to the beautiful and fruitful month of September. I'm genuinely so happy and excited to be here, and I hope you are too. I've been looking forward to sharing this dress with you, and I'm thrilled that my very first fashion post this month is about this amazing, colorful Flora Bloom dress.

This dress, which has a beautiful, busy floral design, truly represents how I want this new month to be: fresh and full of life. It's a lovely dress by LoralGal, a size small, and it sits above my knee.

I actually had a little moment with the styling. I initially tried on a pair of busy earrings, and even though my partner told me they looked nice, something felt off. When I took the first photo, I just knew they weren't the right match. I have these pearl earrings that I keep in a box, so I quickly swapped them out, and it made all the difference! The pearl earrings toned down the "noisy" floral pattern on the dress and made the whole look feel well put together, not too cluttered. The design is just so vibrant a mix of red flora on blue, yellow, and pink backgrounds that it needed a simple accessory to let the dress shine.

A bright and vibrant photo of me looking confident in the Loragal dress, showing the beautiful floral design and my simple accessories.

Woman reading "Invisible ADHD" book in a cozy setting.

I've always been fascinated by the intricacies of the human brain, but my medical knowledge didn't fully prepare me for my friend. She's brilliant and creative but a whirlwind of contradictions. She'll hyperfocus on a new hobby for days, then completely forget our plans from a few hours earlier. Her conversations jump from one topic to the next so fast it feels like a verbal rollercoaster. I’ve often found myself wondering, "Is this just a personality quirk, or is something else at play?" While I had a clinical understanding of ADHD, seeing it manifest in a friend's everyday life was a different experience entirely.

One of the most confusing things I noticed was during our friendly debates. We'd argue about an issue, like health statistics in a particular country, and she would debate while clearly reading from her phone, as if we didn't notice. We were arguing about what we'd already read, but she'd be looking up facts in real-time, often switching to an entirely different, unrelated topic mid-argument. It was so draining, and it always left me feeling dismissed and incredibly frustrated.

I read Shanna Pearson's book, Invisible ADHD: Proven Mood and Life Management for Smart Yet Scattered Women, an educative read. Published in late 2025, this isn't just another textbook; it's a compassionate and practical guide that bridges the gap between clinical knowledge and lived experience. Pearson, a seasoned ADHD coach with a background in psychology, has created a resource that speaks directly to the often-misunderstood presentation of ADHD in women.

The book is an absolute game-changer because it moves beyond the stereotypes of inattentive or hyperactive types and goes into the nuanced, "invisible" symptoms that many women, and even some men, experience. It reframes what we think of as disorganization or flightiness as a result of a neurodivergent brain struggling with executive functions.

Pearson's approach is both validating and empowering. She explains that it’s not a character flaw but rather a neurological difference that can be managed with the right tools. The book provides over 100 practical strategies for everything from managing emotional dysregulation to structuring daily life. To help you understand its core concepts, here's a simplified table illustrating a few key examples from the book.

Reading a copy of "Invisible ADHD" by Shanna Pearson.

Common BehaviorUnderlying ADHD ChallengePearson's Practical Tool
Forgetting appointments/tasksPoor working memory and task initiation."The Two-Minute Rule": If a task takes less than two minutes, do it immediately to prevent it from being forgotten.
Emotional outbursts or overreactionsEmotional dysregulation. The brain struggles to filter and process intense feelings."The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique": A simple mindfulness exercise to quickly anchor yourself in the present and regain control.
Chronic disorganization/messinessDifficulty with long-term planning and sustained attention."The 'Clutter-Free' Hotspot": Designate one small area (like a bedside table) to always keep clear, providing a visual cue of control.

The Path to Solutions: What I Learned from the Book

Beyond simply validating the "why," Pearson's book provides a powerful "how." She offers a treasure trove of practical, everyday solutions that don't rely on willpower but on working with the ADHD brain's natural wiring. It's like being handed a user's manual for a brilliant but sometimes chaotic operating system.

