Retirement Dilemma: Selling Your Home for Care Costs

Today, I'd like to discuss something I've noticed, and it's probably happening in a few other places too.

Since I moved to the UK, I've encountered many surprising things, but one has really caught my attention, which is why I'm talking about it in this post. In the UK, the cost of having a mortgage is quite high, and living here is expensive. It often feels like what you pay doesn't match what you get in return. This is my personal opinion.

People in the UK work hard and pay a lot of taxes. Some of that money goes into their retirement savings, while some is used to pay for their mortgages. However, as they get older and might become unwell, they can't take care of themselves, and they end up in a care home to get the help they need. Despite the fact that I have never worked in a care home, I have read and heard about them.

For some, they've saved a good amount to afford this service, and a few rely on their children, which isn't uncommon. However, for others, selling their homes becomes necessary to cover the costs of care.

You make lifelong mortgage payments and continue to work until you are 55–65 years old, which is roughly the same age at which most people finish paying off their mortgage. Then you require care and are forced to sell your home to finance it.

Do not forget that, depending on the nature of your occupation, working for an extended period of time can have a negative impact on your health. 

I want to emphasize that the focus here is on those who have to sell their homes to pay for care after they have only completed the payment for it between the ages of 50 and 65. Don't misunderstand me; care services are vital for those in need of care. But my point is, if you've worked your whole life and paid off your mortgage, only to find yourself needing care when you are more than 55 and having to sell your home to cover these expenses, was buying a house truly a good financial plan?

It raises questions about whether taking a mortgage is the most effective path to a better life, considering the possibility of working tirelessly without securing financial stability in the end.

My question is: after years of working and paying for a mortgage, you are now retired and supposed to be enjoying the comfort of your home, but you suddenly need care, and instead of the government providing you long-term care at an affordable rate from your home, you end up selling the house that you just finished paying the mortgage for, putting the money into a care home, and giving that money back to the system. Did you actually accomplish anything?

I'm genuinely interested in your thoughts on this topic.

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Outfit summary
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Bag: River island

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