Recently, a disturbing incident involving a DoorDash delivery driver came to light. A couple ordered food and left what many would consider a modest tip. After the food was delivered to their porch, their security camera captured the driver spraying a substance onto the food package. Shortly after, the wife began eating the meal and started choking violently, coughing to the point of nearly losing consciousness. Only then did her husband review the camera footage and see the delivery driver, identifiable by her purple hair, spraying the food with what was later believed to be pepper spray.
The driver who was caught on camera tampering with a customer’s meal has officially been caught. Kourtney Stevenson, 29, was arrested in Kentucky and is facing multiple felony charges, including Consumer Product Tampering and Battery Resulting in Moderate Injury.
Despite her claiming she was just "spraying a spider," investigators didn't buy it—especially since it was 35°F outside! The couple she targeted ended up in agony, suffering from burning in their throats and stomachs.
This is exactly why we have to be careful. You can watch the shocking footage that led to her arrest right here:
This is not just a story meant to shock. It is a warning.
Food is not just a product. Food enters your body. It affects your health, your safety, and sometimes your survival. When you eat, you are placing immense trust in whoever prepared, handled, transported, and delivered that meal. In the past, food was prepared by family, trusted neighbors, or professionals working under strict oversight. Today, we are expected to trust complete strangers because an app tells us to.
That is a major shift, and we should not ignore its consequences.
Technology Is a Tool, Not a Guarantee of SafetyTechnology can be useful. Phones, apps, and delivery services were created to make life easier. But convenience does not automatically mean safety. There is a dangerous belief today that because something is popular, widely advertised, and used by millions, it must be safe. That is not always true.
Food delivery apps rely heavily on volume. Their main goal is to get as many drivers on the road as possible and as many orders delivered as possible. While companies often claim they conduct background checks, those checks are limited. A clean police record does not mean a person has good character. It only means they have not been caught.
Most delivery drivers are decent people trying to earn a living. That must be said clearly. But the system does not filter for emotional stability, moral judgment, or impulse control. And when food is involved, even one bad actor is one too many.
The Illusion of Safety and the Reality of RiskFood delivery creates a long chain of handling: the restaurant, the packaging, the pickup, the transport, the drop-off, and finally you. Each step introduces risk. Once the food is left unattended on a porch or hallway, anything can happen. Cameras catch some incidents, but many homes do not have them.
Think about people with allergies. Think about elderly individuals. Think about children. How many people may have gotten sick, choked, or worse without ever knowing why?
This is not paranoia. This is awareness.
Tipping Culture and EntitlementAnother uncomfortable truth must be addressed: entitlement.
No one has the right to tamper with food because they are unhappy with a tip. If someone accepts a job knowing the pay structure, they are responsible for doing that job with integrity. Doctors, nurses, pilots, security guards, cleaners, retail workers, and many others do not receive tips, yet they perform their duties professionally every day.
Tipping is optional, not a moral obligation enforced by threat. When entitlement turns into retaliation, it becomes dangerous. And when that retaliation involves food, it becomes potentially deadly.
Low pay is a real issue, but poisoning or tampering with someone’s meal is never justified. If a job is unbearable, the responsible choice is to leave it, not to harm others.
Weak Oversight and Corporate DetachmentThe harsh reality is that large corporations are insulated from the consequences of these incidents. Executives are not ordering food through these apps daily. They have private chefs, trusted staff, and controlled environments. When something goes wrong, the burden falls on the customer, not the company.
Reports are filed. Apologies are issued. Life goes on.
But for families affected, the damage is real.
| Kourtney N. Stevenson (Courtesy: McCracken County Jail) |
There was a time when food was prepared at home, shared at the table, and treated with respect. Vulnerable people were assisted by trusted caregivers, not anonymous gig workers rushing against a timer.
Cooking is not always easy. Life is busy. But learning to prepare simple meals, buying groceries, and eating in places where you can see your food being made restores control. It reduces risk. It strengthens self-reliance.
You do not need to embrace every new technology simply because it exists. Wisdom lies in knowing what to accept and what to refuse.
Teaching the Next GenerationChildren must be taught early that they are not entitled to everything they want. Entitlement breeds resentment, and resentment leads to harmful behavior. Love is not giving without limits. Love is teaching truth, discipline, and responsibility.
A society that avoids correction creates adults who cannot handle disappointment. And when disappointment meets access to someone else’s food, the results can be tragic.
This world is not as gentle as it once was. That does not mean we should live in fear, but it does mean we must live with awareness. Your life is not a gamble. Your health is not a convenience fee.
