tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050242060591934043.post3709541472090428294..comments2024-03-28T07:59:32.009+00:00Comments on Melody Jacob: I lost my best friend and he called off the weddingMELODY JACOBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05028937757407238470noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050242060591934043.post-75637462270220219802020-11-24T18:30:30.573+00:002020-11-24T18:30:30.573+00:00Call her. She needs support and understanding. Ple...Call her. She needs support and understanding. Please do not judge the other person for what they want in life.<br />What we see is good for them is mostly not what they see and want.<br /><br />The most important thing to get through the trials and hardships of life is a good friend who will listen and not judge and who will give opinions without expectations<br /><br />Be there for your friend. That is what friends doRay Granthttps://www.quora.com/profile/Ray-Grant-47noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050242060591934043.post-27607537555008327712020-11-24T18:15:10.495+00:002020-11-24T18:15:10.495+00:00If you feel like reaching out to her again and you...If you feel like reaching out to her again and you don’t think your call will be ignored or construed as an “I told you so” message of self-righteousness, then sure, you can give it a try.<br /><br />But if you do, you need to refrain from passing any judgments against her or her ex. Just because it was “obvious” to you that her relationship wasn’t working wasn’t “obvious” to her. You need to respect her different perspective and keep your mouth shut with regard to her relationship. Otherwise, you will come off like you are slapping her in the face on top of her pain at canceling her wedding.Jennifer Fingerhttps://www.quora.com/profile/Jennifer-Finger?__nsrc__=4noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050242060591934043.post-90125965430460734882020-11-24T18:12:14.400+00:002020-11-24T18:12:14.400+00:00I think You should call her while mindfully Prayin...I think You should call her while mindfully Praying Her Up in your day to day, Listening and responding When She Asks, Supporting Her in her second, better decisionTracey Andersonhttps://www.quora.com/profile/Tracey-Anderson-72?__nsrc__=4noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050242060591934043.post-81643084896288737992020-11-24T18:08:23.643+00:002020-11-24T18:08:23.643+00:00Hello there…
Well of course you should….
We'...Hello there…<br /><br />Well of course you should….<br /><br />We've all been there..we like a guy way too much and we are blind to all the crap they send our way because we love them…<br /><br />Everyone else can see and our closest friends most of all but we're blind sighted to it..we moan and cry when thing's are not going so good but ultimately we continue in like a vicious cycle and our friends get fed up listening to us because we never do anything about it..<br /><br />So the weddings off but is the relationship still going?..<br /><br />You need to be a friend to her if this guy is still on the horizon or just flitting back and forth she needs your strength to get through it and show her there's more to life than this creep…<br /><br />but by herself she is vulnerable and he can alianate her from her family and friend's tear her confidence to shreds then she will be totally at his mercy and heaven forbid she gets pregnant by him…or anyone else whilst she's in such a low state….<br /><br />Try and put your feeling's aside and just be a friend to her sounds like this nan treats her like dirt perhaps you could search out some better suitors for her there must be some nice guys who would treat her right…<br /><br />Try and spend some time with her so she sees there's more to life…<br /><br />I hope this helps…good luck…give her a call..Angelina Dominichttps://www.quora.com/profile/Angelina-Dominic?__nsrc__=4noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050242060591934043.post-48723400341591559672020-11-24T12:13:39.240+00:002020-11-24T12:13:39.240+00:00Thank you for sharing your story. I don't know...Thank you for sharing your story. I don't know the boyfriend or her so it is hard for me to comment on their relationship, but everything about his actions implies he doesn't care about her the way she does about him. I think you should call her because it is a shame to loose a friend. Maybe she is embarrassed to call you first so maybe it is good that you make the first step and call your friend. You don't have to talk about her cancelled wedding if that is too painful for her. Ivana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050242060591934043.post-69074336014713556752020-11-24T12:13:21.567+00:002020-11-24T12:13:21.567+00:00You've done what you could, and I just hope yo...You've done what you could, and I just hope your friend soon realizes.<br /><br />Jennifer<br /><a href="https://www.curatedbyjennifer.com/" rel="nofollow">Curated By Jennifer</a><br />Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16254092215963071370noreply@blogger.com