
Let's be honest for a second.
Have you ever looked at your bank account and felt that cold, heavy knot in your stomach? You know the feeling. It's the anxiety that creeps in when the bills arrive, or the panic when you realize you're just shuffling money from one credit card to another, trying to stay afloat.
It’s the reality for so many people: mounting credit card debt, the stress of living paycheck to paycheck, and that draining feeling like you’re running a marathon but never getting ahead. We fall into debt through the slow creep of everyday life—the student loans that feel insurmountable, the "must-have" items purchased with plastic, the unexpected emergencies. It's a trap, and it feels like the walls are closing in. If that’s you right now, you are not alone.
For years, I’ve been fascinated by the idea of manifestation—the Law of Attraction—as a tool, not just for good parking spots, but for fundamental life change. Could it really work on something as concrete and unforgiving as debt? I mean, I love the positive thinking, but what about the actual, scary numbers?
So, when a personal letter from the manifestation guru herself, Rhonda Byrne, landed my door step, I was speechless.
I’m thrilled to share that I received an advanced copy of Rhonda Byrne’s latest book: 21 Days to Financial Freedom: Countdown to Riches. Rhonda, the incredible mind behind the global phenomenon, The Secret, guarantees this book holds the 21 wealth-attracting habits that will bring financial freedom to anyone who puts them into practice. She guarantees it: “I can assure you—from personal experience—they work.”

The Elephant in the Room: Why We Stay Broke
Before we go into Rhonda’s methods, we have to talk about the brutal reality this book is up against. Because the struggle isn't just about bad thoughts; it’s about a system designed to keep the money flowing away from us.
It’s the sheer complexity and cost of life that keep most of us trapped. We talk about personal debt, but we need to talk about systemic debt traps.
The Government’s Cut: When you talk about gaining wealth, you have to talk about how the government uses taxes to keep you paying forever. I recently learned that after buying a house and paying off your mortgage for years, the minute the value of your house goes up, you pay even more in taxes! Some people are paying up to £800 a month in additional taxes just for the privilege of owning their home. The goalposts keep moving even after struggling to pay their mortage.
Retirement Anxiety is Real: We’re told to save into a pension, but what about the fact that pensions often don’t solve the issues for elderly people? We see veterans homeless, struggling to get by, despite having "served their time." The thought of retiring poor is a terrifying reality for many. The biggest mistake is that a lot of people do not plan for retirement early. We look at a pension pot and think "future problem," when in reality, young people need to realize they are already planning retirement today, often using the wrong, high-fee tools. Some people even plan are systemic chnge ends up messing them up.
Investment Traps: It's not just consumer debt. Bad investments—like high-fee mutual funds or falling for the latest speculative craze without understanding the risk—are silent killers of wealth. The top things that hold people in debt or investment traps often boil down to high-interest credit cards, car loans that depreciate immediately, not having an emergency fund, and paying excessive fees for financial "help."

It’s overwhelming. So, the question becomes: Can a mindset shift really tackle a tax code and a lifetime of high-interest debt?
The 21-Day Wealth Blueprint: Your Mind Must Become Wealthy First
This is where Rhonda Byrne’s book steps in. She argues that the struggle isn't just about income; it's about deep-seated, subconscious beliefs—those "old financial scripts" that keep us in a state of scarcity. Countdown to Riches is a 21-day boot camp designed to eliminate that fear.
The book is structured brilliantly, like a construction project for your new reality:
The Foundation (Days 1–7): This is where she gets you started. It's about getting incredibly clear on your desires (DAY 1: YOUR WISH LIST) and, crucially, flipping the dread of bills into gratitude (DAY 2: TURN OUTGOING MONEY INTO INCOMING MONEY). The idea is to stop the negative energy loop of spending and start feeling abundance instead of panic.
Accelerating the Flow (Days 8–14): This section gets aggressive with visualization. DAY 13: I’M A MULTIMILLIONAIRE is a bold practice of pretending you already have the wealth you desire. My favorite practice here is DAY 14: THANK YOU—PAID!—a brilliant idea where you take your bills and write “THANK YOU—PAID!” on them, closing the debt loop with gratitude instead of fear.
Living in Abundance (Days 15–21): The final week is about cementing the belief. DAY 17: MORE MONEY IS COMING TO ME TODAY is a high-vibration affirmation to hold all day long. This is about making these habits automatic so financial freedom becomes an inevitable result of your new consciousness.