If there is one habit worth reconsidering as we move forward, it is cooked food delivery from strangers. Prepare your meals when you can. Eat where accountability exists. Teach your children caution, patience, and responsibility.
Technology should serve humanity, not endanger it.
Sometimes, the old ways were not outdated. They were wise.
Photo by Mikhail Nilov
Hi Melody! First of all, congratulations on being featured on Nicole's FFO. You make some really good points here. I don't order food delivery very often, because my wife enjoys cooking, so we only eat out occasionally. However, my daughters do, so that's scary. Happy Holidays!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much. It is such an honor to be featured on Nicole’s FFO but I have not seen the feature. I will check it out.
DeleteI’m glad you and your wife have that routine; there’s nothing quite like a home-cooked meal for peace of mind. Happy Holidays to you and your family.
Que pena o acontecido! Aqui confio nos nossos entregadores e tomara não me engane! Lindo fim de semana! beijos, FELIZ NATAL! chica
ReplyDeleteI sincerely hope your trust stays well-placed. Most drivers are just good people trying to do their jobs, but stories like this are such a wake-up call. It’s definitely one of those situations where you just have to stay vigilant and hope for the best.
DeleteBoa tarde Melody. Nunca comi comida por APP. Aqui no Brasil tem muitos falsos entregadores. Grande abraço carioca do Brasil.
ReplyDeleteIt’s interesting (and scary) to hear that Brazil deals with "fake" drivers on top of everything else, it just goes to show that these safety issues are happening everywhere. I’ll definitely stick to my own kitchen.
DeleteIo non ordino mai cibo da consegna e, dopo aver letto questo post, sono molto contenta di non farlo !!! Ne approfitto per lasciarti i miei auguri di buone feste !! Saluti.
ReplyDeleteI don't blame you one bit. Seeing stories like this definitely validates the choice to skip the delivery apps altogether. It's just not worth the gamble.
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ReplyDeleteWhat a terrible story! If I were in their shoes, I wouldn't forgive them and I would report this to the appropriate authorities.
Melody, I send you greetings and wish you a good weekend!
I’m with you, forgiveness is a tall order when someone’s health is intentionally put at risk like that. Thankfully, the authorities did step in and she’s facing several felonies. It’s just a heavy reminder that we really have to be our own best advocates when it comes to safety these days.
DeleteWe can't order food, bing rural. I am sure awful things can happen.
ReplyDeleteIn this case, being rural is actually a blessing in disguise. It’s scary to think about what can happen when you lose that line of sight on your food. Sometimes the inconvenience of living far out is exactly what keeps us safe and intentional about what we're eating.
DeleteI don't even know how to comment on such a story..... :(
ReplyDeleteI know, it’s honestly hard to find the right words when something is this senseless.
DeleteOh Melody. This story is upsetting and I can't quite believe someone can be so evil. Ohhh wait, I forgot the time we are living in, so yes, I can. Again you have written about a subject that must be addressed on so many levels. Especially the part about the children. As you know, with Mr. M's. kidney issues we don't eat out or have food delivered. Having a meal with family is almost lost but is so important in family life. Also the corporate detachment. They would never think to have food dropped at the door. Or to pay employers a decent wage. It would cut into their pockets. It's a wicked circle that has engulfed our world. On a better note, wishing you a very happy holiday season and the best for 2026.
ReplyDeleteIt’s so good to hear from you, and you’re exactly right. It’s heartbreaking that we’ve reached a point where evil is just another headline we have to navigate. I’m so glad you and Mr. M have stuck to home-cooked meals; it’s honestly the only way to be 100% sure of what’s going into your body, especially with his kidney health.
DeleteTerrible
ReplyDeleteIt really is. It’s hard to wrap your head around someone being that cruel over something as simple as a food delivery. Just a sad situation all around.
DeleteThis was such a horrible act for her to commit. You just cant be too careful.
ReplyDeleteYou’re so right, it’s just a sad reality of the world we're living in now. You think you're just ordering a quick dinner, but you end up having to worry about your basic safety. Being careful isn't even a choice anymore; it's a necessity.
DeleteThese door dash drivers are getting completely out of hand. I only ordered DoorDash twice and both times they never delivered it to my address. So I never ordered it again. I'm sure they stole my food. Not worth the hassle.
ReplyDeleteI don't blame you one bit for being done with them. Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, and the app gets deleted.
DeleteHow could someone so mean? These days you just can't trust anyone any more...