One of the core concepts is Externalizing Information. For brains that struggle with working memory, keeping everything in your head is a recipe for disaster. This explains why my friend often forgets plans or jumps from one topic to another. The solution is to get it out of your head and into a trusted, external system. Pearson suggests things like: 

  • "The Brain Dump": Instead of trying to hold on to a dozen different thoughts, a person with ADHD can simply write them all down on a piece of paper or in a note-taking app. This frees up mental space and prevents that overwhelming feeling of having too much to do at once. It's like clearing out your computer's RAM so it can run faster.
  • Creating a "Command Center": This is a designated, highly visible spot where all essential items like keys, wallet, and phone live. The idea is to make it impossible to lose them, as there is only one place to look. This might mean a specific hook by the door for keys or a tray for phones, so they don't spend twenty minutes searching for them, wasting time.

Another key area the book addresses is the procrastination loop, which is often not about laziness but about a lack of dopamine. Starting a task can feel like climbing a vertical wall. Pearson's solutions focus on generating that crucial motivation.

  • "The Two-Minute Rule": This simple idea is deceptively effective. If a task takes less than two minutes, do it immediately. This could be putting a dish in the dishwasher, sending a quick email, or taking out the trash. These small, completed tasks provide a tiny hit of dopamine and build momentum, making it easier to tackle bigger projects.
  • "Body Doubling": This is the concept of doing a task alongside someone else to stay focused. For many with ADHD, simply being in the presence of another person who is also working can help them stay on task. This might explain why my friend can't focus alone but can get things done while on the phone with me. It creates a gentle, external sense of accountability that bypasses the internal struggle.
Oh my goodness, I still can’t get over how joyful, grateful, and just plain happy I am about my partner’s birthday! We celebrated yesterday, August 19, and by the grace of God, everything turned out even better than I could have planned.

I asked him a few times what he wanted to do for his birthday, and he kept suggesting something simple, similar to what we did for mine. I really wanted to make this day special for him. So, the day before, I went out in the morning and picked up some blue helium balloons, a card from Card Factory that I later personalized to make it feel even more special, got choclates and some other little big things.

I also made sure to cook one of his favorite meals, party jollof rice. I had planned on using fresh mutton, but when I went to the butcher, they hadn’t cut it yet, and I didn’t have time to wait. I ended up getting fresh beef instead, and it turned out amazing. My partner said it was delicious, and you know what? He was right! I have to say that I rarely make bad meals. I’m just blessed with the gift of cooking tasty food.

I didn't want to wait until midnight to wish him a happy birthday, so I gave him his gifts and sang to him with the candles lit on his chocolate cake. We spent the evening together, enjoying some cold drinks and talking about how excited we were about his birthday road trip.

We had our hearts set on spending the day in nature, but we didn’t decide on a specific location until we were already on our way. At first, we considered the Inner Clyde Nature Reserve, but then I suggested going to Ben A'an. We left around 2:45 p.m., and since it’s a long journey, we knew it was too late for a proper hike. We drove toward the area anyway, but once we got there, we decided to turn around and head to a different spot in Loch Lomond & The Trossachs National Park.

Our map led us to Balloch Castle Country Park, which is part of the Trossachs and has incredible views overlooking Loch Lomond. It was perfect. The park is beautiful and so well-kept. The castle itself is closed to the public, so we just took a few photos of it and continued exploring. We walked through the green fields and eventually found a spot by the loch (river) for our meal. We initially attempted to sit at a wooden table; however, the bees were completely uncooperative. The bees kept perching on us, and I was afraid of getting stung. So we found a quieter spot right by the water, where we ate our food and enjoyed some cake. We took more photos and watched the birds, ducks, and some dogs playing catch with their owners. It was so relaxing and peaceful.

Around 8:45 p.m., we returned, watched a movie, and concluded our day. We had originally thought about dressing up and going to a restaurant with a view, but restaurants here close early. We were also pretty tired, and I’m so happy we decided to just stay in. It was a perfect ending to a wonderful day.

I’ll be sharing more photos from Balloch Castle Country Park on the blog soon, but for now, this is the dress I wore for the day. It’s absolutely beautiful and has this gorgeous blue floral print that gives off the perfect summer vacation vibe. It's long and modest, but the breast area was an issue for me. It was so uncomfortable, and I had to constantly adjust myself to make sure I didn't pop out. If I had a larger chest, it would have been impossible to wear. It's a shame because the dress looked so decent on the website. I’ll be reaching out to the brand Stylewe to give them some feedback. Anyways, they get to read my review.