The Takeaway: A Path Out of the Debt Trap
For anyone struggling with the constant stress of money—that feeling that your circumstances are permanent—Countdown to Riches offers a powerful lifeline. It’s a tool for transforming that debt-ridden feeling into one of hope, gratitude, and confident expectation.
Is this the only book you should read? Absolutely not. To truly gain financial freedom, we need the mental shift and the practical knowledge. This book gives us the mental strength to stop seeing the mountain of debt and start seeing the path. But to truly come out of debt, you need to pair the belief with action.
That’s why, after I finish Rhonda’s 21-day boot camp, there is one other book I want to read.
Rhonda Byrne has given us a clear, day-by-day path to rewire the subconscious. I’m so excited to start this journey and share my progress with you all. If you’ve ever felt stuck, this book might just be the map you need to start your countdown to riches.


Irs such a current amd important subject to write about.
ReplyDeleteLoved the clearance of the language
Thanks for sharing
It's a subject that's both current and critically important. Everyone deserves to feel financially secure, and it starts with understanding the rules of the game.
DeleteThat's an interesting book, Melody. I noticed that people spend more money with credit cards than cash, as plastic makes them focus more on benefits and less on cost.
ReplyDeleteAccording to studies, using a card encourages spending, unlike cash. In addition, research shows credit card transactions are often larger than cash ones. Actually, coins create a stronger sense of loss, keeping spending in check (necessity, affordability, budget, etc.).
Thank you for sharing :-)
Giorgio, that observation about credit cards versus cash is spot-on. It’s pure behavioral psychology, and the wealthy know this trick better than anyone. You've noticed that paying with cash creates a healthy "pain of paying." That pain is a built-in spending governor. But here is the deep wealth advice on how successful people use credit cards they totally flip the script on that "pain" factor: The Law of Interest as a Personal Penalty.
DeleteThe majority use credit cards to overspend and pay high interest. The wealthy use cards exclusively for the benefits and float, and they make sure they pay the balance off in full, every single month.
I am on the verge of retirement and I must admit that I feeel the anxiety you write about...
ReplyDeleteThat feeling is so real and completely understandable. Please know that anxiety about retirement isn't failure; it's a completely natural response to a huge, beautiful life change. You're shifting the foundation you've stood on for decades.
DeleteHabrá que comprar este libro, los impuestos cada vez son más tal como comentas.
ReplyDeleteUn abrazo,
I totally get that feeling. High taxes can feel like a penalty for having been responsible. It makes the idea of retirement a lot less comfortable. You’re right to see it as the most critical factor right now.
DeleteNiewątpliwie warto czytać tego typu publikacje. Tej jeszcze nie miałam okazji poznać.
ReplyDeleteThat's the spirit. It’s definitely worth the time. Even if you're already feeling financially steady, you always learn something that changes your perspective, right? I put a lot of heart into that article because the mindset shift Rhonda teaches is the spark, but the reality is you need the real-world blueprint to make that fire sustainable.
DeleteHi Melody.
ReplyDeleteVery interesting article. I agree with Giorgio. I never pay with a plastic card, but with cash. Why? Because I know how much money I have and how much I can spend.
Unfortunately, the cost of living is very high. Unfortunately, for example, the lioness in my country wants to impose further taxes in the new year on some food.
The world is unfair. A handful of the richest people are getting even richer at the expense of "ordinary" people. In reality, poverty in the world is increasing.
Melody, I send you greetings and wish you a good, joyful new week!
Hi Anna. That means a lot. I really appreciate you taking the time to read the article. I absolutely hear you on the cash-only method; it's a brilliant way to feel the transaction and keep that spending awareness high. That discipline is truly the foundation.
DeleteYou hit on a painful truth about the cost of living and those relentless new taxes. It genuinely feels like the goalposts are always moving further away, especially when you see the wealthiest few pulling further ahead. It's frustrating, and you're right, it can feel incredibly unfair.
Sono contenta che tu abbia ricevuto in dono, direttamente dalla scrittrice questo libro.
ReplyDeleteIn questo modo hai potuto parlarne anche con in noi in maniera molto approfondita.
That is such a lovely thing to say. Honestly, getting that advance copy was a huge surprise, and it made diving into the material feel so much more exciting. I really wanted to share all those insights because talking through these financial challenges together is exactly how we all figure things out.