ReplyDeleteIt’s a hard truth to swallow, isn't it? It’s truly unsettling how some people can justify that kind of cruelty over something so minor.
DeleteNon sapevo di questo incidente e sono molto scioccata.
ReplyDeletePer fortuna io faccio parte della "vecchia guardia" e a casa non mi faccio mai portare nulla da mangiare.
Preferisco fare io la spesa e piuttosto preparare qualcosa di semplice, oppure andare direttamente a mangiare fuori
It’s a hard truth to swallow, isn't it? It’s truly unsettling how some people can justify that kind of cruelty over something so minor.
DeleteI don't trust meal deliveries. Back when I was a teenager in the late 60's I knew a boy who bragged about spitting on the chicken he delivered.I don't know if it was true or he just wanted attention but that was the first time I realized how vulnerable meal delivery is.
ReplyDeleteI do not trust meal deliveries either. Imagine if it were true...we really take risks using these modern technologies.
DeleteBoa noite de paz, querida amiga Melody!
ReplyDeleteVocê abordou um assunto polêmico bem atual.
Comprar comida pronta é um perigo...
Vamos ter toda cautela na aquisição e seguir cozinhando ou comendo em lugares de total segurança.
Tenha dias de dezembro abençoados!
Beijinhos fraternos
We all need to be careful about what we eat. Some restaurants go as far as preserving their food with chemicals, and we end up getting sick while they focus on making money.
DeleteWhat a mean and dangerous thing to do. I don't get food deliveries but if I did, this would be a memory to keep. Lots of mean people out there in this world.
ReplyDeleteYou are doing well. Preparing your food yourself is always the best option.
Deletemuy justo que esta repartidora de comida esté encarcelada. es una psicópata que puede matar personas. la comida de la gente debe ser respetada.
ReplyDeleteun abrazo. que tengas un buen fin de semana.
I don't agree with labeling every person who commits a crime as a psychopath. This can lead to them receiving reduced sentences when in reality they are just regular people who choose to do evil things. She deserves the sentence she got, and people's food should be respected.
DeleteUgh, I saw this on the news and it is scary! It is just like with any delivery, even pizza... you never know!
ReplyDeleteCarrie
curlycraftymom.com
This can happen with any delivery; we all have to be extra careful.
DeleteOlá, amiga Melody.
ReplyDeleteEsta história é de facto assustadora. Esta mulher por certo não estaria bem da cabeça, para fazer o que fez. Naturalmente não se pode generalizar a todas as pessoas que fazem este tipo de entregas. Mas, põe-nos em alerta. Isso é uma realidade.
Deixo os meus votos de um bom fim de semana, e um Feliz Natal com tudo de bom, junto de quem mais amas.
Beijinhos, com carinho e amizade.
Mário Margaride
http://poesiaaquiesta.blogspot.com
https://soltaastuaspalavras.blogspot.com
She is just a wicked person going about doing evil.
DeleteIt's terrible, Melody!
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely terrible.
Delete搞到唔敢買外賣 @@
ReplyDeleteI think at this point, everyone should exercise caution when ordering food for delivery.
DeleteUy que terrible por lo general no suelo pedir mucha comida a domicilio. Te mando un beso.
ReplyDeleteCooking your food yourself is the way to go. It's fresher, healthier, and more economical than eating out. Plus, you can control the ingredients and make sure your food is cooked to your liking.
DeleteCongratulations being featured on Nicole's FFO. That's wonderful and very well deserved. I read about this story and shook my head. Fortunately she was caught so no one else would have to deal with her delivering - you just never know what would happen with the next people who get her upset. These things have a tendency to escalate and this was bad enough. I am one who rarely orders food delivery. During the pandemic we would have our groceries dropped off, sometimes a restaurant delivery here and there. I never had a problem thankfully.
ReplyDeleteThanks a bunch! I haven't checked out that feature yet. I'm glad she was caught and that no one has to deal with her for now. We learn something new every day, and I've decided to stop ordering food, even though I rarely do it anyway.
DeleteMelody, por suerte no me gusta comer fuera de mi casa y menos la comida rápida, soy muy obsesiva con la higiene en los alimentos, eso que contas es horrible.
ReplyDelete¡Te deseo con todo mi corazón una Feliz Navidad y un Prospero Año Nuevo!
Hasta el Año que viene, que el niño Jesús te bendiga.
Que en tu corazón haya siempre espacio para la alegría, la fe y la esperanza, y que la dicha nunca falte en tu vida.