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I did my hair on Saturday, but it is starting to get a little rough, and I know why. I didn't use my usual stylist. The one who did my hair for my birthday makes my styles last so much longer. Still, I love how the photos turned out. The lush greenery in the background gave them an exotic, almost wedding-like feel. I guess I could pass for a wedding guest in this dress, so long as the chest is fixed.

Happy Birthday to My Love

Finally, I want to give a special birthday shoutout to my amazing partner. Thank you for always reminding me to live a Christ-like life, for showing me what true love is, and for loving me just for being me. Every moment we spend together is so satisfying because you don't mind what we're doing, as long as we're doing it together. God bless you, my love. I know the blessings for this new year of your life have already come from heaven, and I pray they have and are already manifesting in our lives. May you make heaven in Jesus' name, amen.
A beautiful woman posing confidently in her Elegant Ruffle Sleeve maxi dress, looking chic and poised in the lovely floral design.

I'm finally sharing a post on this beautiful Elegant Ruffle Sleeve Printing V-Neck Maxi Dress from Stylewe. I wore this on Sunday. I went home to change into jeans before a little life adventure got in the way of posting. I ended up helping someone move her things from a storage unit to her new apartment. She has back pain. Finding a taxi driver who was willing to help was a whole ordeal. One guy even said he thought he was just there to carry people at a storage unit, of all places. We started laughing. We ordered extra-large taxis from Uber and kept getting vehicles that couldn't carry luggage. We finally found a taxi; he was helpful and kind. Bless him.

But before all that, I was absolutely rocking this dress. The wind was just perfect for making my photos look extra flattering. The model on the website looks great, but I think the photos were edited a bit more, making the dress slightly different; you might not even notice it. I’ll let you be the judge.


This maxi dress is the perfect example of a trendy floral style. It's a fit-and-flare floral maxi dress that falls just right, even though it's a size small and a little free on me. The material is lightweight and feels airy, making it perfect for summer; however, it is quite delicate. Even a light strain or small prick can cause the threads to loosen, which makes it feel like the quality could be better. I recommend washing it gently by hand (not using the hand-wash setting on a machine, but actually washing it with your hands) to keep it in excellent condition. I do think the brand could improve the fabric quality to make it more durable. It's made of a lightweight polyester blend that's perfect for warm weather.
Melody Jacob wearing Stylewe bubu dress

I went out for evangelism about four Sundays ago, accompanied by one of my church members. While we were out, we met this lady at a bus stop. We introduced ourselves and spoke with her briefly, knowing she was likely on her way somewhere. We didn’t want to take much of her time, so we quickly invited her to church. She promised to come the next day, which was a Sunday.

However, as we walked away, she called me back and explained that she had an appointment she couldn’t miss. She said, “I can't make it this Sunday, but I promise I’ll come next Sunday.” And you know what? She kept her word. The following Sunday, she called me and said she was ready to come to church. We picked her up and went to church together. Thereafter, she wasn’t able to come last Sunday, but this Sunday, she came again. We picked her up and dropped her off.

I’m so happy—truly happy. I don’t even know how joyful heaven must be, but I believe it’s rejoicing. I was a bit worried when she didn’t come last Sunday. Later, when I checked in with her, she said she had just been busy, but all was well. I was pleased she was fine.

Now, she’s become a part of the church. She even moved to a new address that's closer to the church. She's happy and feels a sense of community and love. I'm so thankful for her life. Honestly, I’m sharing this testimony because I see evangelism as a spiritual battle. It’s not something we do in our own strength—we must go out led by the Holy Spirit.

That day we met her, she was calm and open. She even said, “I love how respectful and kind you were when you approached me. You spoke to me in such a lovely way.” That openness made all the difference.

So, ladies and gentlemen, we have a new member in our church, and I’m truly glad to have been part of the beginning of her journey. It feels like planting a seed and watching it bloom—it brings so much joy.

If you’re going out for evangelism, I encourage you: ask the Holy Spirit to lead you. Give people the pamphlets you have, invite them to your church, and trust that the Holy Spirit will do the convincing. You are just a vessel to plant the seed—God will bring the increase. And when it falls on good soil, it will grow, and they will come to God.