DeleteEsse tema faz parte dos nossos dias e muito interessante para aqui trazer!
ReplyDeleteGostei de ler!
beijos, tudo de bom,chica
This conversation is vital right now.
DeleteHi Melody, thank you for another very interesting read. This looks like a great book to add to the collection.
ReplyDeleteI really hope it gives you that extra push and a clear map for the next steps in your own financial journey. Adding a book like this to your collection is such a smart move, it’s like giving your financial brain a fresh coat of high-octane fuel.
DeleteWe don't use credit cards but still feel the impact of high prices, food, electricity and such. I don't have the expense of a car but use the free travel pass the government gives you to ride the bus or train. It helps but doesn't solve all of our worries.
ReplyDeleteThat's a very real and honest statement, and honestly, that feeling of being squeezed by high prices is exactly what I was trying to highlight with the "systemic debt traps" section. It's not about being irresponsible; it's about the cost of just existing right now. And good for you for using that free travel pass every single saving helps.
DeleteParecen buenos consejos para ayudar a bajar las deudas. Te mando un beso.
ReplyDeleteThat's the ultimate goal, right? Getting that debt burden lifted is the first and biggest step toward true financial peace.
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ReplyDeleteBoa noite, amiga Melody!
Não conheço o livro, mas será por certo muito interessante. Terá com certeza informações muito úteis.
Deixo os votos de uma feliz semana, com tudo de bom.
Beijinhos, com carinho e amizade.
Mário Margaride
http://poesiaaquiesta.blogspot.com
It truly means a lot to share these insights with people who are looking for that next level of financial security. I feel the same way: even if you start with just the mindset, the information you find along the way about real-world wealth is invaluable.
DeleteFirst, Melody you are stunningly beautiful. I had a very successful home business for 30 years. During covid I had to close up. I couldn't imagine how we would survive just on SS. I will tell you it has been tough. We don't use credit cards unless it's an emergency. In the US EVERYTHING is more expensive thanks to the "thing" in the white house. I would like to tell you all of the thngs we have done to cut costs in our household but...... the book is very interesting and I do believe that preparedness is key to any financial survival. Thank you so much for sharing this with FFO and a have the very best week.
ReplyDeleteThat is an incredibly generous compliment, thank you so much. It means a lot, especially when sharing something I care so much about. Wow, running a successful home business for 30 years is a massive achievement; that takes incredible dedication and smarts. I can absolutely imagine how stressful and truly tough that transition was, especially having to close up during COVID and then navigating the current reality of living primarily on Social Security. You are a survivor, and it shows in your discipline, only using credit cards for absolute emergencies is a sign of financial wisdom that most people never achieve.
DeleteThank you for the great review.
ReplyDeleteYou are welcome.
DeleteWow! How incredible that you were able to receive an advanced copy of the book! That is incredible! I have read some of the other The Secret books - and even watched the movie - so this review was especially fascinating. I really appreciate that you highlight the issues of the system itself as well as look at what the book has to offer. Money is something that can cause so much stress and anxiety...so much uncertainty. I love the idea about shifting the mindset many of us have about finances.
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It's truly awesome to hear from a fellow fan of The Secret. Thank you so much for reading and for catching what I was trying to get across, that the systemic stuff can feel like such a heavy anchor. That stress and anxiety you mentioned? That's what Rhonda's work starts to chip away at, which is powerful. But here’s something I learned from people who have successfully generated wealth that goes even deeper than just mindset: The mindset needs a map to follow.
DeleteA nice review, fortunately we are retired and don't have to be concerned - lucky I guess.
ReplyDeleteThat's wonderful news, Margaret. Seriously, reaching retirement with that kind of security is a huge accomplishment, and I'm genuinely happy for you.
DeleteI know her book about the big secret. It was quite interesting. I need to read this one.
ReplyDeleteHave a nice week.
Angelika
That’s fantastic, Angela. Knowing The Secret already means you’ve got that foundational belief system down, which is honestly the hardest part. You're already miles ahead on the mental blueprint.
DeleteThank you fro reviewing this book.
ReplyDeleteGod bless.
You are welcome.
DeletePension anxiety, investment traps, all of this exists here too. More and more people are living in old-age poverty. The book is definitely worth reading.
ReplyDeleteThat's the harsh, undeniable truth, isn't it? When you boil it down, that anxiety about old-age poverty and feeling trapped by those high-fee systems is precisely why I had to write that article. You see the problem exactly right: the system itself seems designed to move wealth away from ordinary people.