Besos bella Melody
Wishing you a merry Christmas too! I hope that next year, people will be able to cook at home and enjoy their meals with peace of mind.
DeleteOlá, Melody, a sua postagem e o vídeo servem de avisos para
ReplyDeleteque tenhamos mais cuidados com a comida que pedimos. Essa
atitude da entregadora mostra bem a sua maldade, e o risco para
o consumidor.
Votos de um Feliz Natal para você e sua família e um ótimo Ano Novo.
Abraços.
It's not responsible for her to be doing food delivery. She's putting the public at risk.
DeleteUn episodio scioccante che smaschera l’illusione di sicurezza della consegna a domicilio e ci ricorda quanto la fiducia nel cibo, oggi delegata agli sconosciuti, resti un atto fragile e rischioso.
ReplyDeleteUn caro saluto
Strangers shouldn't be delivering my food starting next year. There are too many scary stories out there.
DeleteWow, why would someone do that? I never order food but go out for dinner a lot. And you never know what happens in a restaurant kitchen right?
ReplyDeleteWe never truly know, so we must remain vigilant, exercise caution, and prioritize home-cooked meals.
DeleteOn Saturdays we usually order food and fortunately we've never had any problems, in fact, here in Portugal I've never heard of anyone doing anything like that.
ReplyDeleteI take this opportunity to wish you Happy Holidays 🎄 and an excellent New Year 🎉 filled with joy, health, peace and love.
Hi Maria, food delivery means trusting a stranger with your food, and you never know. Just be careful out there and have a wonderful Christmas and peaceful holiday season.
DeleteWhat an absolutely shocking story! I have never in my life ordered food delivery and I don't think I ever will now! xxx
ReplyDeleteYou're headed in the right direction! I actually haven't ordered much this year. I think I've only ordered three times, and that was when I was sick. But next year, I'll do even better.
DeleteI never even thought that a supplier could poison food! I am shocked by how mean and dissatisfied with life people are and how dangerous they can be. I love to cook and I don't order food. My husband cooks too and we always prepare our food at home. I also have a garden and grow a lot of things, but I can't cover everything we eat. This is where trust in the producers we buy from comes in. The fear of GMO products and how much food is not processed with pesticides. How much organic is organic.
ReplyDeleteHappy holidays, dear Melody!
You might want to consider how many people have fallen victim to food delivery people. I hope we all learn from these incidents and take steps to ensure our safety. Preparing food at home is the most convenient and secure way, especially when done in a clean and hygienic manner. I'm planning to have my own garden where I can grow my vegetables. Honestly, I'm also wary of GMO products.
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ReplyDeleteWe all need to be careful.
DeleteComo nos dices no todos repartidores son como esta mujer y estoy de acuerdo con lo que nos dices sobre las propinas que deben ser voluntarias. Quien debe dar un salario digno a sus empleados es el empresario.
ReplyDeleteEn el lugar donde vivo hay una empresa se dedica a llevar a personas, en especial de avanzada edad, a su domicilio.
Desearte que pases unos días llenos de felicidad para ti con todos tus seres queridos y el nuevo año te traiga un montón de buenas noticias.
Saludos.
I completely agree with you. Ensuring fair wages is definitely the employer’s responsibility, and it’s wonderful that companies support people, especially the elderly, in practical ways. Wishing you a joyful holiday season with your loved ones and a new year full of happiness and good news.
DeleteCozinhar é uma expressão, na sua essência, de afeto e não de ódio. Lamentável que pessoas amargas pervertam o real sentido disso.
ReplyDeleteUm abraço amigo e votos de um feliz natal.
Absolutely, cooking is a gesture of care and warmth. It’s unfortunate when negativity overshadows its true purpose, which is to nourish and bring people together.
DeleteA sad sign of our time. Happy holidays,
ReplyDeleteAmalia
xo
Really sad.
DeleteI rarely use such services, and I think that it has just become even more unlikely!
ReplyDeleteHope you have a Great Christmas.
Cheers - Stewart M - Melbourne
It is always good to cook at home, especially when you can, to avoid all these uncertainties.
DeleteOMG. I have never used Door Dash or any delivery service - but I just signed up last week.This is terrifying and makes me rethink delivery services. Thanks for sharing this.
ReplyDeleteIt’s understandable to feel that way. Delivery services can be convenient, but it’s always wise to stay cautious and informed. Your awareness now will help you use them safely.
Delete🖤🖤 douce soirée ! Kiss 🖤🖤😈
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