By the way, if you’ve been wondering about my dress—I'm wearing a dress by Stylewe; where I come from, this style is called a bubu dress. This particular design is known as the Elegant Floral Loose Maxi Dress. I love the style and the fit. While the color looks slightly different from how it appeared on the website, the size and overall look match what was advertised, and I’m very pleased with it.

As we begin this new week, I want to pray for you:

May God bless the work of your hands. May every good request you bring before Him be answered. May you experience breakthroughs in all you do. May God lift you high, protect your family, and cause nothing to be lost from you.

In Jesus' name, Amen.

Stylewe Elegant Floral Loose Maxi Dress




Melody Jacob holding Cetaphil's new hydrating skincare range, including the moisturizing lotion, PRO itch lotion, exfoliating lotion, and oily skin cleanser.

Oh my god, what a week! From work to this to blogging—oh my, it's just a whole lot. But I'm so thankful for the progress, and honestly, I'm turning it down for next week; I'll just pick out two things to do outside work, and then after that, I will rest, and, you know,  my favorite thing to do is go to nature.

Anyways, I received some fantastic new products that I've been absolutely loving and incorporating into my routine. As you all know, I always try out products thoroughly before I share my honest review on the blog. So, let's dive right in!

The brand I'm raving about today is Cetaphil, and specifically, their incredible new product line. Cetaphil, a brand trusted by dermatologists for over 75 years, has been a staple in skincare for sensitive skin since its inception in 1947. Developed by a pharmacist, the original Cetaphil Cleansing Lotion (now known as Cetaphil Gentle Skin Cleanser) was designed to be gentle yet effective, making it a go-to for those with delicate or compromised skin barriers. Their philosophy has always been about providing simple, effective, and dermatologist-recommended solutions. This new line truly embodies that legacy, and I'm so glad I'm one of the early birds to try it out and give my genuine opinion about it.

Let's talk products!

1. Cetaphil Moisturizing Lotion for Normal to Dry, Sensitive Skin

This product is a standout. It soothes the skin and protects it from dryness for up to 48 hours. But let me tell you, I have tried it and it lasts more than 48 hours because I've truly put it to the test. This lightweight, non-greasy lotion is specifically formulated with a powerful blend of Niacinamide (Vitamin B3), Avocado Oil , and Vitamin E.

Key Ingredients & Benefits:

  • Niacinamide: Known for its skin-strengthening properties, helping to restore the skin's natural moisture barrier.

  • Avocado Oil: A rich source of fatty acids and vitamins, providing deep nourishment and helping to lock in moisture.

  • Vitamin E: A powerful antioxidant that protects the skin from environmental damage.

This 236 ml bottle is a skincare essential. It's clinically proven to fully restore your skin's natural moisture barrier in just one week. The addition of Panthenol (Pro-Vitamin B5) alongside Niacinamide and Vitamin E truly boosts its effectiveness. There's no added fragrance, it doesn't clog pores, and I've experienced absolutely no irritation whatsoever – no bumps, no form of itch. It's just really, really good.

I would wholeheartedly recommend this for anyone looking for an affordable yet incredibly effective skincare solution that's suitable for all skin types. This is truly one of the best moisturizing products I've tried in a long time, especially because the hydration lasts for so long. I really hope they keep this formula exactly as it is because sometimes new brands change things up, but this one is pure perfection. You can apply it all over your face and body for intense hydration. This one works, and I’m giving it a solid 10 over 10.

Cetaphil Oily Skin Cleanser in a pump bottle, clear gel visible, designed for combination to oily sensitive skin.

2. Cetaphil PRO Itch Prone Skin Moisturizing Lotion for Sensitive, Dry or Very Dry Skin

Moving on to another fantastic product, this one is specifically designed for sensitive, dry, or very dry skin, and it's even suitable for eczema-prone skin. It actively strengthens and protects your skin's natural barrier.

Key Ingredients & Benefits:

  • Ceramide Complex: This is the star ingredient here. Ceramides are essential lipids found naturally in the skin barrier. This complex helps to replenish the natural protective lipids, which are crucial for a healthy, intact skin barrier, especially in conditions like eczema.