DeleteIt sounds like an interesting book
ReplyDeleteA great read.
DeleteYo creo que casi todos hemos tenido una época en que nos hemos visto un poco agobiados por las deudas , pero con sentido común y buen hacer se ha ido solucionando poco a poco. Me parece un libro interesante, aunque no lo he leido, me apetece hacerlo. Un saludo.
ReplyDeleteHi Julia, that is such a grounded and wise perspective. It’s fantastic that you navigated those tough periods with common sense and good management that really speaks to your discipline. You’re right, sometimes just getting focused is the best tool we have.
DeleteFantastic review. Thank you for this amazing post. Unfortunately, I don't know this book. I wonder if I can get it in my country. I'd love to read it to form my own opinion.
ReplyDeleteI truly hope you get your hands on the book.
DeleteBook looks interesting , Thanks a lot for your details review.
ReplyDeleteYou are welcome.
DeleteSounds like an interesting read, Melody, thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteWe only use our credit card sparingly and we aren't currently in debt. But the rising cost of living is very scary indeed. xxx
You are right, the rising cost of living, especially for those on fixed incomes, is absolutely terrifying. It's an invisible enemy that shrinks your security every single day.
DeleteBeautiful book review. Love add this to my read-list for 2026. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteAnnie,
Annies Food Diary
Adding it to your reading list for 2026 is a brilliant plan.
DeleteI think this is an important topic. Have a nice day and good mood!
ReplyDeleteI sincerely wish you a wonderful day and a great mood too! Focusing on these things should definitely bring a sense of clarity and upliftment.
DeleteI can tell you that for years my salary disappeared very quickly; I didn't think about expenses and/or emergencies, but let's say that by the end of the month there was always too little left. Now it has improved, I am constantly working on my finances, and writing in a notebook and frequently checking my account statement, along with planning my expenses, helps cover costs. It's true that often I reach the last days of the month with little money, but I manage to afford many things. The book is interesting, and I also suggest reading 'The Cappuccino Factor.' If we can afford to have breakfast at a café, we are richer than we think...
ReplyDeleteIt warms my heart to hear you’ve taken such proactive steps. Seriously, the discipline of writing everything down and checking your statements isn’t just good budgeting it's the first secret law of wealth that everyone ignores. You’ve already won the hardest battle, which is simply paying attention.
DeleteOlá minha querida amiga Melody. Sua dica literária é muito interessante. Pena que muitos livros desses autores não chegam nas livrarias brasileiras. Grande abraço do Brasil. Uma excelente segunda-feira.
ReplyDeleteIt is such a shame when great books are hard to find. It's like having a valuable piece of knowledge locked behind a border.
DeleteHola, Melody.
ReplyDeleteLa realidad es que actualmente vivimos en un mundo en el que los ricos se están haciendo más ricos, y los pobres son aún más pobres...¡desastroso!
Un abrazo y buen día.
También hay una nueva entrada en mi blog.
It truly feels disastrous and deeply unfair.
DeleteIt is not easy to save up in today's economy. We need all the tips we can get. I'm pretty good with being financially responsible, but I'm sure I need to learn more about finance. I'm not prone to random spending and I economize well. Still, I need to learn how to save up more, invest and achieve more financial freedom.
ReplyDeleteThat's exactly the right attitude to have. You've already won half the battle by being financially responsible and avoiding impulse spending. Now we can focus on the next level: turning that discipline into a machine for saving, investing, and achieving true financial freedom.
DeleteThis is one I definitely want to read! Thanks for summarizing it for us. I will be checking it out myself.
ReplyDeleteI'm genuinely happy to hear you're going to read this book. It's one thing to read a summary, but connecting with the material directly is where the real "aha!" moments happen.
DeleteSounds good.. looking forward to hear how you feel after implement the strategis.
ReplyDeleteI am always impriving and I know this will be another way to improve and do better. I will share at the right time. Thank you, Hena.
DeleteIt's something for me :)
ReplyDeleteThat's wonderful to hear you feel that way. Taking control of debt is the most important step for true financial freedom. It makes all the other wealth rules possible.
DeleteHello Melody,
ReplyDeleteWhat a good post about this book. Not everyone has enough money at the end of thr month.
The most important thing is health. Good to show this book.
Many greetings,
Marco