  • Highly effective moisturizing ingredients: A combination of emollients and humectants work synergistically to provide intense hydration.

Recommended by dermatologists, this product is clinically proven to increase the moisture content of dry skin for 24 hours after just one application. It helps skin feel soft, smooth, and less sensitive, and crucially, it helps to soothe that uncomfortable itchy feeling often associated with dry skin. It's suitable for all ages, won't clog your pores, is fragrance-free, and is hypoallergenic.

Directions for Use: Apply daily as required, especially after bathing or showering. For a comprehensive dry skincare regimen, it’s best used alongside the Cetaphil PRO Itch Prone Skin Body Wash.

Now, my personal experience with this one: I have a particular part of my leg that has been itching me, but anytime I apply this product, that itch stops. I’ve been using different creams on that area, but they haven’t had a long-lasting effect. So far, I love the immediate relief; I haven’t had that itch since I applied it yesterday. I still see that the bumps are there, but they’re a bit fainter than before, so I’m continuing to try this product. I would say that if you have an itch, this product will instantly relieve it, but I am still monitoring whether it will completely clear the bumps in the small area of my leg. I will continue using this product and will update you after I finish it.

What I will say is that the moisturization for this one lasts for 24 hours. So, if you want a longer moisturization time, you definitely need to go for the Cetaphil Moisturizing Lotion for Normal to Dry, Sensitive Skin (the one I talked about first) that lasts for 48 hours – it actually lasts for more than 48 hours. If you’re looking for really deep, long-lasting moisturization, that’s your go-to.

Person cozy under a white Slumberdown Wonderful Wool duvet, reading and sipping wine at Loch Leven Nature Reserve, with a peaceful outdoor setting.

My sleep pattern was absolutely terrible last week. Seriously, every time I started feeling sleepy, my brain would just decide, "Nope, let's try to stay awake for no good reason." And then, some nights, I'd just keep waking up mid-sleep. It was not a good feeling, especially when I still had to work. Ugh.

But thankfully, this week is different and better. I got a brand new duvet and pillows, and honestly, sometimes it's those little changes that just spark a massive amount of joy and relaxation. I know part of it is just my love for all things new (and okay, yes, these were sent to me), but genuinely, the material they've used in this duvet and the pillows is just so incredibly mild and soft on the skin. And the two pillows? Oh my goodness, they feel like pure heaven when I sink my head into them.

I seriously appreciate when brands actually put in the work when it comes to bedtime accessories. I've got one pillow I just hug, and the other one perfectly cradles my head, all snuggled under the duvet. I don't even know how to properly explain it, but it's just... fluffy, soft, mild, trendy, and friendly! Yep, that's the best way I can describe it. And honestly, I've been sleeping way better since the very first night I started using my new Slumberdown duvet and pillows. It's been bliss.

There are different duvets on the website, but if you specifically want to try out mine, it is called a "wonderful wool duvet." I have the queen size, which should be the superking size.

A beautifully styled bed with the white Slumberdown Wonderful Wool duvet, emphasizing its lightweight feel and natural, inviting look.

We all have those nights where sleep just doesn't happen, right? But sleep deprivation? That's a whole different ballgame. Seriously, not getting enough shut-eye can really mess with your health and well-being, from making you gain weight to even increasing your risk of a heart attack.

Basically, sleep deprivation comes in two flavors: complete or partial, depending on how much sleep you're actually missing. And honestly, both types can hit you with similar mental and physical effects.

Complete sleep deprivation: This is when you just don't sleep at all – like pulling an all-nighter. You know, usually, we're up for about 16 or 17 hours before hitting the hay. But once you push past that, you go from feeling a bit tired to absolutely wiped out. Even simple stuff starts feeling impossible.

It's pretty wild, but studies on things like hand-eye coordination show that this kind of sleep deprivation can be as bad as being drunk. Imagine, 24 hours awake can make you as impaired as having a blood alcohol content of 0.10%! Yikes.

Melody Jacob sitting peacefully, immersed in reading Tim Winton's 'Juice' outdoors.

I was at Black Devon Wetlands yesterday, finding my absolute happy place in nature, totally lost in Tim Winton's incredible novel, "Juice." Seriously, there's nothing quite like reading surrounded by lush, beautiful nature and the gentle sounds of water. I even wore my black dress, and it felt so peaceful just soaking it all in. How I love reading in nature – it just makes everything feel more profound.

And speaking of profound, let's talk about "Juice" by Tim Winton. Published in 2024, this book is a powerful, almost prophetic, piece of climate fiction from the brilliant Australian author. It's not a light read, but wow, does it make you think.

Woman in black dress reading 'Juice' by Tim Winton, lying by water at Black Devon Wetlands.

The story drops you into a dystopian future Australia, a world ravaged by extreme heat and the devastating consequences of past capitalist exploitation. Imagine summers so brutal you have to live underground just to survive! The narrative kicks off with our unnamed protagonist, a man, and a silent, traumatized young girl, on the run. They stumble upon an abandoned mine site, only to be captured by a mysterious "bowman." The entire sprawling story unfolds as the narrator, in a desperate bid to save himself and the girl, recounts his entire life story to this captor.

He tells of growing up in a harsh but frugal agrarian commune with his stern mother, learning to survive in this new, unforgiving landscape. But as the world continues to deteriorate, he finds himself drawn into a shadowy organization known as "The Service." Their mission? To "acquit" – which is a chilling euphemism for assassinating – the remaining billionaires and corporate figures who were responsible for the climate collapse, the architects of what Winton calls "fossil capitalism."

Book cover of 'Juice' by Tim Winton, held by hands in nature

The narrator lives a terrifying double life, balancing his dangerous missions for The Service with his attempts to maintain a semblance of normalcy back home with his family. As the book progresses, you witness the world's further unraveling, the "Long Peace" giving way to renewed chaos, and the chilling appearance of artificial humans, or "Sims," created by the elites.

Winton doesn't shy away from the harsh truths of this future, but what really got to me was the raw, desperate hope for survival that ran through every page, even in the worst times. It's about how strong the human spirit is and how it can be both very harsh and very loving when pushed to the very edge. The title "Juice" is so smart since it means more than simply energy (like fossil fuels). It also means the will and vital force you need to keep going.
Person relaxing on a sunny beach, with Jesse Jenkins' 'Cooking with Vegetables' cookbook resting open on their chest.

If you're anything like me, you probably have a shelf groaning under the weight of cookbooks. And while I love scrolling through online recipes, there's something truly special about a physical cookbook. It's not just a collection of ingredients and instructions; it's an invitation to explore, to expand your culinary mindset, and to genuinely boost your cooking skills. That's exactly what I found with Jesse Jenkins' Cooking with Vegetables.

This isn't just another vegetarian cookbook, which is fantastic because I'm not strictly veggie, but I'm always looking for ways to make vegetables the hero of my plate. Jesse Jenkins, with his laid-back Californian vibe mixed with serious culinary chops, shows you how to treat vegetables with the same respect and bold flavour energy usually reserved for meat. He chars, grills, caramelises, and infuses them with so much flavour that you'll forget they were ever a "side dish." It's truly a game-changer for anyone wanting to inject more exciting veg into their meals. The way he organises the book by vegetable type is brilliant too – super easy to grab whatever's in season or needs using up from the fridge.

After diving deep into Cooking with Vegetables, I've definitely got my top five go-to recipes that have genuinely elevated my kitchen game.

Person intently reading Jesse Jenkins' 'Cooking with Vegetables' cookbook, open to a recipe page.

Photo showing Deborah Alma's "The Poetry Prescription" books, "Inspiration" and "First Aid", alongside chocolate "pills" and a notepad.

Today, I want to talk about something incredibly close to my heart: wellbeing and mental health. For me, it's not just about getting by; it's about being more than okay. It's about cultivating a stable state of mind, not letting life's inevitable bumps and twists derail my inner peace. We're all just passing through this world, aren't we? And I truly believe we should strive to spend our time here happy, not just constantly chasing achievements, but genuinely enjoying every single step.

Sometimes, we all need a little nudge, a fresh perspective, or a spark to ignite our spirit. For me, inspiration often comes from the simple beauty of nature, the unwavering support of my family, and, most profoundly, through prayer and seeking that fresh anointing. It’s in those moments that everything just clicks and makes sense.

That's why I'm so excited to share with you something that perfectly aligns with this philosophy: The Poetry Prescription series by the incredible Deborah Alma. You might know Deborah as the "Emergency Poet," who famously offered "poetry on prescription" from her vintage ambulance, and as the founder of The Poetry Pharmacy in Shropshire and London. Her vision is all about making poetry accessible and a powerful tool for healing and inspiration, bringing it directly to where people need it most. She truly believes poetry is an art form for everyone, capable of bringing deep comfort and insight, much like music or painting.

I've been fortunate enough to receive a bundle of her latest two books in this collectible, pocketable series: Inspiration, designed to boost creativity, and First Aid, a soothing balm for wellbeing and mental health. Let me tell you, these aren't just books; they're little packets of solace and sparks, beautifully curated to touch your soul. Along with these treasures, I also received some of The Poetry Pharmacy's famous prescription pills (don't worry, they're chocolate!), and a notepad – perfect for jotting down my own thoughts inspired by these verses.


Do you know that a lot of lounges and properties where you book for vacations have faulty or non-working detectors? Do you know there are items you should travel with, but there's one most important item everyone should always travel with, and most people don't? Some folks just have smoke detectors in their houses but don't have a carbon monoxide detector. I heard a story of a couple who noticed they were feeling dizzy and called emergency only for them to find out there was a carbon monoxide leak in their house. They were told if they had spent one more second inside that house, they would not have made it alive. They got a carbon monoxide detector, and it hit me how many times we travel to unfamiliar properties, sleep, and just trust. Man, God is indeed in control.

If for anything, whether you're doing a road trip or staying in an unfamiliar environment, you should pack along a carbon monoxide detector and not just any one – get a good, recommended, and tested brand. This is a vital healthy travel tip for safe travel.

What is Carbon Monoxide (CO)? The Invisible Threat

So, what exactly is this invisible killer? Carbon monoxide (CO) is a colorless, odorless, and tasteless gas. You literally cannot see, smell, or taste it. It's produced when fuels (like gas, oil, kerosene, wood, or charcoal) don't burn completely. Common sources in homes or travel accommodations include:
  • Furnaces or boilers
  • Water heaters
  • Gas stoves or ovens
  • Fireplaces
  • Clothes dryers
  • Portable generators (especially dangerous if used indoors or too close to windows)
  • Car exhausts (if a vehicle is running in an attached garage, for instance)
This gas is so dangerous precisely because it's undetectable by human senses. That's why having a carbon monoxide detector is non-negotiable.

How CO Kills: The Silent Takeover

The scary part is that carbon monoxide kills you by suffocating you from the inside out. When you breathe in carbon monoxide, it gets into your blood and sticks to the hemoglobin in your red blood cells. What is the problem? Hemoglobin, which is the portion of your blood that carries oxygen, actually likes carbon monoxide more than oxygen. It sticks to CO roughly 200 to 250 times more easily than it does to oxygen.

This means that even small amounts of CO can quickly fill up your red blood cells, leaving no room for oxygen. Your body's vital organs—like your brain and heart—become starved of oxygen, leading to cell damage and, ultimately, death. This happens silently, often while people are sleeping, which is terrifying when you think about vacation safety and travel health.

Recognizing the Signs: Carbon Monoxide Poisoning Symptoms

The symptoms of carbon monoxide poisoning can be tricky because they often mimic common illnesses like the flu, food poisoning, or fatigue, especially when you're traveling and might be tired or exposed to new environments. That's why people often dismiss early signs.

Common symptoms include:
  • Mild headache
  • Dizziness
  • Nausea and vomiting
  • Fatigue or tiredness
  • Shortness of breath
  • Confusion or disorientation
  • Blurred vision
  • As CO levels increase or exposure time lengthens, symptoms worsen to include:
  • Severe headache
  • Vertigo
  • Weakness
  • Loss of consciousness
  • Collapse
  • Brain damage
  • Coma and death
Notice how easily these could be mistaken for jet lag or a bad meal, especially in an unfamiliar property. That's why you can't rely on your body to warn you.

If you or someone else has these symptoms, you should consult a doctor right away. If your symptoms are bad or getting worse, call 999 and tell them you could have been exposed to carbon monoxide.

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